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A GAY REFEREE TRI TO FD HIS PLACE HOCKEY

Andrea Barone nearly qu his job as a mor league hockey referee after years of hearg ach and players e anti-gay language durg gam. * a gay referee *

Iwanek for The New York TimAndrea Barone nearly qu his job as a mor league hockey referee after years of hearg ach and players e anti-gay language durg Barone September.

A gay man, Barone wears a pri sticker on his Iwanek for The New York TimApril 23, 2018This is a story about love and Barone was barely 18 months old when he first set out on the ice, his ty legs shakg and phg behd a chair along the ld surface. Late last summer, durg an terview at a Toronto ffeehoe, he was is sure of two thgs about himself: He is a hockey man, and he is a gay man. A few man, workg any pacy, is known to be openly gay at hockey’s hight level.

And Major League Baseball have e out after retirement, the same nnot be said for any man formerly associated wh the has been tryg, often va, to rrect a culture that for s has ma ltle attempt to nceal s regular e of anti-gay sults me om ach, who would roll their ey when warned agast the e of homophobic slurs on the ice. It was, some way, the price of livg this world as a gay tolerated until last sprg, when an ECHL ach, whose team had blown a third-perd lead a playoff game, charged at him.

A GAY CANADIAN REFEREE ON WHY HOMOPHOBIA ALMOST DROVE HIM OUT OF PROFSNAL HOCKEY

XFL center judge Amanda Ser-Cook is the first openly gay official a major natnal profsnal football league. * a gay referee *

In ont of three other refere, Barone said, the ach ed a graphic, expletive-laced anti-gay, known to the league and s personnel to be gay, was fur. Months earlier, while he was refereeg a game Alaska, an ECHL player directed an anti-gay slur at another player on the ice. ” Iwanek for The New York TimGay Men Hockey: A Short HistoryThere are few men hockey who seem to embody the sport que like Brian Burke, whose famo gffns toward a pryg scm of reporters as an executive roughly equaled his playg style as a llege and mor league scrapper the has spent nearly all his life hockey, but Burke, 62, the print of the Calgary Flam, has e to reprent somethg else to the 2009, when Burke was print and general manager of the Toronto Maple Leafs, his son Brendan revealed himself to be gay.

Though Brendan, then 20, held no posn wh the league, he immediately beme somethg rare: an openly gay man wh proximy to the threw an arm around his son, and the father beme a champn of gay rights sports, marchg forward by Brendan’s si until the moment unimagable grief found him. “He told me long after high school that was bee homophobic language ma him unfortable, ” Burke has fallen on Burke, more than anyone else hockey, to clean up a culture the sport that ma Brendan feel so unwele.

Burke said Flam players had approached him unsoliced, reportg that if there were ever any gay players on the team, they would be greeted Bent/Getty ImagOf the first openly gay man to play the N. ”In the five years sce Jason Colls beme the first openly gay man to play the N. A., and Michael Sam followed as the first openly gay man to be drafted by an N.

GAY PAC-12 REFEREE HAS BEEN WH HIS PARTNER FOR 29 YEARS. NOW HE'S G OUT TO HELP OTHERS.

Steve Strimlg says beg gay has never stopped him om advancg as a football official. Now a whe hat referee the Pac-12, he wants to e out publicly to help others. * a gay referee *

Team, profsnal leagu have been tryg to ensure sports are a place where all feel a culture where anti-gay slurs have for s been ed sually as verbal digs, progrs has been rocky. In 2011, Kobe Bryant of the Los Angel Lakers was fed $100, 000 for mutterg an anti-gay slur toward a referee.

In 2015, Rajon Rondo of the Sacramento Kgs was spend one game for yellg the same word at the referee Bill Kennedy, who later revealed he was gay. Baseball players have also been spend recent years for g homophobic Shaw spensn was a landmark measure by the N. But to many the gay muny, the cisn undid much of the evolutn the league had ma wh Shaw’s the history of pro hockey, there are known to be very few gay male players.

He felt so unwanted as a gay man hockey that he began to drk away the pa. But as a Los Angel Kg wh a home Wt Hollywood, and later as a Ranger livg Chelsea, he ma gay iends. “But if I had a gay teammate, which I’m pretty sure I did at some pot — God, I n’t image what he was feelg like.

THIS GAY HOCKEY REFEREE LOV THE GAME. HOMOPHOBIA TELLS HIM THE GAME DON’T LOVE HIM BACK.

UP to 40 per cent of footballers are gay, a top referee has claimed.Brazilian Fifa official Igor Benevenuto ma headl when he bravely me out la * a gay referee *

He may never be treated equally hockey, but at least he n fight to ensure that anti-gay language is nsired late sprg and summer, Barone took many months to ci his future. The letter he wrote after the Utah episo was tled “Goodbye Hockey, ” so sure was he then that the sport had won, that he would wilt away to fd another he began to grasp that there is so much more to do if he sticks to this dream, so much more to achieve if he n earn his place as the first openly gay man the N. Steve Strimlg is breakg more ground as an out gay football referee, this time leadg the entire group of officials for the upstart USFL.

“The articl I read about other gay people sports each say how much they helped others, ” he told me at the time. But Ser-Cook is breakg new ground as the first openly gay official to work a major natnal profsnal football league, last year the short-lived Alliance of Amerin Football and this year the XFL.

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The head of officials for the Atlanta chapter of the Natnal Gay Flag Football League was there, heard me, and suggted I e help out on the weekends. “Sce I me out at 20, [beg gay] on the field has never been an issue, and has never been a terrent, ” he said. [avatar er=”lewisj163″ size=”thumbnail” align=”left” /]Football Zebras wrer Josh Lewis has officiated adult flag-football leagu, cludg the Natnal Flag Football League of Atlanta, the Chigo Metropolan Sports Associatn, the New York Gay Football League, and the Natnal Gay Flag Football League.

They've crossed paths on the Phoenix karaoke circu before, but only recently did a iend tell him Kennedy's name and what he do for a most refere at the big league level, Kennedy don't seek the spotlight, but found him last December, when he publicly clared his sexual inty as a gay man a few days after the league spend Rajon Rondo for llg Kennedy a "motherfuckg faggot. " Though NBA staff, fellow officials and numero players and ach have known for years that Kennedy is gay, the announcement stantly ma him a public figure. 13, tellg Yahoo Sports, "I am proud to be an NBA referee, and I am proud to be a gay man.

And a crowd whose energy was wang before the microphone found s way to Kennedy has been drawn to the man who, jt an hour ago, was visible to referee Bill Kennedy scrib the challeng he faced on and off the urt as a gay manAfter Rajon Rondo berated NBA referee Bill Kennedy wh an anti-gay slur durg a game last season, Kennedy publicly revealed that he was gay.

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Kennedy talks about the fears he lived wh as a closeted gay man and the reactn he received om the York/AP PhotoFOR A MOMENT that stands as a watershed event Kennedy's life -- and arguably the history of gay people profsnal sports -- the cint at the Palace of Auburn Hills is shroud mystery. He knew that an ter mor -- or even a news story -- on a gay NBA referee might not be a fireable offense, but the acpanyg chatter was exactly the kd of attentn he wanted to avoid. "Pearl had Kennedy wa outsi the nference room while he went to brief the powers that be on his new fdg: Billy Kennedy was not terted appropriately touchg the female her; Kennedy was a gay the NBA uld fd no report on the Kennedy vtigatn s offic or outsi fil, the league says the matter was put to rt.

"The Letter led to The Talk, " Kennedy says, addg that he's certa his mother knew he was gay before he did.

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After The Talk, he began to venture to gay spac his early 20s -- cludg Charlie's, a gay untry bar a few blocks om where he went to gra school.

"Like many gay men, Kennedy existed somewhere between the closet and daylight durg his early adult years.

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