Wele to the "siverse," which gay men don't engage peratn.
Contents:
- SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
- GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
- IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM
SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
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“I ntributed a term to the gay male muny.
Gay men are always fg themselv as top and bottom or verse for terurse. What about gay men who don’t engage terurse? A third add: “Personally I’m not crazy about the term ‘si’ (sounds to me like someone lyg there, dog not much) but ’s good that Grdr acknowledg that there’s more to gay sex than anal.
GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV
Gay men who intify as a "si". When to sex, whether you’re gay, bi, or straight, we’ve all been a ltle brawashed to believg that there is this thg lled “normal. In the gay male muny, ually, you’re eher nsired to be a “top, ” the perator, or a “bottom, ” the perated, or you’re versatile (n go eher way).
For stance, thk about datg apps for gay men. But what if you’re a gay man who don’t enjoy anal sex or fds anal peratn paful, don’t like the feelg or the troublome amount of preparatn and cleang up need for to be a pleasurable experience, or simply don’t experience anal sex as erotic?
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
That’s why a 2013 article I wrote for Huffgton Post, "Guys on the ‘Si’: Lookg Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms, " I began workg on popularizg the term “si” orr for the gay men to have the language to exprs their sexual and erotic preference.
IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM
Sis often suffer the accatns of other gay men, such as:.
I’ve seen gay male clients who rry a load of shame about not likg or wantg to get or give anal sex. There are straight men who like havg anal sex and/or beg perated wh a dildo, and there are gay men who don’t. Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels.