Is ‘Unupled’ the Gay ‘Sex and the Cy’? | Vogue

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After his 17-year relatnship ends, a gay NYC real tate agent (Neil Patrick Harris) leans on iends as he navigat hookup culture this breezy Netflix edy remiscent of Sex and the Cy.

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NEIL PATRICK HARRIS’ GAY CRISIS ‘UNUPLED’ IS VERY ENTERTAG

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I’m a gay man—I don’t want to brag, but a gay man who has been naked a bed wh another gay man before. Unupled isn’t the most realistic, the most graphic, or the clevert pictn of gay sex, but even wh jt that first scene still, to me, felt—I’m rollg my ey as hard as you are for sayg this— you know what? This matters to the start of Unupled, Michael Lawson and Col McKenna are the epome of gay perfectn.

NEIL PATRICK HARRIS ON HIS FIRST ON-CAMERA GAY SEX SCENE ‘UNUPLED,’ FAKE PENIS AND JOG ‘DOCTOR WHO’

Neil Patrick Harris is a gay man his mid-40s who sudnly fds himself sgle after 17 years Netflix seri 'Unupled.' * uncoupled too gay *

“What if we did that, but ma gay? NetflixWhenever a seri about gay men—and pecially about gay love, datg, and sex—premier, ’s divisive.

NETFLIX'S UNUPLED IS A GAY ROM-COM STUCK THE SEX AND THE CY ERA

Unupled: Created by Jefey Richman, Darren Star. Wh Neil Patrick Harris, Tisha Campbell, Brooks Ashmanskas, Emerson Brooks. Michael's life seemed to be perfect, until his long time partner bldsid him after 17 years of beg long time relatnship. He has to nont the nightmar of losg his soulmate and sudnly fdg himself as a sgle gay man his mid-40s." data-id="ma * uncoupled too gay *

It’s never reflective of the exact experience of each dividual person and, pecially when ’s a show like Unupled that’s beg pched to the mass, the way picts gay life matters eply to people—to the pot that they almost n’t enjoy the ntent at face are people I’ve talked to who’ve seen the seri and were annoyed by how obssed the characters are wh havg sual sex, as if that’s all gay men re about. And there are people I’ve talked to who’ve seen the seri and were annoyed that wasn’t explic, ank, or rnchy enough about the sex liv of gay men. A rich whe gay wh Harris’ body whose iends operate art galleri and who n afford to take bs everywhere isn’t accsible to some people, and that’s fair.

I’ve spent so long empathizg wh—and tryg to be—a gay Carrie Bradshaw.

NETFLIX’S UNUPLED: GAY SEX, THE CYDARREN STAR’S NEW SERI HARKENS BACK TO A CLASSIC, WH A NEW SP. BY RICHARD LAWSONJULY 27, 2022SARAH SHATZ/NETFLIXSAVE THIS STORYSAVESAVE THIS STORYSAVELAST YEAR’S AND JT LIKE THAT SHIFTED THE GAZE OF THE WATERSHED SERI SEX AND THE CY EVER SO SLIGHTLY. THE ORIGAL GANG WAS OLR; ONE WAS MISSG; AND SOME NEW IENDS HAD ARRIVED TO PLITE THE PARTY. WHILE SEX AND THE CY CREATOR DARREN STAR WASN’T VOLVED WH AND JT LIKE THAT, HE PERHAPS WANTED TO DO SOME RIFFG OF HIS OWN, AS EVINCED BY THE NEW NETFLIX SERI UNUPLED (JULY 29). IT’S A SHOW THAT NCERNS THE SAME FASCATNS AS STAR’S LANDMARK SERI—NEW YORK CY, ROMANCE, REER—ONLY OM A GAY PERSPECTIVE.EXPLICLY, DIRECTLY GAY, THAT IS. SATC AND AND JT LIKE THAT, WHILE MOSTLY ABOUT STRAIGHT WOMEN, ARE VERY MUCH FILTERED THROUGH A GAY LENS, THOUGH THE GAY CHARACTERS—CHIEFLY, NEBBISHY STANFORD AND HARPG ANTHONY—ARE OFTEN MERE PLOT FUNCTNARI. NOT SO ON UNUPLED, WHICH PUTS A GAY MAN, FORTY-SOMETHG MICHAEL (NEIL PATRICK HARRIS), ONT AND CENTER. STAR, WH -CREATOR JEFEY RICHMAN, BORROWS SATC’S EPISODIC DATG FORMAT AND ROLLS UP WH THE AGG ANXIETY OF AND JT LIKE THAT, ALL THE GASSY MIDDLE-YEARS JOK ABOUT THE SWIFT ENCROACHMENT OF TECHNOLOGY AND NEW SEXUAL, SOCIAL, AND POLIL NORMS. BUT UNUPLED DO SO LIGHTLY, WH A FLICK OF THE WRIST AND A SLOSH OF CHAMPAGNE. UNUPLED IS TOPIL S REFERENC, BUT A FLTERED, RNY WAY, MUCH LIKE STAR’S OTHER NETFLIX SERI, EY PARIS. THOSE SEEKG A MORN VERSN OF NEW YORK CY SELF WILL BE UNSATISFIED. THIS IS STILL A TELEVISN MANHATTAN THAT TURNS S NOSE UP AT BROOKLYN, THAT IS ALLERGIC TO THE SUBWAY, THAT HOLDS DOWNTOWN AS A PLACE FOR HIP RTRANTS AND GALLERI BUT NOT SUABLE FOR SOPHISTITED LIVG. MICHAEL IS A HIGH-END REAL TATE AGENT, SO THE SHOW SPENDS A LOT OF TIME TALKG ABOUT PROPERTY AND NEIGHBORHOODS A WAY THAT IS HERMETILLY REMOVED OM THE REALI OF TODAY. (FOR ALL BUT A PREC, TERRIBLE FEW NEW YORKERS, ANYWAY.) THERE IS, Y, A PERVERSE PLEASURE TO UNUPLED’S BLHE DULGENCE, THE GUILTY THRILL OF SPENDG TIME A WORLD WHICH MONEY IS BOTH NO OBJECT AND THE ONLY OBJECT. THIS DO PROVE GRATG AS THE SERI WEARS ON, THOUGH. WHERE UNUPLED SEEKS NOVATN IS S ROMANTIC ENTANGLEMENTS, DLY SOCLOGIL AND, OFTENTIM, SEXUALLY ANK. JT BEFORE A SURPRISE 50TH BIRTHDAY FOR MICHAEL’S PARTNER OF 17 YEARS, COL (TUC WATKS), THE BIRTHDAY BOY TELLS MICHAEL THAT HE’S LEAVG THE RELATNSHIP. THIS SENDS MICHAEL TO A TAILSP—AND ONTO APPS LIKE GRDR, WHERE HE NONTS A GAY DATG WORLD VASTLY DIFFERENT OM THE ONE HE KNEW BEFORE HE SETTLED FOR HIS LONG DOMTIC SPELL WH COL. THEIRS WASN’T AN OPEN RELATNSHIP, WHICH PUTS MICHAEL AT A DISTANCE OM A LOT OF GAY MEN A OR SO HIS JUNR. THE ADVENT OF PREP HAS HELPED CREATE A SEXUAL LANDSPE UTTERLY FOREIGN TO MICHAEL, THOUGH HE IS AT LEAST FAIAR WH MANY ENDURG HANGUPS OF HIS PARTICULAR I: THE TENSNS OF TOP AND BOTTOM, BEAR AND TWK, DADDY AND, WELL, NOT DADDY. WHILE THE DISURSE UNUPLED IS WELL TROD ALREADY, IS AT LEAST SOMETHG DIFFERENT TO SEE THOSE NVERSATNS PLAY OUT A ROM TV SERI ABOUT MIDDLE-AGE.  AS MICHAEL MEETS A HOST OF MEN ON HIS JOURNEY TOWARD HEALG (PRETTY MUCH A NEW GUY PER EPISO, LIKE THE OLD SATC DAYS!), HIS SIKICK IENDS UNRGO THEIR OWN MISADVENTUR. HIMBO WEATHERMAN BILLY (EMERSON BROOKS) SPENDS HIS TIME BED-HOPPG AND DATG DOWN ON THE AGE SLE. THE SHOW TEAS HIM FOR THAT, BUT MOSTLY AVOIDS OUTRIGHT SHAMG; HIS CHOIC ARE AMED MUCH THE SAME WAY THAT SAMANTHA JON’S WERE. MAYBE BILLY IS PHG TE LOVE AWAY WH ALL HIS EMOTNLS NOODLG, BUT ALSO, WHO R? STANLEY (BROOKS ASHMANSKAS) IS, AS HIS NAME WOULD SUGGT, MORE OF A SQUARE, A LONELY ART ALER WHO’S EVER SELF-PRETG ABOUT HIS AGE, HIS LOOKS, HIS FAILED ATTEMPTS AT FDG A MATE. AGA, THOUGH, UNUPLED IS REFUL WH S RITURE. OR MAYBE ’S JT ASHMANSKAS, WHO LENDS THOUGHTFUL SHADG TO EVEN THE GROANIT, MOST PATHETIC OF L.HARRIS, FOR HIS PART, IS BT WHEN THGS GET A LTLE SER: WHEN MICHAEL AND COL BICKER THE FALLOUT OF THEIR BREAKUP, OR WHEN MICHAEL HAS SOME SAD EPIPHANY ABOUT THE SUDN SHAPE OF HIS LIFE. HIS BROAR EDY IS STIFF—HARRIS IS NOT THE LIGHTT OF PRENC, SO HE HAS TROUBLE WH THE SHOW’S ZANIER, GOOFIER MATERIAL. ESPECIALLY NTRAST TO TISHA CAMPBELL, WHO PLAYS MICHAEL’S BS PARTNER, SUZANNE. CAMPBELL IS A DYNAMIC PERFORMER OWED A B MORE THAN SHE GETS HERE, THOUGH THE SHOW DO EVENTUALLY GIVE HER A SHRED OF A STANDALONE PLOT. SHE ALSO HAS A FEW JNTY SCEN WH MARCIA GAY HARN, WHO PLAYS (ON OLD-PRO TOPILOT) A SNOBBY ZILLNAIRE DIVORCéE LOOKG TO REPAIR HER LIFE JT AS MICHAEL IS. FOR ALL OF S CLUNK AND CREAK, UNUPLED IS AN AGREEABLE WATCH. IT’S DARG ENOUGH A FEW PLAC TO FEEL WORTHY OF S ERA, WHILE PROVIDG THE EASY, BRA-ANG, TRAPPED--AMBER ENJOYMENT THAT HAS BEE A HALLMARK OF STAR’S WORK. (IT SHOULD BE SAID, THOUGH, THAT SEX AND THE CY WAS, AT S PEAK, ACTUALLY QUE STIMULATG.) IN THE STTERED MOMENTS WHEN UNUPLED’S SLAPDASH TOPILY AND HOARY STEREOTYP GIVE WAY TO A JAG OF GENUELY SHARP WRG, THE SERI SWELLS TO F S PEDIGREE. THE SHOW ISN’T SEX AND THE CY, BUT NOTHG WILL EVER BE.WE’D PROBABLY DO WELL TO TAKE HEED OF UNUPLED’S MSAGE, THEN. TO STOP ALL OUR ELS PG FOR AN OLD LOVE WE N NEVER GET BACK. AND TO ENGAGE SOME HALFHEARTED FLIRTATN WH SOMETHG NEW AND—MAYBE, JT MAYBE—GOOD ENOUGH FOR NOW.MORE GREAT STORI FROM VANY FAIRPHOEBE WALLER-BRIDGE ON HER “SURREAL” JOURNEY FROM FLEABAG TO INDIANA JONTHE BT TV SHOWS OF 2023, SO FARSEX TOYS, FANCIAL CRIM, AND THE ORIG OF BARBIETHAT SOUND YOU HEAR IS DONALD TMP SCREAMG, CRYG, AND THROWG UP A MAR-A-LAGO BATHROOMIVANKA TMP IS NOT LETTG HER DAD’S MOUNTG LEGAL WO RU HER SUMMERINSI THE ACTORS STRIKE PRS APOLYPSE: “THE CELEBRY FACTORY HAS SHUT DOWN”IS ALL THIS AMATR THERAPY-SPEAK JT MAKG US LONELIER?FROM THE ARCHIVE: TOO HEPBURN FOR HOLLYWOOD (2006)MOST POPULARSOUND OF FREEDOM: THE WILD TE STORY BEHD 2023’S MOST CONTROVERSIAL FILMBY EVE BATEYTHE CAST OF OPPENHEIMER AND THE REAL PEOPLE THEY PLAYBY HILLARY BISRUTH HANDLER: SEX TOYS, FANCIAL CRIM AND THE ORIG OF BARBIEBY ANTHONY BREZNINRICHARD LAWSON

In Darren Star and Jefey Richman’s new Netflix seri “Unupled, ” Harris stars as Michael, a gay New York real tate agent whose partner of 17 years Col (Tuc Watks) leav him.

In fact, the actor has his first on-mera gay sex scene on “Unupled, ” wh “Sex and the Cy” movie alum Gill Mari. The st also clus Tisha Campbell, who plays Michael’s bt iend and bs partner, as well as Emerson Brooks, Brooks Ashmanskas and Marcia Gay Harn.

My gaydom started wh like ‘Into the Woods’ and ‘L Misérabl’ and mil theater. When me time to fd a photo of his private parts for Michael to post on gay hookup app Grdr, an image of a prosthetic penis was nsired. “He’ll be the first gay Doctor, which is gog to be super ol, a sexier Doctor.

UNUPLED REVIEW: A GAY DRAMEDY THAT FEELS TOO BETWIXT AND BETWEEN

Dcribg the new Netflix edy seri Unupled as "Sex and the Cy, but gay" mak about as much sense as scribg somethg as "Entourage, but straight. " Sex and the Cy, created by Unupled -creator Darren Star, was famoly the Goln Girls of s era — a seri ostensibly centerg women whom the wrers were clearly dg as gay men. Conversely, Marcia Gay Harn tak a broadly wrten part — that of a hghty, newly divorced Lady who Lunch who bonds wh Michael — and fds wh a seri of small, specific emotnal beats to play.

Michael's gay iends, horny lol weatherman Billy (Emerson Brooks) and lonely art gallery owner Stanley (Brooks Ashmanskas) are supportive of Michael, jt as Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte were by spendg all those long lunch dutifully noddg along as Carrie lamented her love life. Michael lectur the kid about how he and other gay men ma sacrific for the sake of llow lennials, then adds "Well, not me.

If s centerg of cis whe gay men mak seem like a cultural throwback, try the new Queer as Folk on Peack, which has figured out how to get more voic to the mix ways that broan the stori beg told and brg s characters' differenc to sharper relief. But if you like your othy gay sex edy served wh a si of real tate porn, you uld do worse than Unupled. It's tellg, I thk, that at one pot my hband and I found ourselv growg trated wh the show for some reason we uldn't place, until we realized that every time we see Marcia Gay Harn's character's apartment, 's om the exact same angle.

UNUPLED IS SO GAY

Some viewers, cg the four central characters’ promiscuy and ank talk about their sual hookups, have nclud that they’re secretly avatars for gay men like creator Darren Star and executive producer Michael Patrick Kg.

Nearly a quarter-century later, after two Amerin eratns of Queer as Folk and wh Kg overseeg the Carrie Bradshaw brand And Jt Like That, Star has ma a TV-MA romantic edy whose central characters really are gay men. As Michael mourns, his sgle pals drag him to a ntemporary gay datg scene shaped by Grdr and PrEP.

Along wh his work wife Suzanne (Tisha Campbell) and the imper, superrich divorcée client Claire (Marcia Gay Harn) they’re urtg, the are the people who help Michael realize that he n be kd of a handful.

IS UNUPLED THE GAY SEX AND THE CY?

” And jt like that… ’s as if the last 20 years of sex and the cy, gay and straight, never happened.

It’s a show that ncerns the same fascatns as Star’s landmark seri—New York Cy, romance, reer—only om a gay perspective. Explicly, directly gay, that is. SatC and And Jt Like That, while mostly about straight women, are very much filtered through a gay lens, though the gay characters—chiefly, nebbishy Stanford and harpg Anthony—are often mere plot functnari.

Not so on Unupled, which puts a gay man, forty-somethg Michael (Neil Patrick Harris), ont and center. This sends Michael to a tailsp—and onto apps like Grdr, where he nonts a gay datg world vastly different om the one he knew before he settled for his long domtic spell wh Col.

‘UNUPLED’ REVIEW: THK ‘SEX AND THE CY’ BUT GAY, WH NEIL PATRICK HARRIS AS CARRIE

Theirs wasn’t an open relatnship, which puts Michael at a distance om a lot of gay men a or so his junr.

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