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JAKE'S STORY OF BEG GAY RAL ATRALIA

Meet Jake, a young gay Atralian who grew up a ral untry town. His g out got some surprisg - and some pretty ordary reactns. Read about his experience at * growing up gay in australia *

Meet Jake, a young gay Atralian who grew up a ral untry town. When I first realised I was gay. I like to say to people that I realised I was gay right after I first had sex wh a du.

GROWG UP GAY THE ATRALIAN BH: 'WE DO NOT FLNT , 'S WHO WE ARE'

The bate over same-sex marriage has put sharp foc the discrimatn faced by gay and lbian people the bh – and how attus are changg * growing up gay in australia *

Growg up, never occurred to me that I was gay. I gus I jt wanted to prove to myself that I was okay wh beg gay.

THE MANDALA MUNE HELPED ME EMBRACE GROWG UP GAY A SMALL TOWN

For many years, I’d believed that people my town wouldn’t tolerate anyone gay. When I heard ments like ‘Oh, that’s gay’ or ‘Ha!

I thought they hated homosexuals.

AN INTY PLEX: GROWG UP GAY AND ASIAN RAL ATRALIA

Once I was livg away, however, I realised that wasn’t my hometown that didn’t like me beg gay; I didn’t like myself for beg gay.

WHAT ’S LIKE TO GROW UP GAY A SCHOOL THAT WISH YOU WEREN’T

Beg gay the untry is hard. My sex life and my sexualy were the gossip sphere for such a small amount of time that, by the time I returned to Atralia, people had actually fotten that I’d intified as gay. Beg gay a small untry town means I still do all the normal thgs I did before I me out.

HERE'S WHAT IT'S LIKE TO GROW UP GAY AND INDIGENO IN ATRALIA

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'"ABC Everyday your boxGet our newsletter for the bt of ABC Everyday each week'You guys don't realise how lucky you are' Liz uldn't openly say she was gay whout feelg "terrified" when she first arrived Atralia.

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