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Contents:
- ROSS MATHEWS: GAY PEOPLE 'WANTED ME OFF TV'
- POET ROSS GAY ON HIS NEW BOOK AND FDG JOY SORROW
- IN ROSS GAY’S ‘INCG JOY,’ HAPPS DON’T EXIST A VACUUM
- ROSS GAY ON CG JOY WHILE DG WH SORROW
- ROSS GAY’S SECRETS FOR LIVG A MORE JOYFUL LIFE
ROSS MATHEWS: GAY PEOPLE 'WANTED ME OFF TV'
In the last two years, seems like everyone has been searchg for joy. Now, poet Ross Gay is explorg qutns around that subject his new book "Incg Joy," a llectn of says released Tuday. * ross gay guy on tv *
When Ross Mathews started his reer as “Ross the Intern” on “The Tonight Show wh Jay Leno, ” there were only a small number of LGBTQ people on TV and gay men, Ross says, weren’t happy wh him reprentg them. Jefey Masters: I thk Jay Leno would be acced of gay bashg today.
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POET ROSS GAY ON HIS NEW BOOK AND FDG JOY SORROW
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"I remember beg a kid a farm town and realizg I was gay and then askg myself, What do a gay grown-up person look like?
IN ROSS GAY’S ‘INCG JOY,’ HAPPS DON’T EXIST A VACUUM
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"I remember thkg, God, I have to s down and talk to him bee he knows I'm gay, jt bee, you know, I'm on TV.
"But I wonr if he's ever seen a gay uple or somethg. Today, we're stg down wh the wrer Ross Gay.
So many thgs light Ross Gay: handma fy srv and loerg, the joy of rryg a heavy bag between two people, paw paws and even weeds.
ROSS GAY ON CG JOY WHILE DG WH SORROW
This summer, I reread yet aga and found myself medatg on a sire Gay had voiced: wantg to be softer a world so ready to sharpen and to make hard.
ROSS GAY’S SECRETS FOR LIVG A MORE JOYFUL LIFE
So, a recent terview, I talked to Gay about that sire, as well as the role of joy daily life, the difficulty of allowg yourself to be moved, and why he thks 's important to e the word "love.
Poet Ross Gay explor the qutns – What c joy?