Wele to the "siverse," which gay men don't engage peratn.
Contents:
- SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
- GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV
- STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
- IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM
SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
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“I ntributed a term to the gay male muny. Gay men are always fg themselv as top and bottom or verse for terurse.
GAY "SIS": HOW LANGUAGE FRE US TO BE OURSELV
What about gay men who don’t engage terurse? A third add: “Personally I’m not crazy about the term ‘si’ (sounds to me like someone lyg there, dog not much) but ’s good that Grdr acknowledg that there’s more to gay sex than anal. Gay men who intify as a "si".
When to sex, whether you’re gay, bi, or straight, we’ve all been a ltle brawashed to believg that there is this thg lled “normal. In the gay male muny, ually, you’re eher nsired to be a “top, ” the perator, or a “bottom, ” the perated, or you’re versatile (n go eher way). For stance, thk about datg apps for gay men.
STEP-BY-STEP INSTCTNS FOR SHOOTG YOUR SHOT WH GAY GUYS
But what if you’re a gay man who don’t enjoy anal sex or fds anal peratn paful, don’t like the feelg or the troublome amount of preparatn and cleang up need for to be a pleasurable experience, or simply don’t experience anal sex as erotic?
IS SI GAY/LBIAN-IENDLY? - SI FOM
That’s why a 2013 article I wrote for Huffgton Post, "Guys on the ‘Si’: Lookg Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms, " I began workg on popularizg the term “si” orr for the gay men to have the language to exprs their sexual and erotic preference.