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Contents:
- 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
- I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
- IS IT GAY HBAND? LBIAN WIFE? OR WHAT?
'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
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I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
“Some women ntact the service before their hband is even aware they know he’s gay, ” she says. Never once did she spect he was gay.
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IS IT GAY HBAND? LBIAN WIFE? OR WHAT?
I don’t believe bisexualy, I thk he was gay, ” she says. “When you love someone and you know you’re gay, you don’t marry them. And many of the men, embolned by the sense of eedom and h excement afford them by disverg the gay scene, pletely scrib the impact had on her children.
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