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Contents:

• SAN FRANCIS’S 3 MOST FAB GAY NEIGHBORHOODS
• HOW THE GAY TWIST NEIGHBORS 2 TURNS THE “BROMANCE” ON ITS HEAD
• I LOST MY VIRGY TO MY GAY NEIGHBOR. I SORTA REGRET .
• LEARNG TO LOVE MY GAY NEIGHBOR, PART TWO: EMPATHY
• THE GAYBORS/MY GAY NEIGHBOR
• HOW TO SHARE CHRIST WH YOUR GAY NEIGHBORS WHOUT AFFIRMG THEIR LIFTYLE
• MOVG TO LGBT DALLAS, TEXAS? HOW TO FD YOUR PERFECT GAY NEIGHBORHOOD!
• A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
• SOME ‘ALLI’ DON’T WANT GAY NEIGHBORS
• THE UNREMARKABLE CALL TO LOVE OUR GAY NEIGHBORS
• OUR GAY NEIGHBORS
• SOME 'ALLI' DON'T WANT GAY NEIGHBORS
• HOW SHOULD CHRISTIANS RELATE TO GAY FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, AND FAY?

SAN FRANCIS’S 3 MOST FAB GAY NEIGHBORHOODS

Was she accg me of turng her hband gay? Like the time he told me he had gone on a porn se to see how gay men “do . I’ve known upl, gay and straight, who were open relatnships.

The steam room and sna at my lol Y served as a kd of after-work social club for men who were gay ― and for those who had wiv and kids. I knew a gay imprar when I lived San Francis the 1980s. One night he threw a dner party for his gay circle of iends at Trar Vic’s.

HOW THE GAY TWIST NEIGHBORS 2 TURNS THE “BROMANCE” ON ITS HEAD

When lookg for some of the bt gay neighborhoods San Francis, some stand out om the rt. For some, is one of the bt gay areas San Francis. Bt gay areas San Francis.

I LOST MY VIRGY TO MY GAY NEIGHBOR. I SORTA REGRET .

Comedy about male iendship wasn’t new, but the movi and their mutually adorg hero felt like a shift after a of vilently homophobic at-pack flicks—Weddg Crashers, Dodgeball, etc. Before long, they beme a b of an assembly le themselv, and they brought their own problems, but they seemed at least to reject many of Amerin edy’s most toxic gay-panic stcts favor of newly trospective male relatnships. There are probably some jok Superbad that are borrg on blatantly homophobic at tim.

Or The Interview, wh s tly idtic scen where Emem out as gay and Jam Fran kiss Kim Jong-un. Neighbors self toggl between gay bag and gay panic, as when two at bros grasp each other’s balls durg a fight but then have a near breakdown when one of them gets an erectn.

LEARNG TO LOVE MY GAY NEIGHBOR, PART TWO: EMPATHY

But even as they relied on the sometim-homophobic ctch, the movi really were gettg at somethg new. It uldn’t be a cince that the bromance h a zegeisy high at the same time Amerin pop culture began to qutn s ias about male closens and kneejerk ridiculg of gayns.

Gay panic didn’t disappear om Hollywood edi, but this gentle progrs certaly ma a difference.

Goldberg was apparently the one who suggted that Pete “should jt be gay, ” sce he basilly was already. But the moment is still worth celebratg, bee shows how the movie’s homosocial progenors really did open up new possibili.

THE GAYBORS/MY GAY NEIGHBOR

My gay neighbor was two olr than me.

Eher the gay neighbor knew I was horny or beg prsed beg rejected by women. Then, he asks me about havg terurse wh a gay guy.

HOW TO SHARE CHRIST WH YOUR GAY NEIGHBORS WHOUT AFFIRMG THEIR LIFTYLE

The last gay terurse was wh a classmate om a different class at llege. I lost my virgy to a gay neighbor who wanted my big d and h meat.

Learng to love my gay neighbor, Part Two: Empathy. So, if you’re willg to step out of your fort zone (the “homosexualy is a s, end of story” zone), let’s do this.

My purpose the posts is not to exce or ratnalize homosexualy – or to nmn – but to discs how to be Christlike about .

MOVG TO LGBT DALLAS, TEXAS? HOW TO FD YOUR PERFECT GAY NEIGHBORHOOD!

That’s how feels for a gay person to image beg attracted to someone of the oppose sex. So aga, really try to visualize beg a gay person, and beg expected to be attracted to someone of the oppose sex.

So let’s start by tryg to envisn what a young man or woman might feel when they first beg to realize they are gay.

Image beg aaid that your loved on will reject you, wonrg if you will jo the statistics of young gay people livg on the streets, or beg bullied relentlsly, or takg their own liv.

A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.

Next, image this: a group of relig men fd out that you are gay.

They say, “J, this young man/woman is a homosexual! Is homosexualy is a choice? But we need to acknowledge that more and more good science dit that homosexualy is somethg people are born wh, to one extent or another (that is, the “nature” is there, but “nurture” is another factor).

Instead of tellg them we’ve cid they were born gay or chose to be gay, why aren’t we askg them? We mt rpect the experience and opns of those who actually hab gay bodi.

SOME ‘ALLI’ DON’T WANT GAY NEIGHBORS

I remember my evangelil days thkg, “God would never create someone gay. ” But when someone intifi as gay, most of tend not to be so kd. Why do we sgle out homosexualy as a tra (or “abomatn”) that people mt have brought on themselv bee God would never perm such a thg to happen?

THE UNREMARKABLE CALL TO LOVE OUR GAY NEIGHBORS

Cast & crewUser reviews2012Unrated1h 24mA gay man fds himself torn between two sgle lovers who happen to be father and son. A gay man fds himself torn between two sgle lovers who happen to be father and son.

A gay man fds himself torn between two sgle lovers who happen to be father and productn, box office & pany PhotosMore like thisReview It's jt a edy... I was gog across to Detro as my hband and I sometim do, ually separate to go shoppg and go out to a gay bar or two as we don’t get to do this Wdsor.

This is why I believe I got pulled to sendary and what followed for the next two pl hours horrified me and ma me feel so small and ls of a human as all my rights were sudnly torn out om unr my feet, for the mere fact that I am gay and nothg else. I told the guard that I felt I had been profiled for beg gay and he said to me well if you would like to wa another hour you n brg up your ncerns wh a supervisor. I will be sendg a py of this letter to CTV Toronto, CBC Wdsor and Toronto and also OUT TV so they know what n happen to a gay man tryg to enter the Uned Stat of Ameri and that you are willg to allow this to happen on Canadian Soil to a Canadian.

OUR GAY NEIGHBORS

I am a 46 year old gay male who is happily married and love my untry and have always thought very highly and protected here until this happened to me and the USA CPB officers went through my phone, my tablet, my r and que hontly personally vlated my body and any rights I had were then taken away. So here is a total acunt of what happened to me on Friday morng till early afternoon as I tried to go to Detro Michigan to go shoppg and h the gay bars the eveng for a ltle fun.

I was nfed and nervo now and didn't know what to say anymore at this pot, I answered tthfully and told them Matt is my hband and y I have iends Detro who I have talked to and text to see about the gay bars and which was gog to be the bt sued for me to go to. I told the guard that I thk I am beg profiled bee I am gay, he said I n assure you this is not the se. He started wh the Mlims, he is now movg on to the blacks and the gays, and Mexins.

SOME 'ALLI' DON'T WANT GAY NEIGHBORS

I have voted liberal my whole life sce I was 18 and have always done so wh pri as I new they would protect my tights as a person, as a mory and as gay. My thoughts on Wdsor Gay Communy.

The gay muny here Wdsor is a very divid one, wh some gay men that never go out and if they do, is totally not to the only gay bar or so lled gay bar Wdsor. To be a part of the gay Bar, you mt be a self dulged, sometime ke snortg idt, I do not and have not ever done dgs, but am sure the back of the toilet the ladi room there gets ed more for snortg ke that has ever been ed as a washroom. The other half of the gay muny are jt snobs my opn and will be iendly but never want to be iends, to me that is like puttg your hand out to shake another but then whdrawg quickly.

HOW SHOULD CHRISTIANS RELATE TO GAY FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, AND FAY?

After years of workg and managg gay bars and other bars all over the untry I have never experienced such an tolerance for people who share one mon thg, beg a mory. They have segregated myself to never want to associate wh 98% of the gay people here. There is no teractn and no iendls at all amongst most of the gay muny here unls you n get to their circle of iends at some pot and some how.

I have often thought of openg a gay bar here and am now of the believe that this would be a horrible vtment as the gays here do not support their own and they also do not appreciate anythg or anyone who tri to do anythg for the muny. I for one will never return to this spot, though my optns are limed here so I thk if I want to go to a gay bar, I will have to cross the borr and h up Detro for a night.

Today, we're gog to talk about how to share the Gospel wh your gay neighbors, a Christlike and lovg way, whout affirmg them their liftyle. His books clu Why Bother Wh Church?, 7 Myths About Sglens, What God Has to say about our Bodi, and Is God Anti-Gay?. My nversatn wh Sam helped me better unrstand how to evangelize same-sex attracted and gay neighbors (and that distctn is important—listen for how Sam explas that later), and as you seek to lead your fay fendg the Christian msage, I thk will help you too.