A brief history of gay signalg, om hanky s to that 'what gay guys are actually like' vio

Contents:

• GAY HANDSHAKE
• MALE GAY BAR ETIQUETTE
• A BRIEF HISTORY OF GAY SIGNALG, OM HANKY S TO THAT 'WHAT GAY GUYS ARE ACTUALLY LIKE' VIO

GAY HANDSHAKE

The Gay Handshake is a mon greetg between two homosexuals who will later bee ually occurs a club, after a night out or durg a Grdr hookup and volv sexual activy (often a blowwie, sometim tertwed wh nversatn about random bgraphil the handshake is plete, the two dividuals will exchange numbers and beg a iendship or iendship wh the The Gay Handshake mug. A handshake that gays e to regnize each other so they n agree what public toilet and/or glory hole or public they n to have gay sex . There are several stag of the gay handshake.

The other party or prospective rec is approached by a gay g the " three fger lure", that is three fgers are held out as they start to shake hands. The gay extends his middle fger toward the tenr area of the prospects palm. If there is no ristance, the gay begs to " tickle" the soft sk at the nter of the palm.

MALE GAY BAR ETIQUETTE

For the Gay Handshake mug. How do you tell if someone is gay? Male Gay Bar Etiquette - In My Humble Opn - Straight Dope Msage Board.

Maybe you've seen the recent vio that purports to show "what actually happens when gay guys see other gay guys and straight people aren't around.

A BRIEF HISTORY OF GAY SIGNALG, OM HANKY S TO THAT 'WHAT GAY GUYS ARE ACTUALLY LIKE' VIO

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