Meet Alex Landi: Grey's Anatomy's first gay male surgeon, Ni Kim |

grey's anatomy first gay kiss episode

Last night's Grey's Anatomy featured the gay soldier romance I posted about mid-April. I've clipped the openg scene of the story for those who are terted after the jump. It don't give away how the episo ends (and I won't eher) but this clip should get your heart racg a b. The soldiers were played by Benny Ciaramello (Friday Night Lights' Santiago) and MTV Road Rul grad David Giuntoli. Well done, boys. Watch , AFTER THE JUMP...

Contents:

GREY'S ANATOMY ACTOR JAKE BORELLI OUT AS GAY

After his character shared the first gay male kiss on the h drama, Borelli ma his own statement onle. * grey's anatomy first gay kiss episode *

It's rare to see a gay relatnship between men shown on a televisn show of Grey's liber, and the normalcy and emotns showg the two's love for one another are rehg. Callie Torr' father to Seattle Grace wh the pastor of their church and a plan to nvce his dghter she isn't gay this emotnal episo that shows a real look at how people of the LGBTQ+ muny n be treated by their own loved on. After she shouts at her father that he n't "pray away the gay, " Callie tells Arizona she don't need a fay who's not gog to accept her for who she is.

" Kyle explas to Callie how all he wanted was to make the day feel special, as the state of Washgton didn't regnize gay marriage as a real marriage. Gay marriage fally beme legal jt 10 years ago Washgton, 2012, one year after this episo aired.

So the story didn’t beg wh, “Hey, we’ve never done a gay male love story.

DON'T ASK, DON'T KISS: "GREY'S ANATOMY" GO GAY WH ARY {FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}TVMAY 9, 2008/8:23 AMMAY 9, 2008 / 8:23 AM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"DON'T ASK, DON'T KISS: \"GREY'S ANATOMY\" GO GAY WH ARY SMOOCH","DATEPUBLISHED":"2008-05-09T12:23:02.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2008-05-09T12:23:02.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"KEYWORDS":"THE BACKLOT","ARTICLESECTN":"TV"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}GREY'S ANATOMY HAS LONG BEEN A FAVORE OF THE GAYS THANKS TO OUT SUPERSTAR T.R. KNIGHT, BUT FOR THIS WRER GREY'S FELL OM SEATTLE GRACE A LONG TIME AGO. I'M FICKLE THOUGH, SAY "G.I. JOE'S KISSG ANOTHER MAN" AND MY QUEER EY ARE THERE!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I JUMPED AT THE CHANCE TO WRE ABOUT THE ARY MAN-ON-MAN ACTN LONG TEASED, PECIALLY WHEN I FOUND OUT THAT SANTIAGO OM FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS WAS GOG TO BE ONE OF THE HOTTI SMOOCHG ONE OF MY FAVORE ROAD {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WATCHG "THE BEG" WAS BTERSWEET FOR ME; I HAD HOPED TO WATCH JT THIS ONE EPISO AND GET OUT WHOUT BEG SUCKED BACK TO THE MELODRAMA BUT KNEW WAS RISKY. I WAS BURNT TO A CRISP BY GIZZIE AND ISAIAH WASHGTON SO GREY'S FLATLED FOR ME LAST SEASON BUT I THK I N MOVE ON UNSTHED ... WHICH IS MORE THAN I N SAY FOR OUR GAY ARY BOYS AT THE CENTER OF THE DRAMA LAST {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}AS THE SHOW OPENED I WONRED HOW MUCH OF MEREDH'S SELFISH BANTER I'D HAVE TO ENDURE BEFORE THE REASON FOR ME TUNG POPPED UP ON SCREEN. THANKFULLY WAS WH THE FIRST FEW MUT OF THE SHOW THAT WE WERE TRODUCED TO DARREN COVGTON (FNL'S BENNY CIARAMELLO), THE NEWT PATIENT MCDREAMY AND MEREDH'S CLIL TRIAL OF DOOM (THE POOR BOY HAS A BRA TUMOR).{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}CUE THE STUD UNIFORM NAMED TODD VERNON (ROAD RULER DAVID GIUNTOLI) WHO WAS LLED BEE HE'S DARREN'S "CLOST IEND" AND WHILE THGS ARE LOOKG BLEAK THE ROOM, THGS ARE LOOKG DAMN FE ON MY FLATSCREEN! TWO STRAPPG YOUNG LADS WH A SECRET FOR SOME SEXUAL HEALG; 'S KDA HOT...{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}OBVLY DARREN'S UPSET THAT TODD SHOWED UP, SEEG HOW HE'S BEG PLOYED FIVE DAYS AND ALL, BUT WH ONLY MEREDH THE ROOM TODD LETS DARREN KNOW THAT HE'S NOT GOG ANYWHERE AND HE MAK HIS WAY TO THE BED AND REASSUR HIS SECRET LOVER WH A CRAZY TENSE STARE THAT LEADS TO ONE OF THE MOST SENSUAL, EMOTNAL AND DAMN NEAR HEART-BREAKG GAY KISS I'VE EVER SEEN ON WORK {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SADLY, THE PASSN AND RELIEF VANISH THE MUTE DARREN'S EX-SOLIR OF A FATHER WALKS , TCHG THE BOYS MAKG OUT. SERLY? SERLY! DADDY COVGTON FLIPS HIS LID, THROWS TODD OUT AND DARREN SPENDS MUCH OF THE RT OF THE EPISO NOT WANTG TO DISTURB HIS FATHER WHILE NYG HIS ONE TE LOVE. IF I'M BEG HONT, I THK DADDY COVGTON'S GOT A SECRET BEAR-ISH LIFTYLE HE'S HIDG ... DID YOU TCH THAT GOATEE? WHO'S HE FOOL'?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}DARREN'S SURGERY HAD ME ON PS AND NEEDL BEE THE UNIVERSE REVOLV AROUND THEM MER AND DER DIDN'T MAKE ALL ABOUT THEIR RELATNSHIP STEAD OF HOT ASS BRA TUMOR ON THE TABLE. THANKFULLY, THEY WERE ABLE TO FOC ON THE PATIENT FOR A SPL-SEND AND ALL SEEMED WELL UNTIL 9:45PM WHEN HE FLIPP' DI ON !{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I KNEW WAS G. I ULD TELL BY THE SAD LILH FAIR-LE MIC THAT DARREN AND TODD WEREN'T GOG TO HAVE THEIR DREAM HOE WH A WHE PICKET FENCE AND A TWO BAT-TANK GARAGE. WHAT I ULDN'T PREDICT WAS HOW EMOTNAL I WAS GOG TO GET. IT WAS GUT WRENCHG TO WATCH MEREDH TRY HER HARST TO GET {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BOYS TO HAVE A MOMENT TOGETHER BEFORE SURGERY ONLY TO HAVE FEAR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}DISSAPPOTMENT GET THE WAY, THANKS TO DADDY BEAR'S PROXIMY AT ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I'M NOT GOG TO LIE, I CRIED BIG BUCKET O' TEARS WHEN TODD FALLY GOT THE URAGE TO STAND UP TO DARREN'S DAD AND MAND HE ACCEPT THEIR LOVE AND ACKNOWLEDGE HIS NCERN, ONLY TO BE MET BY TEAR-STAED FAC SIGNIFYG ONLY ONE THG. TODD WAS CSHED, MEREDH WAS CSHED, AND AS PATHETIC AS SOUNDS, I WAS CSHED. JT WHEN I THK THE TEARS ARE DONE, THERE IS AN UNSPOKEN MON GROUND THAT DADDY BEAR AND TODD FOUND WHEN TODD GO FOR HIS FAL GOODBYE'S. SOFTLY, SWEETLY, HE LEANS AND KISS HIS AD LOVER (AND STROK HIS EAR - AN ADD TIMATE TOUCH PROBABLY UNNOTICED BY MANY) AND I BURST TO TEARS AGA!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I'M AN OPTIMIST WHEN TO LOVE. I WANTED TO BELIEVE THAT THE TWO ULD WORK THROUGH THE FEAR AND NIAL (NOT TO MENTN THE ARY) TO BE HAPPY AND GAY TOGETHER. WHILE A PART OF ME RENTED THE FACT THAT I WAS CRYG AT GREY'S ANATOMY, THE OTHER PART OF ME KNEW WAS BEE THEY'D DONE A REALLY NICE JOB WH HANDLG THE PLITNS OF FORBIDN LOVE A WORLD WHERE DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL IS STILL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THE STORYLE WASN'T REALLY POLIL NOR WAS PREACHY. IT FELT LIKE AN HONT PORTRAYAL OF UNNDNAL LOVE; WELL, THAT IS UNTIL MEREDH TRIED TO TURN ALL AROUND AND MAKE ABOUT HER THE FAL MOMENTS OF THE EPISO. THANK HEAVENS HER THERAPIST (THE AMAZG AMY MADIGAN) VERBALLY BCH-SLAPPED HER BACK TO REALY; THAT A MAN DYG HAVG NEVER SAID GOODBYE TO HIS TE LOVE THAT'S WAG THE ROOM NEXT DOOR IS NOT A HAPPY ENDG NO MATTER HOW YOU TRY TO SP {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I THK THAT WAS A VERY SUCCSFUL STORYLE AND I'M IMPRSED AT HOW GOOD BOTH OF THE ACTORS WERE THEIR RPECTIVE ROL. CIARAMELLO AND GIUNTOLI WERE NOT ONLY BELIEVABLE BUT PASSNATE, TIMATE, AND POWERFUL THEIR DOOMED PORTRAYALS. KUDOS TO BOTH FOR THE KISS TOO - THAT THG WAS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SO WHAT DID YOU GUYS THK? DID GREY'S DO A GOOD JOB AT TELLG A TABOO STORYLE WHOUT SENSATNALIZG OR TRIVIALIZG THE LOVE THE TWO SOLIRS HAD FOR ONE ANOTHER? DID YOU CRY? COME ON, BE HONT ... I N'T BE THE ONLY SAP OUT THERE - FS UP!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}*OH AND DON'T FET TO MENT ON CALLIE AND DR. HAHN HEADG TOWARD A LBIAN TRYST. I DON'T MD THAT AT ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}THE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS

It felt like an avenue unexplored after 15 seasons, and when we began to talk about the wrers’ room we all got really exced, and then we woke up the next morng to an email om our productn assistant Zaiver, who is a gay man and took the brave steps of wrg to the whole wrg staff sayg he uldn’t stop cryg readg the wrers’ room not realizg that we were fally gog to tell a story that would speak to him this way. Alex Landi: I knew om the begng that the character was openly gay and felt was a great opportuny and I uldn’t pass on . They wanted him to be a mascule, strong, bro type, but at the same time he was openly gay, which fely fi LGBTQ stereotyp, and I thk that’s great.

'GREY'S ANATOMY' ACTOR OUT AS GAY

I thk ’s his own way, ’s how he feels fortable sayg, “I’m gay.

ELLEN POMPEO Grey’s Anatomy has always phed boundari, but on Thursday night’s episo, fally troduced a storyle fans have been wag 15 years for — a gay male romance between two doctors.

GREY’S ANATOMY FEATUR GAY SOLDIER STORY, KISS

The actor, 27, opened up about his sexualy an Instagram post, wrg, “As a gay guy myself, tonight’s episo was so special to me.

This is exactly the kd of story I craved as a young gay kid growg up Oh, and blows my md that I’m able to brg life to Dr. “So, the story didn’t beg wh, ‘Hey, we’ve never done a gay male love story. Knight, who portrayed erstwhile tern Gee, me out the wake of a media enzy surroundg -star Isaiah Washgton’s e of a gay slur on set.

While Ni is openly gay, Levi has been ls sure about his sexualy, and viewers have prevly seen him havg a one-night stand wh lleague Jo Wilson, so wasn’t clear to viewers if he was actually terted Ni or not. But when Ni found out that he was the first man that Levi had kissed, he got sred off, sayg he n’t “teach” Levi how to be gay. “As a gay guy myself, tonight’s episo was so special to me, ” he wrote.

MEET ALEX LANDI, THE ACTOR PLAYG GREY'S ANATOMY'S FIRST GAY MALE SURGEON

“This is exactly the kd of story I craved as a young gay kid growg up Oh, and blows my md that I’m able to brg life to Dr. "As a gay guy myself, " he posted on IG, "tonight's episo was so special to me.

*BEAR-MAGAZINE.COM* GREY'S ANATOMY FIRST GAY KISS EPISODE

'Grey's Anatomy' star Jake Borelli out as gay .

TOP