As a gay kid growg up the South, I worried that the gture would telegraph my sexualy. The realy was I jt wanted to shrk.
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DONTCROSSAGAYMAN
dontcrossagayman: his birthday, what he did before fame, his fay life, fun trivia facts, populary rankgs, and more. * don't cross a gay man *
Short-form TikTok ntent creator who rose to fame for his viral "Lsons not crossg a gay man" vio seri. But to actually be lockg ey wh Ellen and hold her, shakg hands as she said, "I'm gay, " on natnal televisn and for the first time, as she has shared outloud that way publicly, was such a profoundly extraordary and timate gift to that moment that I will forever be grateful for. When a male starts wearg the pk and illy stuff -- spe not beg gay or transng to female -- nf the ever-lovg fuck out of most people.
Gay men tend to get annoyed and believe we don't know what their stggle is like, bisexuals seem to fd nfg bee many assume mixg genrs would mean likg both. Let me put this way: I'm a crossdrser who has no issu puttg myself out there on the terwebs or stttg about public om time to time, but to date, the most hostily I've enuntered has not been om the homophobic fuckws you'd expect, but om trans women. And even they tend to make the assumptn we talked about earlier -- that if you're not gay or transng, then mt be a sexual kk.
Sce my only ame of reference was bad jok or sexual fetish or gay men, I thought "Well I mt be at least bisexual, " so I spent a lot of time tryg to f a square peg a round hole before fally beg able to separate sexual orientatn om genr inty. AdvertisementSKIP ADVERTISEMENTR of passageAs a gay kid growg up the South, I worried that the gture would telegraph my sexualy.
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