Why Sayg 'That's Gay' Hurts The LGBTQ Communy

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No, Jalen Hurts is Not Gay and His Sexual Orientatn is Straight. He had a girliend when he was llege. Hurts met his ex-girliend at llege, and they began datg right away. After the athlete moved to Oklahoma, they lled qus. Hurts hasn't shown any signs on Instagram that he's datg.

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JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU

Jacksonville Jaguars associate strength ach Kev Maxen has e out as gay. * gay hurts *

About 80% of people intified as gay/homosexual. -based profsnal league to e out as gay.

Michael Sam beme the first openly gay player to be drafted when the then-St. Jacksonville Jaguars associate strength ach Kev Maxen me out as gay on Thursday what is believed to be a first for a male ach major U. Kev Maxen me out as gay an terview wh Outsports.

JAGUARS ACH KEV MAXEN OUT AS GAY HISTORIC ANNOUNCEMENT

Kev Maxen, an associate strength ach wh the Jacksonville Jaguars, has bee the first male ach a major U.S.-based profsnal league to e out as gay. * gay hurts *

Q: I am 19 years old and homosexual. I do see gay porn sometim.

When I see , giv me a feelg that homosexual activi do not give pleasure to the passive (perated) partner, rather 's paful for him.

I know, that whenever I tablish a homosexual relatnship, I will have to act as both - top and bottom.

JAGUARS ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR U.S.-BASED PRO LEAGU

I am 19 years old and homosexual. Due to exposure to the media, I am well aware that my sexual preference is not a disorr. I do see gay porn sometim. When I see , giv me a feelg that homosexual activi do not give pleasure to the passive (perated) partner, rather 's paful for him. I know, that whenever I tablish a homosexual relatnship, I will have to act as both - top and bottom. But I n't get over the feelg that bottom sex is paful. * gay hurts *

A:Not all homosexual relatnships are 'equal'.

Still, as you know, lns of homosexual men the world over have surmounted the early problems and practice regularly. The Associated Prs named her to the third team of All-Amerins as a sophomore, before she transferred to LSU.

Early Years and EdutnIs Angel Ree Gay?

IS JALEN HURTS GAY? WHAT IS THE SEXUAL ORIENTATN OF ‘EAGL QB’ JALEN HURTS?

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Ree’s performance as a sophomore earned her a spot on the first team of All-Metro after she rerd an average of 17. Also Read: Is Ja Morant Gay?

Is Angel Ree Gay? No, Angel Ree is Not Gay and Her Sexual Orientatn is Straight. Also Read: Is Heavy D Sparks Gay?

Ree took on more rponsibily as a sophomore and beme one of the bt offensive rebounrs the untry.

GAY MEN AND THEIR FATHERS: HURT AND HEALG

Fathers and gay sons: A plited, vally important relatnship. * gay hurts *

Durg her sophomore year, Ree sred 17. Also Read: Is Josh Allen Gay? Also Read: Is Payton Prchard Gay?

Fathers many fai are myster, distant, timidatg figur—even more so for boys wh homosexual attractns. They are the fay torchbearers of manls, and, as mal young and old know, homosexualy is nsired the dread oppose of masculy.

Acrdg to Michael Kimmel, a soclogist and expert on male sex rol, men monstrate their masculy by repudiatg all that is feme and monstratg an ever-ready willgns to engage sexual terurse wh women whenever the opportuny aris- a nutshell, to prove they are not gay. To be gay is to be powerls, weak, unable to break ee om Mommy, and the characteristics are patible wh real manls. Inially, the assertn that homophobia plays center stage men's mascule self-ncept may seem rather extreme.

SAYG 'THAT'S GAY' PEJORATIVELY HURTS THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNY, STOP SAYG IT

Let's be clear, the word gay isn't a bad word. Bis the term referrg to a person who falls love wh the same sex, also means to be happy. Most people who e this word don't know what means and hurl as an sult. * gay hurts *

" "That's so gay.

A boy growg to a gay man will get the msage loud and clear that he is weak, dirty, and, perhaps worst of all, ls than a man. Th is no wonr that the boys the study for my book: Comg Out, Comg Home: Helpg Fai Adjt to a Gay or Lbian Child, relled beg so reactive and fearful of the rpons of their fathers—the very people who were expectg them to receive and rry the torch of masculy. He would ll gay people nam and stuff.

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Stop It Hurts You're Killg Me Don't Stop Lyrics: Uh yeah / I'm only happy when the blu turn to gray / I'm only happy when my boyiend is gay / I'm only happy when you're losg a bet / I'm only happy when my daddy's ad / Ooh * gay hurts *

We mt remember that fathers and sons live the same world—one that teach boys that homosexualy is patible wh real masculy and, by associatn, full male adulthood. Fathers too were raised to not only look down upon homosexualy, but to fear themselv.

Th havg a gay son might feel particularly shameful for a father, as he may believe is an dictment of his own masculy. When a father this study ially found out his son was gay, he repeated, over and over, "Do you know what two men do to each other? " Add to this shame and disappotment men's tenncy to be stoic about problems to avoid appearg petent or weak and one gets a sense why many fathers, like those of the boys prevly quoted, did not want to discs such a topic wh a stranger—a gay stranger, no ls.

MICHAEL SAM SAYS HE REGRETS COMG OUT AS GAY BEFORE THE NFL DRAFT

There's a way to burst through the shame gay men are ma to feel about homosexualy. * gay hurts *

Neverthels, is important to regnize that father-son antagonism uld be particularly woundg for a gay man. Richard Isay, a psychoanalyst who specializ work wh gay men believ that gay mal unrgo a reverse-Oedipal plex whereby, as young boys, they bee subnscly sexually attracted to their fathers (rather than their mothers). When the boy is a toddler, the father anxly sens the sublimal sexual charge their relatnship and, bee he is socialized to be repelled and aaid of homosexualy, he nsequently disengag om his son.

WHY “THAT’S SO GAY” HURTS SO MUCH

Oedipal issu asi, a velopg gay boy may monstrate some tradnally feme gtur or terts that forhadow an adult homosexual orientatn, which may turn make his father unfortable and want to distance. Sadly, father-son disengagement or stra may have particularly pernic nsequenc for gay men's adult liv and relatnships. If this primary relatnship is characterized by fear, distance, and hostily durg childhood, as is for many gay men, this will no doubt terfere wh his abily to form and mata timate, mted relatnships wh male partners his future.

For gay sons of all ag, but pecially those who are stgglg to tablish, fix, or strengthen their current same-sex relatnships, might be a good ia to look toward their past relatnships wh their fathers for sights and answers.

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