‘Pumpg’ Is Dangero New Fad Among Gay Men – Rollg Stone

Contents:

• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX
• PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN
• THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON
• ‘PUMPG’ IS DANGERO NEW FAD AMONG GAY MEN

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time. ”Miller argu that gay men should exame their relatnship wh power.

But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy. “What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg. “Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further.

NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX

”To be (fucked) or not to be (fucked) shouldn’t always be the qutnAcrdg to a 2011 study by The Journal of Sexual Medice that surveyed 25, 000 gay men Ameri about their last sexual enunters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had, realy, we’re not actually fuckg all that much. Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels. It seems like every gay guy out there is a bottom, and when you thk you've met someone who's fely a He too is a bottom.

PENIS SIZE AND PREFERRED SEXUAL ROL AMONG GAY MEN

While anal sex is typilly practised by cis gay men (hey! Here, I’ve bed my own rearch and experience as a gay man to 10 easy steps – learn how to bottom wh ease. Any self-rpectg gay man keeps wet wip or toilet wip around for this very reason.

THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is also a dg that many gay men take for their sex liv.

It’s what Wtern culture would have you believe, too; ass-play has long been associated wh gayns, and wh good reason. Datg back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role the exprsn of same-sex sexualy (albe, wh fewer varieti of lube) art of anal sex is the thg that, both posively and negatively, has e to reprent gay men.

In other words: There’s more than one way for gays to ’s not all about basMeghan Traor was wrong; ’s not all about that base. That’s bee the ncept of first, send, and third base don’t really apply to gay men bee our endgame is different. Rather, gay sex is more like firg up your PlayStatn and playg Fallout 4.

‘PUMPG’ IS DANGERO NEW FAD AMONG GAY MEN

For the non-gaymers the hoe, I’m tryg to say that gay sex is an open world. Of urse, culturally and historilly, gay men have been narrowed down where the act of sex self f . Instead, I’m attemptg to myth-bt prumptns about gay sex.

Beg gay n be hard enough by self whout then also worryg about the prsur om wh our own muny to nform to some sort of standard.

Bee if there’s one thg this gay old life that shouldn’t be formulaic ’s sex.