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INVOLVG CT FATHERS WH THEIR CHILDREN IS PERSONAL FOR DCF'S ANTHONY GAY

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24--If you're lookg for someone to help volve fathers their children's liv, Anthony Gay is your man.

A social work supervisor for the state Department of Children and Fai, Gay knows how difficult, and how val, is to be a father who will have a lastg, posive impact on his children. Gay, who grew up New Haven and is based DCF's Torrgton office, is leadg the agency's fatherhood engagement efforts, closg the gap between servic offered to fathers and those given to mothers and children.

Gay knows the importance of fatherhood om both sis. And, vastated by the loss of that son a r crash, Gay has changed his outlook when to his send son.

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"If a father is illerate, if a father has no math skills, if they show an tert, the child do better amilly, " said Gay. "Our agency do a relatively good job engagg mothers across the board, " Gay said. While Gay said DCF still has a ways to go s efforts, is a prry for the partment.

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For Gay, 's personal. His own father, Ossie Gay Sr., while voted to his fay, wasn't able to be there for his son.

"We actually had a good relatnship, " Gay said.

ANTHONY GAY’S S SOLARY NFEMENT LED TO SELF-MUTILATN. NOW A PROPOSED LAW TO LIM PRISONER ISOLATN ILLOIS IS NAMED HIS HONOR.

An Illois man is fightg agast so-lled psychologil torture – after a mor probatn vlatn first sent him to prison for seven years, and then a fight behd bars led to a 22-year nightmare solary nfement. Now out, Anthony Gay told CBS 2 Polil Invtigator Dana Kozlov why he is fightg for a law to keep others om endurg the same fate. * anthony gay dcf *

Ossie Gay, born Geia and wh only a third-gra tn, worked wh his hands at low-wage jobs, so he wasn't home much. "I lerally saw my father when was time to go to school or was time to go to bed, " Anthony Gay said.

Ossie Gay was a chffr for the Veterans Admistratn, cleaned banks and was a matenance man at church.

AFTER 22 YEARS OF 'PSYCHOLOGIL TORTURE' IN SOLARY CONFEMENT, ANTHONY GAY FIGHTS FOR STATE LAW RTRICTG ITS USE

"He was a real handyman, so he would pick up jobs whenever he uld to make money, " Gay said. "Pretty much everythg I got was hand-me-downs, " said Gay, 49. But while he was almost always at work, Ossie Gay "was the only father on the block" their Edgewood neighborhood.

"So when he was around was a major thg, not only for me but [for] the other kids the neighborhood, " Gay said.

Anthony Gay was a basketball star at what is now Gateway Communy College, srg more than 40 pots a game. On senr night, Ossie Gay fally was able to get to his game, but Anthony felt so much prsure he sred fewer than 20 pots. Gay began to tear up as he said, "Seeg him se jt ma me so happy that I jt uldn't foc.

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Gay termed that his children, Damn and Prayc Gay, would not go whout as he had, so he followed his father's example and worked so hard he missed out on his own children's liv. Gay wasn't away om home que as much as his father was. " Damn Gay, 23, and a iend were leavg work and "drivg a ltle faster than they should have been, " police told Anthony.

When they got to the hospal, Damn's mother's partner hugged Gay and said, "We lost our boy. " But Gay wouldn't believe until the doctor said, "I'm sorry, sir, he didn't make . "I started kickg myself at that moment, sayg, 'I missed so much, '" Gay said.

Anthony Gay cid he would too. 14, 2014, he and his wife, Marza Asta-Gay, had a son, Noah, gave him a new chance. "Internally, I felt isolated and alone, " Gay said.

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Gay vowed to give Noah "everythg a child should have om a father. Gay had begun his work engagg wh fathers 2013, and his experience losg one son and gag another enabled him to relate to the fathers whose fai were DCF re.

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