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Contents:

• LGBTQ LERATURE: FARM BOYS: LIV OF GAY MEN OM THE RURAL MIDWT
• BACKWOODS QUEER: LIFE AS A GAY MAN RURAL GEIA
• FIVE YEARS OLD AND GAY RURAL, WTERN KANSAS
• 'S-TOWN' AND THE LONELS OF BEG GAY THE RURAL SOUTH
• A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
• FARM BOYS: LIV OF GAY MEN OM THE RURAL MIDWT
• JAKE'S STORY OF BEG GAY RAL ATRALIA
• CONSERVATIVE NEIGHBOR TOSS AD RAT ON PROPERTY OF GAY UPLE’S RTRANT AMID FD
• ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL

LGBTQ LERATURE: FARM BOYS: LIV OF GAY MEN OM THE RURAL MIDWT

I wanted to wre a story that sh a light on an overlooked part of the AIDS epimic, those gay men who returned to the fai and muni that had rejected them, and on an tersectn we don’t see enough lerature: the queer and the ral. Like many queer kids, I learned about the world, and about myself, through books, gleang unspoken possibili about sexualy, genr, and masculy, om characters like tomboy Sut and her “cur” iend Dill to the homoerotic greasers The Outsirs.

Both love song to and crique of Appalachia, the majory of the stori this but llectn take place the mountas of Wt Virgia, where ’s not easy to be gay. The geo, poignant tle story explor g of age as a young gay boy the mountas, a queer love story that ends not tragedy but wh a gasp of hope.

Grimsley wr about the realy of homophobia and vlence, but also about the bety and tenrns and hols of a place, of young love: “They step to rt a ltle way si the fort unr a gkgo tree, s goln leav showerg round them as they get their breath.

BACKWOODS QUEER: LIFE AS A GAY MAN RURAL GEIA

This lh, poetic, genero, philosophil novel, told om multiple characters’ pots of view, both gay and straight, exam the love and flaws and fivens of fay—whether blogil or chosen: “fay has no fixed boundari but is eternally changg, a river whose banks are formed by all those to whom she choos to bd herself wh the joys and burns of love. A young, gay, black man a small, ral town the South feels trapped by muny, by the opprsive relign of his fay, and by his own sexual reprsn.

FIVE YEARS OLD AND GAY RURAL, WTERN KANSAS

This but novel spans the ral landspe of the Pacific Northwt, the gged mountas of Idaho, and small-town Texas, followg a woman who p her abive hband wh her dghter, and her gay eighteen-year-old son who fds love wh the foreman on a nstctn crew.

Mrice by EM ForsterThe gay grand-daddy of them all, Forster’s elegant love story was wrten 1913, but – for fear of sndal – remaed unpublished until his ath 60 years later. For middle-aged gay men like me, the 1987 film adaptatn was a huge talyst our g out – and surprisgly sexy, too, for a Merchant Ivory number.

The stori llected by Garrger over the years have been shared on the Country Queers webse and Instagram page, and startg June 30, the new “Country Queers” podst will but on Apple Podsts, Spotify and ‘monotony and fabulosy’ of ral lifeFor the past seven years, Garrger has terviewed 65 people om 15 stat — om Arizona all the way to Vermont — and has llaborated wh queer anizatns cludg the Two Spir Natnal Cultural Exchange, the Kansas Queer Youth Network and the Internatnal Gay Roo Associatn.

'S-TOWN' AND THE LONELS OF BEG GAY THE RURAL SOUTH

“When I tell my story, I tell people that I me out twice: one is the Wtern sense of beg gay, and the send was more of a cultural sense of beg gay, ” Apache told NBC News. “When I have nversatns wh people back home, there was a sort of fear or a kd of apprehensn when I said I was gay, bee their ncept, they thk of the gay person as somebody not livg unr rervatn, who didn’t have any rponsible ti to the cultural aspect of the tribe, which I thought was kd of an tertg perceptn, but wasn’t until I clared that I was g out as a Two Spir person that that nnectn ma more sense"‘I had to go back to the mountas’Hermelda Cortés, who serv as an edorial adviser for the new podst, was featured one of Country Queers’ Instagram takeovers. There is no hate crime law verg sexual orientatn or genr inty, and ’s still legal for an employer to fire someone for beg gay.

A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.

“I had iends share stori of leavg therapy worse than they entered due to homophobia and ignorance amongst unselor, ” Gardner says.

Image om Author: Woodland near Readg, UKFor a long time I felt the bt way to live a gay life was to move to the cy bee that is where I saw other gay people, gay venu, and gay culture. Didier Eribon and Eduard Louis offered two of the most pellg of the kds of stori, but at the end of Eribon’s excellent memoir, Returng to Reims, he also poted out that, ‘there are also plac where gay people meet small towns and the untry’ and that there are ral plac where ‘forms of sociabily and relatnaly that, even if ls numero, ls ncentrated, and ls visible, are no ls real’ ia that the untrysi is not a place for LGBTQIA+ people seems to persist, partly bee we see such a vibrant culture major metropolan areas, but also bee of the way which we engage wh our history, and what is ma visible.

But perhaps now is the time, wh Covid-19 enuragg a renewed discsn on the benefs of a ral life, for LGBTQIA+ people to explore queer ral I was growg up Suffolk, England, the 1990s, the only ntext I had for beg gay, were my ral experienc of sire — the boys I would secretly velop a csh on. It was an isolatg and lonely experience, worsened by Thatcher’s discrimatory Sectn 28 law which enforced silence on gay issu school and allowed homophobia to enjoy the benefs of state support.

FARM BOYS: LIV OF GAY MEN OM THE RURAL MIDWT

Ocsnally, on the televisn, I would see people like Freddie Mercury or Boy Gee but there was no gay ral lostar; there were no role mols, historil or current, around which I uld lote my of the LGBTQIA+ people I have spoken to as part of my work to ral queerns have exprsed siar experienc of feelg like the only gay the village.

Adria Ptock, who is now Chair of Suffolk Pri, explaed how not havg any role mols, alongsi homophobia, ma her reprs her feelgs for many years, so that was not until she was her forti that she was able to e out.

JAKE'S STORY OF BEG GAY RAL ATRALIA

Craig, om Suffolk, said that while he knew he was gay, the bullyg enuraged him to reprs those feelgs, date and marry a woman, before g out his mid is apparent that the lack of visibily ral areas n have long-term effects on gay people who live those areas, and how safe they feel to e out or to meet other people. ESSAY | LIFE | RURAL LIVING | LGBT+ | AUTOBIOGRAPHYFive Years Old and Gay Rural, Wtern KansasThe remarkable story of Kev and the doghoe(Not a Medium member? My sneakg spicn that the feelgs were very wrong beme realy when my grandmother found out urse, at five, I had no ncept of beg gay.

As Ameri begs s next round of vourg queer muni whole, acquirg a taste for gay wboy poetry and trans small-town stori is sential. “No promo homo” legislatn might pri over the classroom as gospel, but librari, the ter, and other muny centers n fill the val gaps people’s LGBTQ+ tn.

CONSERVATIVE NEIGHBOR TOSS AD RAT ON PROPERTY OF GAY UPLE’S RTRANT AMID FD

The largt cultural phenomenon surroundg gay ral cema jt might be “Brokeback Mounta, ” the movie based on Annie Proulx’s short story of the same name.

And no matter how much legislatn and harm that to trans and gay youth and adults the stat, they’ll still live out there, all the same, their voic refg to get choked out. It’s good practice to show gay and trans kids they’re not alone, queer adults that their liv are not so isolated, that to be LGBTQ+ and ral is more than patible. The bsman and his wife, Melissa, first plaed to the Front Porch proprietors about pre-dawn vendor liveri 2019, not long after the nservative Christian uple moved their fancial firm right next door to the rtrant, which fli a gay Pri flag.

ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL

(Front Porch Market and Grill)What’s more, the Washers say, the ad rat was jt one more sult that the uple, who once planted an “all liv matter” sign their ont yard, have endured sce movg next door to a rtrant owned by a gay uple. They married 2020, five years after they opened the Front Porch, which quickly beme a statn The Front Porch has been flyg a Pri flag on s pat sce 2016, not long after a gunman killed 49 people a gay bar Orlando.

Waybourn was print of the Dallas Gay Alliance when sued Parkland Memorial Hospal for failg to provi readily available medic to AIDS patients. “I had so many threats agast me that even the Dallas police statned squad rs outsi our home, ” Waybourn an activist, Waybourn says, his goals were clear: same-sex marriage, gays and lbians the ary, accs to lifavg medic. To the activist, feels like a step backward after a lifetime of fightg for gay pack the seats at the Board of Zong Appeals hearg hosted at Grace Epispal Church.