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Contents:

• THE MYSTER CASE OF THE FAKE GAY MARRIAGE WEBSE, THE REAL STRAIGHT MAN, AND THE SUPREME COURT
• THE ‘FAKE’ GAY MARRIAGE SE THE MIDDLE OF THE SUPREME COURT’S LATT THREAT TO LGBT+ RIGHTS
• THE HIDN GAY LIV FALLY BEG UNVERED
• IS SUPREME COURT’S “GAY WEDDG” CASE BUILT ON A LIE? MAN AT CENTER OF THE STORY SAYS HE’S STRAIGHT
• WHY SHAM MARRIAG BETWEEN GAY MEN AND WOMEN ARE ON THE RISE
• ONLE WORKS NNECTG GAY PEOPLE FOR FAKE MARRIAG
• WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT A SEEMGLY FAKE DOCUMENT A GAY RIGHTS CASE
• WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
• ON HOLDG HANDS AND FAKE MARRIAGE: STORI OF BEG GAY RSIA
• IN CHA, GAY MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN
• AUTHOR SAYS REARCHER FAKED GAY MARRIAGE OPON STUDY
• HOW A GAY-MARRIAGE STUDY WENT WRONG
• GAY MARRIAGE
• GAY RIGHTS VS. FREE SPEECHSUPREME COURT BACKS WEB DIGNER OPPOSED TO SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

THE MYSTER CASE OF THE FAKE GAY MARRIAGE WEBSE, THE REAL STRAIGHT MAN, AND THE SUPREME COURT

”Here is what we know—though, to be ank, I do not know what we have learned om this yearslong mystery, other than looks like Smh and her attorneys have, perhaps unwtgly, vented a gay uple need of a weddg webse a se which they argue that same-sex marriag are “false. Dpe the district urt raisg doubts about reprentg a genue quiry om two men gettg married—and the urt didn’t even raise the real doubt that the uple do not exist— is now part of the se history, a b of fan fictn jog the other phantom gays the se vok.

THE ‘FAKE’ GAY MARRIAGE SE THE MIDDLE OF THE SUPREME COURT’S LATT THREAT TO LGBT+ RIGHTS

ADF ma no mentn of Stewart and Mike specifilly their arguments before the Supreme Court this ssn, but they don’t need to: Their entire se, after all, is built around the ia of gay people dog somethg that they have not yet done, nor ever will do. For a long time, the mastream public didn't want to hear our Ca's The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle tells the story of a secretly gay postman searchg for a lost love om his youth (Cred: Headle Review)"I would venture to say that the public were disgted and outraged, " says thor Crystal Jeans. It's about a lonely, socially awkward and secretly gay postman livg a fictnal town the north of England who hs retirement, realisg he wants to turn his life around and fally be happy – but to do this, he needs to fd the love of his life, a man he hasn’t seen for nearly 50 years.

THE HIDN GAY LIV FALLY BEG UNVERED

That same year, the so-lled "Alan Turg law" offered pardons to 49, 000 Brish gay men who’d been nvicted of homosexual acts – followg a mpaign arguably bolstered by the greater awarens brought about by The Imatn Game, the h film that picted the nvictn and chemil stratn of the Enigma-breakg puter scientist.

IS SUPREME COURT’S “GAY WEDDG” CASE BUILT ON A LIE? MAN AT CENTER OF THE STORY SAYS HE’S STRAIGHT

Over the last five years, a tr of Irish wrers have livered stunng gay-themed novels set predomantly perds of history that didn't wele them – John Boyne (The Heart’s Invisible Furi), Graham Norton (Home Stretch), and Sebastian Barry (the Costa Award-wng Days Whout End). In the theatre, Matthew Lopez's exploratn of gay male history The Inherance triumphed London before transferrg to New York, where opened the year after a well-received revival of Mart Crowley's semal 1968 play Boys the Band.

This was another reason I wrote The Secret Life of Albert Entwistle; I wanted to tell the story of one ordary young gay man tryg to exprs his love for another at a time when this would not have been accepted.

Pop star Harry Styl is starrg new film My Policeman as a closeted gay officer the 1950s (Cred: Getty Imag)"What we see all through history is that people are nied their past as part of a way to ntrol them, " says Hornby. THERE is a bri and groom and the tradnal trappgs of a weddg but the promis ma are a sham; ’s a unn of some Che men and women, this has bee a sad realy, wh lns of gay men and women optg to take part ‘fake marriag’ as a way of appeasg fay members, and their wir muny. Dpe homosexualy beg legalised Cha sce 1997, gay men and women are creasgly ‘owned’ upon by fay members and the wir state for their sexual this week, the Che ernment banned the portrayal of same-sex imag om televisn, after havg prevly removed vios of gay, lbian, bi-sexual or transgenr upl om the ter.

WHY SHAM MARRIAG BETWEEN GAY MEN AND WOMEN ARE ON THE RISE

Acrdg to rearchers at Qgdao Universy, there are around 16 ln gay Che men married to women who are unaware of their sexualy, but the ia behd the ‘sham marriag’ is that both parti are on board and aware of each others sexual unns see a lbian woman marry a gay man, a fake heterosexual weddg, meang each party is savg their fay the ‘shame’ of havg an unmarried child, but also works their favour, bee their unn allows the uple to see men and women outsi the ‘marriage. ”This unn is jt one example of Che ‘sham unns’, which most upl believe serv as the bt optn wh the lowt potential for some Che textbooks still scribg homosexualy as a ‘mental disorr, ’ Qiang said the measure was taken bee not everyone n unrstand someon sexual orientatn. ”One of the featured Che men the documentary, Andy, revealed his father had enuraged him to seek a unn wh a lbian woman, beggg him to “quickly, get married” assist gay men and women to fd each other, the app Queer was lnched January 2015.

Founr of Queer, Liao Zhuoyg, told The Inpennt that the straightt lookg women were the most sought after, bee “ mak easier to cheat parents” her terview wh Vice, Ms Luvarà spoke of why beg homosexual is “problematic” Cha, even when is no longer illegal. In the past, gay men would marry a straight woman for fear of g out, ” L Hai, founr of marriage matchmakg webse, said a phone ll wh ’s webse, found back 2005, now serv nearly 430, 000 registered members, which mak up only a small portn of the timated 70 ln LGBT people some s, gay men marry heterosexual women, who aren’t aware their hbands are gay. Zhang Beichuan, a profsor at Qgdao Universy's medil school, told the Atlantic that the typ of marriag have always existed; the difference is that past s, closeted gay men would marry "unspectg straight women to hi their homosexualy.

ONLE WORKS NNECTG GAY PEOPLE FOR FAKE MARRIAG

AdvertisementSKIP ADVERTISEMENTA supposed requt for a webse for a same-sex weddg played a mor role a major clash between ee speech and gay rights at the Supreme Supreme Court led last week that a Colorado graphic signer has the right to refe to create webs for same-sex Jiang for The New York TimAfter the Supreme Court led last week that a Colorado graphic signer has the right to refe to create webs for same-sex marriag, crics of the cisn raised qutns about a form clud urt papers the se that appeared to show that a gay uple had sought the servic of the signer, Lorie man who supposedly submted the form said he was unaware of s existence until a reporter for The New Republic lled him.

WHAT TO KNOW ABOUT A SEEMGLY FAKE DOCUMENT A GAY RIGHTS CASE

They clud Judh Kasen-Wdsor, widow of gay rights activist Edie Wdsor; Matthew Hayn, -owner of Club Q, the LGBTQ club Colorado Sprgs where a gunman last month killed five people a mass shootg; Club Q shootg survivors Jam Slgh and Michael Anrson; and a number of platiffs om s that culmated the landmark civil rights se Obergefell vs.

WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY

One victim lost an eye when two masked men stormed the office and began firg guns that shoot high-velocy bber better unrstand what is like to intify as lbian, gay, bisexual or transgenr a untry that officially disurag openns, The Tim asked rears to share their stori. As a Foreigner, I Am Already an AlienRsia is an easy place to be gay sofar as the lack of exposure to openly gay people mak the Rsian public almost illy unaware of the (stereo)typil behavr that homosexuals actually exhib.

Nohels, thoands of gay men and women are tyg the knot., the earlit and most active webse for gay men and women to fd stand- spo, currently has over 380, 000 ers and claims to have matched nearly 20, 000 upl sce started 2005.

Beliefs are sticky, and hardly any approach, no matter how logil may be, n change Science study, “When ntact chang mds: An experiment on transmissn of support for gay equaly, ” seemed to offer a method that uld work. When LaCour proposed an ia for a field study about changg voters’ views on gay marriage through a ntact-based approach, Green, who studi prejudice, was, reful, and ntrolled field experiments are a relative rary polil science; ’s difficult to vise and execute rigoro studi outsi of the laboratory.

ON HOLDG HANDS AND FAKE MARRIAGE: STORI OF BEG GAY RSIA

”A year later, the summer of 2013, LaCour told Green that the study they’d discsed back Ann Arbor was plete: the rults suggted that talkg wh openly gay nvassers uld produce a durable attu shift favor of gay marriage. Early Years: Same-Sex Marriage Bans In 1970, jt one year after the historic Stonewall Rts that galvanized the gay rights movement, law stunt Richard Baker and librarian Jam McConnell applied for a marriage license Gerald Nelson rejected their applitn bee they were a same-sex uple, and a trial urt upheld his cisn. ” This lg effectively blocked feral urts om lg on same-sex marriage for s, leavg the cisn solely the hands of stat, which alt blow after blow to those hopg to see gay marriage beg 1973, for stance, Maryland beme the first state to create a law that explicly f marriage as a unn between a man and woman, a belief held by many nservative relig groups.

Though the gay rights movement saw some advancements the 1970s and 1980s—such as Harvey Milk beg the first openly gay man elected to public office the untry 1977—the fight for gay marriage ma ltle headway for many years. In 1989, the San Francis Board of Supervisors passed an ordance that allowed homosexual upl and unmarried heterosexual upl to register for domtic partnerships, which granted hospal visatn rights and other years later, the District of Columbia siarly passed a new law that allowed same-sex upl to register as domtic partners. C., 1993, the hight urt Hawaii led that a ban on same-sex marriage may vlate that state nstutn’s Equal Protectn Clse—the first time a state urt has ever ched toward makg gay marriage Hawaii Supreme Court sent the se—brought by a gay male uple and two lbian upl who were nied marriage licens 1990—back for further review to the lower First Circu Court, which 1991 origally dismissed the the state tried to prove that there was “pellg state tert” jtifyg the ban, the se would be tied up ligatn for the next three Defense of Marriage Act Opponents of gay marriage, however, did not s on their hnch.

IN CHA, GAY MARRIAGE IS BETWEEN A MAN AND A WOMAN

That is, even if a state ma gay marriage legal, same-sex upl still wouldn’t be able to file e tax jotly, sponsor spo for immigratn benefs or receive spoal Social Secury payments, among many other act was a huge setback for the marriage equaly movement, but transient good news arose three months later: Hawaii Judge Kev S. Phg for Change: Civil Unns The next saw a whirlwd of activy on the gay marriage ont, begng wh the year 2000 when Vermont beme the first state to legalize civil unns, a legal stat that provis most of the state-level benefs of years later, Massachetts beme the first state to legalize gay marriage when the Massachetts Supreme Court led that same-sex upl had the right to marry Goodridge v.

AUTHOR SAYS REARCHER FAKED GAY MARRIAGE OPON STUDY

Kansas and Texas were next 2005, and 2006 saw seven more stat passg Constutnal amendments agast gay towards the end of the , gay marriage beme legal var stat, cludg Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (the first state to approve by legislative means) and New Hampshire. Domtic Partnerships Throughout the and the begng of the next, California equently ma headl for seawg on the gay marriage state was the first to pass a domtic partnership statute 1999, and legislators tried to pass a same-sex marriage bill 2005 and 2007. For the first time the untry’s history, voters (rather than judg or legislators) Mae, Maryland, and Washgton approved Constutnal amendments permtg same-sex marriage marriage also beme a feral issue 2010, Massachetts, the first state to legalize gay marriage, found Sectn 3 of DOMA—the part of the 1996 law that fed marriage as a unn between one man and one woman—to be unnstutnal.

HOW A GAY-MARRIAGE STUDY WENT WRONG

Wdsor, nservative Jtice Anthony Kennedy sid wh Jtic Ruth Bar Gsburg, Stephen Breyer, Sonia Sotomayor and Elena Kagan favor of same-sex marriage rights, ultimately makg gay marriage legal across the natn June this time, was still outlawed only 13 stat, and more than 20 other untri had already legalized gay marriage, startg wh the Netherlands December 2000. ImageLorie Smh said her Christian fah requir her to turn away ctomers seekg servic to celebrate same-sex Woolf for The New York TimThe Supreme Court sid on Friday wh a web signer Colorado who said she had a First Amendment right to refe to sign weddg webs for same-sex upl spe a state law that forbids discrimatn agast gay people. The liberal jtic viewed as somethg else entirely — a dispute that threatened societal protectns for gay rights and rolled back some recent an impassned dissent, Jtice Sonia Sotomayor warned that the oute signaled a return to a time when people of lor and other mory groups faced open discrimatn.

Kavangh and Amy Coney Barrett, shifted the urt to the urts have generally sid wh gay and lbian upl who were refed service by bakeri, florists and others, lg that potential ctomers are entled to equal treatment, at least parts of the untry wh laws forbiddg discrimatn based on sexual owners of bs challengg those laws have argued that the ernment should not force them to choose between the requirements of their fahs and their livelihoods. Addnally, several stat terpret existg laws agast sex discrimatn to apply to bias relatg to sexual orientatn and genr inty, even though they do not have laws explicly forbiddg such stat that do not offer protectns to gay and transgenr people on those grounds, municipal laws ver many Human Rights Campaign, an L.

McCoy for The New York TimThe urt’s cisn favor of a Colorado web signer, Lorie Smh, had an unual feature: It was based on njecture and Smh, who objects to providg weddg-related servic for same-sex marriag, never turned down a gay uple. ETFriday’s lg was another reassurg cisn for relig celebratory moment outsi the Supreme Court on Friday, after the urt livered the latt a strg of judgments favor of relig Zuhaib/Associated PrsConservativ who have moral and theologil objectns to gay marriage saw the Supreme Court’s cisn on Friday as reassurance that they would be able to assert their beliefs a public square that they see as creasgly hostile to a 6-to-3 vote, spl along iologil l, the jtic agreed wh a web signer Colorado who said she had a First Amendment right to refe to provi servic for same-sex marriag, spe a state law that forbids discrimatn agast gay people. ”Acrdg to pollg om 2021 by the Public Relign Rearch Instute, majori of most major relig groups — cludg Catholics, Jews and Mlims — oppose allowg small-bs owners to refe to serve gay and lbian people on relig grounds.

GAY MARRIAGE

Several siar s have centered on nservative Christian small bs owners who object to workg on gay weddgs specifilly, cludg a baker Colorado, two vatn signers Arizona and a Kentucky-based a news nference shortly after the lg was issued, Krist Waggoner, general unsel for Alliance Defendg Freedom, which reprented Ms. ” She said her nsiratn acceptg work as a webse signer was the “msage” of the se, not the inty of the Smh’s portfol clus webs for church, real tate pani and polil many nservative Christians hailed the cisn on Friday, drew cricism om some progrsive Christians and terfah groups, cludg those that serve gay people of fah. McCoy for The New York TimGay and transgenr rights anizatns on Friday nmned the Supreme Court lg backg a Colorado webse signer’s bid to refe to provi servic for same-sex marriag, llg the cisn a dangero backslidg on L.

ETHere’s how urt battl over servg same-sex upl have played out the Cote for The New York TimIn the latt se volvg same-sex marriage rights, relig eedom and discrimatn, the Supreme Court on Friday led favor of a web signer Colorado who said she had a First Amendment right not to provi servic for same-sex marriag spe a state law that bans discrimatn agast gay ’s a brief look at some of the most proment s before Friday’s:A Colorado baker ws urtIn June 2018, the Supreme Court led favor of a Colorado baker who refed to bake a weddg ke for a gay uple.

Kennedy wrote that the missn’s members had acted wh “clear and impermissible hostily” to people wh scerely held relig Bra, a kemaker prevailsBra’s Supreme Court led favor of a bakery October 2018 that had refed to make a ke bearg the slogan “Support Gay Marriage, ” sayg the refal was not discrimatory. The urt’s cisn mak easier for bs Bra to cle ctomer requts that are at odds wh their dispute began 2014, when Gareth Lee, a gay rights activist Northern Ireland, sought to buy a ke for a party om Ashers Bakg Company Belfast that showed two “Same Street” characters, Bert and Ernie; a logo for his group, QueerSpace; and the slogan supportg gay marriage. A florist Washgton State says her rights were vlatedIn 2013, Barronelle Stutzman, the owner of a flower shop the small cy of Richland, southeastern Washgton, refed to create floral arrangements for a gay uple’s two grooms, Robert Ingersoll and Curt Freed, had prevly bought flowers at her store, Arlene’s Flowers.

GAY RIGHTS VS. FREE SPEECHSUPREME COURT BACKS WEB DIGNER OPPOSED TO SAME-SEX MARRIAGE

”Invatn signers sue the cy of PhoenixThe Arizona Supreme Court agreed to hear arguments January after two Christian vatn signers said they would refe to create weddg vatns for same-sex upl if Da and Breanna Koski, evangelil Christians and the owners of Bsh & Nib Stud, sued the cy of Phoenix 2016, sayg they feared legal retributn if they did not fulfill requts om gay or lbian upl. Colorado Civil Rights Cote for The New York TimThe Supreme Court’s cisn on Friday favor of a Colorado web signer has echo of a 2018 se about a baker who had turned away a gay uple seekg a weddg that cisn, Masterpiece Cakhop v. Kennedy, who wrote the majory opn the 7-to-2 cisn 2018, seemed unable to choose between two of his re mments: He was the thor of every major Supreme Court cisn protectg gay rights unr the Constutn and also the urt’s most arnt fenr of ee speech.