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Contents:
- KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
- AT 60 YEARS OLD, I BEME VISIBLE. GETTG OLD AS A GAY MAN STKS.
- THE VELVET MAFIA: THE GAY MEN WHO HELPED SHAPE MIC THE 60S
- JAGUARS’ KEV MAXEN IS FIRST MALE ACH TO E OUT AS GAY US MEN’S PRO SPORTS
KEV MAXEN BE FIRST MALE ACH A US MEN’S PROFSNAL SPORTS LEAGUE TO PUBLICLY E OUT AS GAY
Kev Maxen has bee the first male ach a US men’s profsnal sports league to e out as gay. * gay en 60 *
Kev Maxen has bee the first male ach a US men’s profsnal sports league to e out as gay. Per Outsports, as of September 2022, there have only ever been 16 players NFL history to publicly e out as gay or bisexual. Carl Nassib beme the first active NFL player league history to announce that he is gay 2021.
Per Outsports, Maxen is the “first publicly out male ach a major Amerin men’s pro sports league, ” wh WNBA ach Curt Miller, who publicly me out to the media as gay 2015, also a publicly out male ach an Amerin profsnal sports league. As a gay man who recently turned 60, I’m pretty sure my life is over. Y, ’s possible that the grayg templ, eye wrkl and extra paddg – which has extguished my dream of ever havg discernible abs – have also hered a new era of so, the virtual visibily wh which I n currently walk through a gay gym or neighborhood is a new experience, and feels like a forced week, as I slathered myself wh anti-wrkle cream, I examed my body expectg to fd a tattooed expiratn date announcg that I’d joed the club of olr gay men who have small dner parti, where they reunt their glory days and pla about the current generatn of their unterparts who fail to give them the rpect they an 'A-gay' worldMuch of what I’m about to say cuts agast everythg I was tght and mostly believe that the substance of a person is all that is important – so I expect to regret this lumn, but am pelled to wre nohels.
SternI was never an “A-gay” – a hotns equivalent of the universal blood type. But I had a particular niche of mutual attractn and, at the risk of soundg like I lack all huy, I miss the attentn at the gym, the ee drks at the bars and the extra chicken wg I ed to fd my greasy rryout bag when I got that I’ve stepped , please dulge me the wallow: Many gay men place a premium on physil bety.
AT 60 YEARS OLD, I BEME VISIBLE. GETTG OLD AS A GAY MAN STKS.
* gay en 60 *
Of urse, all people feel anxiety about their bodi, but even a 2016 study found gay men are more likely than heterosexual men to report feelg prsure to look attractive. Opns your box: Get a digt of our tak on current events every dayThat’s not tend to say that gay men do not value and support tellectual pursus, close iendships and other matters of substance.
THE VELVET MAFIA: THE GAY MEN WHO HELPED SHAPE MIC THE 60S
While I was growg up, beg openly gay jt didn’t seem an optn. I settled down wh a hband and children – but then my sexualy rose to the surface * gay en 60 *
It's outrageo to joke about hateful gay slurs are celebry exceptns to the “get olr and disappear” le.
And there you have ; we were four olr gay men relivg our glory days and plag about the baby gays who were not givg the rpect we served – or at least to which we’d bee acctomed.
JAGUARS’ KEV MAXEN IS FIRST MALE ACH TO E OUT AS GAY US MEN’S PRO SPORTS
To rpond to a lumn, subm a ment to article origally appeared on USA TODAY: Gay men should be able to age gracefully like everyone else. But the people who shaped and advised those artists – the on who managed the stars of the classic rock age – were, by an outsized marg, gay terwoven muny clud Brian Epste (who brought the world the Beatl), K Lambert (who -managed the Who), Simon Napier-Bell (the Yardbirds, and a young Marc Bolan), Robert Stigwood (Cream, the Bee Ge), Billy Gaff (Rod Stewart), Ken Pt (David Bowie), Barry Krost (Cat Stevens), as well as Tony Stratton-Smh (who formed the visnary label Charisma for bands like Genis).
In fact, was a gay man, Larry Parn, who svengali-d Bra’s very first rockers, om Tommy Steele to Billy Fury to Marty Wil. A new book tled The Velvet Mafia: the Gay Men who Ran the Swgg Sixti aims to tell the Brish si of this story by focg on several key players the scene, cludg a few of the aforementned nam along wh the novative producer Joe Meek and the head of the UK’s most powerful label at the time, Sir Joseph Lockwood.
”At the same time, the rich, powerful and fluential men faced the nsirable nsequenc of beg gay at a time when homosexual acts were still outlawed the UK. ”There were, fact, a few powerful gay women the Brish rock scene at the time as well, cludg Vicki Wickham, who booked the acts on the semal TV show Ready Steady Go and who later managed Dty Sprgfield and LaBelle. ”Bullock’s book don’t lve to the eper cultural and psychologil issu volved the relatnships between the gay and straight men.