Gay black pastors reveal 'down low' liftyl on new 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' - TheGr

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Rev. Derek Terry who was featured on the three part season five premiere of the Iyanla, Fix My Life Show: Secret Life as a Gay Pastor episos on the Oprah Wey Network is currently featured on CNN's new lennial news work "Great Big Story" (). Sce g own to a ngregatn of his fay and hometown muny, Rev. Derek has bee a bean of hope, spiratn, and enuragement for dividuals strivg to live their tth.

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WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE A BLACK GAY PASTOR WHO CAME OUT ON NATNAL TELEVISN

“I stand here, I am Reverend—ordaed, y Lord—Reverend Derek Anthony Terry, and I am a black gay man who misters,” is how Rev. Derek Terry me out to many of his relativ, iends, and members of his ngregatn earlier this year. It’s also how he told the world when his g-out sermon aired last weekend on OWN’s self-help seri Iyanla Fix My Life, as the climax of Rev. Terry’s three-episo arc. * gay pastor derek *

[There was a vio here]“I stand here, I am Reverend—ordaed, y Lord—Reverend Derek Anthony Terry, and I am a black gay man who misters, ” is how Rev. Gay-iendly), was of particular tert to me, as were issu of tersectnaly, the supposed ntradictn of beg a gay practicg Christian, and the oft-repeated belief that black people are more homophobic than wh (“Black culture is so homophobic, ” said Kanye Wt, for example, an terview that was released this week).

Some people I never thought were gay me out wh their stori, some people were sexually asslted. Derek is—he’s gay, he’s gog to be on the show, he’s gog to be talkg about this... They hontly believe, “If you’re gog to be gay, jt be gay, you don’t need to talk about .

It’s been posive but ’s been ’s the gay experience a nutshell: You jt have so much more to nsir than straight people. He was gay a nomatn that said, “You n’t be gay.

GAY BLACK PASTORS REVEAL 'DOWN LOW' LIFTYL ON NEW 'IYANLA: FIX MY LIFE'

Rev. Derek Terry who was featured on the three part season five premiere of the Iyanla, Fix My Life Show: Secret Life as a Gay Pastor episos on the Oprah Wey Network is currently featured on CNN's new lennial news work "Great Big Story" (). Sce g own to a ngregatn of his fay and hometown muny, Rev. Derek has bee a bean of hope, spiratn, and enuragement for dividuals strivg to live their tth. * gay pastor derek *

” The guys who did this were the young gay-for-pay kda thugs. ” I have iends that are pastors who are gay and they wa till they go out of town, they fd any reason to go out of town, or any reason to do anythg, jt so they n go and be gay and then e back and be miserable aga. There’s a stereotype that black people are more homophobic than whe people.

Even a lot of black gay people will say, “Well, marriage equaly is a gay whe issue. ” People see as an eher/or: You have to fight for your blackns or your gayns.

But beg a black gay man means somethg.

CAN THIS FAY ACCEPT THEIR GAY SON?

* gay pastor derek *

Jt image how black gay women feel. There’s also the ia of racism wh the gay muny. Black gay issu are different than whe gay issu.

BLACK, GAY, PASTOR WHO CAME OUT ON THE OPRAH WEY NETWORK IS FEATURED ON GREAT BIG STORY (A CNN COMPANY)

"You n be a lot of thgs the black church, but, Lord, do not be gay." * gay pastor derek *

A lot of black gay people feel like, “They’re not fightg for our rights, ” jt like trans people feel that way.

BLACK, GAY, PASTOR WHO CAME OUT ON THE OPRAH WEY NETWORK IS FEATURED ON GREAT BIG STORY (A CNN COMPANY)

At the end of the day, the fact that I’m gay has ltle to do this sex. Even if I’m not havg sex, I’m still gay. Not jt gay people, but people—whatever your tth is, whatever you’re hidg, whatever you don’t want other people to fd out bee you’re aaid they’re gog to nmn you, don’t matter.

Right now ’s easy and I don’t have sex and I don’t know what happens ’s the short answer you give when someone says, “How n you be a Christian and gay?

HOW A TRAGEDY HELPED ME ACCEPT MYSELF AS A GAY PASTOR

” or “How n you be a pastor and gay?

There are anywhere om four to eight that nmn homosexualy.

In the first episo, you said, “When I hear myself say, ‘I am a gay man, ’ mak me feel hurt.

I'M A GAY, CELIBATE PASTOR OF A NSERVATIVE CHURCH. HERE'S A TRICK FOR -LATN.

That show is the first time I said, “I am gay. Aga, a lot of my black iends who are gay won’t e that word. Two gay pastors, who for years have been keepg their homosexualy secret, will reveal their “down low” liftyl to their fai and ngregatns an emotnal three-part seri premiere of OWN’s Iyanla: Fix My Life, which kicks off on Saturday.

But as for Iyanla Vanzant, she hop to spark a larger nversatn about the taboo topic of homosexualy the black church. “My experience has been whenever this nversatn up of homosexualy the black church, ’s shut down. Pastor Mchell was married wh five children and spent years preachg agast homosexualy, but he was havg affairs wh men.

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