The First Thg My Mom Did When She Learned I Was Gay... and the 'Miracle' That Occurred After | HuffPost Voic

Contents:

• A GAY MIRACLE
• THE FIRST THG MY MOM DID WHEN SHE LEARNED I WAS GAY... AND THE 'MIRACLE' THAT OCCURRED AFTER
• J AFFIRMED A GAY UPLE.
• THGS YOU SHOULD KNOW WHEN WATCHG TLC’S “MY HBAND’S NOT GAY,” JOG NORTH STAR, OR CONSIRG A MIXED-ORIENTATN MARRIAGE
• ED SMART — FATHER OF ELIZABETH SMART — SPEAKS PUBLICLY ABOUT G OUT AS GAY, LLG THE ‘SEND MIRACLE’ HIS LIFE
• ELIZABETH SMART'S FATHER SAYS G OUT AS GAY WAS HIS 2ND 'MIRACLE'

A GAY MIRACLE

Miracle, who turned 25 after the trials, is already g her new platform to advote for LGBTQ+ rights and is believed to be the first Olympic women's wrtler to be openly gay. EngardBack 1992, before Ellen me out and long before the Supreme Court allowed same-sex marriage by one vote, my iend Jeff who was wrtlg wh beg gay mted suici at age had played tennis together earlier that a few weeks later, was the news that the closeted actor who played the all-Amerin dad on the classic TV show "The Brady Bunch" I grew up watchg re-ns had died of was a dark time. I wasn't sure how one survived beg gay.

THE FIRST THG MY MOM DID WHEN SHE LEARNED I WAS GAY... AND THE 'MIRACLE' THAT OCCURRED AFTER

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J AFFIRMED A GAY UPLE.

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Growg up as a gay kid the south was not easy. For my fay, however, they still live ground zero of tolerance for the LGBT muny and have the unique prsure of havg a well known gay relative.

THGS YOU SHOULD KNOW WHEN WATCHG TLC’S “MY HBAND’S NOT GAY,” JOG NORTH STAR, OR CONSIRG A MIXED-ORIENTATN MARRIAGE

My mom read the Bible four tim a row and bought every book wrten about Christiany and the subject of homosexualy. Please know that I am NOT here to bate the issue of homosexualy.

We are a Christian fay wh ep roots the church and the teachgs of the years ago, we found out that Lance is gay. My feelgs were more of sadns and jt sheer disappotment you believe that beg gay is a choice, then the rt of what I say will not matter.

I do not know why, but even as a stnch Christian, I personally never believed that beg gay was a choice.

ED SMART — FATHER OF ELIZABETH SMART — SPEAKS PUBLICLY ABOUT G OUT AS GAY, LLG THE ‘SEND MIRACLE’ HIS LIFE

I never knew a lot of gay people, but the on I did meet I felt passn for bee I uld feel their pa of beg rejected and my heart always went out to them. Even though I never did believe Lance chose to be gay, I did not accept as quickly as my hband did. I ntued to love my son, stand bi him, and fend him, but for several years I ntued to pray relentlsly for a, Lance is still gay.

ELIZABETH SMART'S FATHER SAYS G OUT AS GAY WAS HIS 2ND 'MIRACLE'

The miracle is that I learned to have unndnal love and passn for my son and others the gay muny.