Unrstandg and navigatg your csh A csh is somethg special, and you should enjoy havg one! But when that csh is the same genr as you are, n be a b strsful stead. Do this mean you're gay? Should you tell them?...
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- HERE'S THE THG SUBSCRIBESIGN {"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","URL":","MAENTYOFPAGE":","HEADLE":"HELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS GAY.","SCRIPTN":"IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT.","IMAGE":[{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":"}],"DATEPUBLISHED":"2021-05-31T15:04:25+00:00","DATEMODIFIED":"2021-05-31T15:04:25+00:00","ISACCSIBLEFORFREE":TE,"THOR":[{"@TYPE":"PERSON","NAME":"SOPHIA BENO","URL":","SCRIPTN":"AUTHOR OF WELL, THIS IS EXHAUSTING | SEX, CULTURE & ADVICE LUMNIST FOR BTLE AND GQ | IBS SUFFERER \N\N","INTIFIER":"ER:1914946","SAMEAS":["],"IMAGE":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"}}],"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"HERE'S THE THG ","URL":","SCRIPTN":"ADVICE + LISTS + HORNS, MOSTLY","TERACTNSTATISTIC":{"@TYPE":"INTERACTNCOUNTER","NAME":"SUBSCRIBERS","TERACTNTYPE":","ERINTERACTNCOUNT":1000},"INTIFIER":"PUB:7043","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"},"IMAGE":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"},"SAMEAS":["]}}SHARE THIS POSTHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS GAY.IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT.SOPHIA BENOMAY 31, 20215SHARE THIS POSTHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERSHAREHERE’S THE THG IS AN ADVICE LUMN/NEWSLETTER WHERE I MOSTLY BEG PEOPLE TO EHER STOP DATG SOMEONE OR TO ASK THEIR CSH OUT. OR I TALK ABOUT WEIRD THGS THAT ME TO MY MD THAT NO ONE IS PAYG ME TO WRE ABOUT. I N NEVER CI IF I SHOULD PALIZE THE “THE” HERE’S THE THG OR NOT; APOLOGI ON LACK OF NSISTENCY. SUBSCRIBEA BIG SWEETIE: MY QUTN/PROBLEM IS PRETTY SIMPLE- I (STRAIGHT WOMAN) HAVE A CSH ON MY GAY MALE IEND. I DON'T THK HE HAS EVER FELT AMBIGUOLY ABOUT HIS SEXUALY SO TO BE CLEAR I'M NOT NFED ABOUT WHAT'S POSSIBLE OR TRYG TO TERPRET MIXED SIGNALS OR ANYTHG. AND I'M NOT SURE WHAT HAPPENED TO ME- ONE DAY WE WERE IENDS AND THE NEXT DAY I HAD THIS CSH. I GUS I'M JT A) EMBARRASSED BEE THIS SEEMS SOMEHOW FUNDAMENTALLY EMBARRASSG—I HAVE ONLY TOLD MY BROTHER ABOUT THIS AND, I GUS, NOW YOU AND THE TER B) BUMMED BEE I DON'T HAVE CSH VERY OFTEN AND HOW UNFAIR IS THAT THE ONE I DO NOW HAVE IS ON SOMEONE TO WHOM IS PLETELY IRRELEVANT AND C) SAD BEE I RE ABOUT HIM MORE THAN ANYONE AND WHAT IS ONE SUPPOSED TO DO WH THAT KD OF RG WHEN I WILL ALWAYS JT BE A CLOSE IEND? I ASSUME ONE DAY I'LL GET PAST THIS, AND THAT WHEN I DO I WILL NTUE TO DO THE SAME THG I DO NOW AND HAVE ALWAYS DONE—WORK TO BE THE BT IEND I N TO THIS PERSON WHOM I RE, AND HAVE ALWAYS RED A LOT ABOUT. I HOPE YOU DON'T TELL ME WE SHOULDN'T BE IENDS (IF THAT'S THE NCLN YOU E TO PLEASE DON'T ANSWER THIS LETTER! I DON'T WANT TO KNOW...) BEE I REALLY DON'T THK THIS IS GETTG THE WAY OF OUR IENDSHIP. IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT. ANYWAY—YOUR ADVICE LUMN IS SO LOVELY AND PASSNATE I THOUGHT MAYBE YOU ULD HELP ME FD A BETTER? MORE PRODUCTIVE? WAY OF THKG ABOUT THIS. SUBM A QUTNSOPHIA:
- GAY CSH ON A ... GAY FRIEND?
- I HAVE A CSH ON MY GAY IEND
- HAVE YOU EVER HAD A CSH ON A GAY GUY?
HERE'S THE THG SUBSCRIBESIGN {"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","URL":","MAENTYOFPAGE":","HEADLE":"HELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS GAY.","SCRIPTN":"IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT.","IMAGE":[{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":"}],"DATEPUBLISHED":"2021-05-31T15:04:25+00:00","DATEMODIFIED":"2021-05-31T15:04:25+00:00","ISACCSIBLEFORFREE":TE,"THOR":[{"@TYPE":"PERSON","NAME":"SOPHIA BENO","URL":","SCRIPTN":"AUTHOR OF WELL, THIS IS EXHAUSTING | SEX, CULTURE & ADVICE LUMNIST FOR BTLE AND GQ | IBS SUFFERER \N\N","INTIFIER":"ER:1914946","SAMEAS":["],"IMAGE":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"}}],"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"HERE'S THE THG ","URL":","SCRIPTN":"ADVICE + LISTS + HORNS, MOSTLY","TERACTNSTATISTIC":{"@TYPE":"INTERACTNCOUNTER","NAME":"SUBSCRIBERS","TERACTNTYPE":","ERINTERACTNCOUNT":1000},"INTIFIER":"PUB:7043","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"},"IMAGE":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","NTENTURL":","THUMBNAILURL":"},"SAMEAS":["]}}SHARE THIS POSTHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS GAY.IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT.SOPHIA BENOMAY 31, 20215SHARE THIS POSTHELP! I HAVE A CSH ON MY IEND, WHO IS COPY LKFACEBOOKEMAILNOTOTHERSHAREHERE’S THE THG IS AN ADVICE LUMN/NEWSLETTER WHERE I MOSTLY BEG PEOPLE TO EHER STOP DATG SOMEONE OR TO ASK THEIR CSH OUT. OR I TALK ABOUT WEIRD THGS THAT ME TO MY MD THAT NO ONE IS PAYG ME TO WRE ABOUT. I N NEVER CI IF I SHOULD PALIZE THE “THE” HERE’S THE THG OR NOT; APOLOGI ON LACK OF NSISTENCY. SUBSCRIBEA BIG SWEETIE: MY QUTN/PROBLEM IS PRETTY SIMPLE- I (STRAIGHT WOMAN) HAVE A CSH ON MY GAY MALE IEND. I DON'T THK HE HAS EVER FELT AMBIGUOLY ABOUT HIS SEXUALY SO TO BE CLEAR I'M NOT NFED ABOUT WHAT'S POSSIBLE OR TRYG TO TERPRET MIXED SIGNALS OR ANYTHG. AND I'M NOT SURE WHAT HAPPENED TO ME- ONE DAY WE WERE IENDS AND THE NEXT DAY I HAD THIS CSH. I GUS I'M JT A) EMBARRASSED BEE THIS SEEMS SOMEHOW FUNDAMENTALLY EMBARRASSG—I HAVE ONLY TOLD MY BROTHER ABOUT THIS AND, I GUS, NOW YOU AND THE TER B) BUMMED BEE I DON'T HAVE CSH VERY OFTEN AND HOW UNFAIR IS THAT THE ONE I DO NOW HAVE IS ON SOMEONE TO WHOM IS PLETELY IRRELEVANT AND C) SAD BEE I RE ABOUT HIM MORE THAN ANYONE AND WHAT IS ONE SUPPOSED TO DO WH THAT KD OF RG WHEN I WILL ALWAYS JT BE A CLOSE IEND? I ASSUME ONE DAY I'LL GET PAST THIS, AND THAT WHEN I DO I WILL NTUE TO DO THE SAME THG I DO NOW AND HAVE ALWAYS DONE—WORK TO BE THE BT IEND I N TO THIS PERSON WHOM I RE, AND HAVE ALWAYS RED A LOT ABOUT. I HOPE YOU DON'T TELL ME WE SHOULDN'T BE IENDS (IF THAT'S THE NCLN YOU E TO PLEASE DON'T ANSWER THIS LETTER! I DON'T WANT TO KNOW...) BEE I REALLY DON'T THK THIS IS GETTG THE WAY OF OUR IENDSHIP. IT DON'T CHANGE ANYTHG WHEN WE'RE TOGETHER, BUT I THK ABOUT OFTEN WHEN WE'RE NOT. ANYWAY—YOUR ADVICE LUMN IS SO LOVELY AND PASSNATE I THOUGHT MAYBE YOU ULD HELP ME FD A BETTER? MORE PRODUCTIVE? WAY OF THKG ABOUT THIS. SUBM A QUTNSOPHIA:
Do this mean you're gay? Also, keep md that havg a csh on a person of the same genr don't tomatilly mean you are gay. Sexual orientatn is more than a qutn of whether you are gay, pansexual, queer, straight, or bisexual.
GAY CSH ON A ... GAY FRIEND?
In addn, sexual orientatn is not jt about who you have feelgs for, 's also about how you thk of yourself (as, straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, or somethg else), and how you actually behave.
I HAVE A CSH ON MY GAY IEND
Once you are fortable enough, ask your csh some qutns to see how they feel about the LGBTQ muny or gay folks. " Or "Are you gay? had a csh on a gay iend:’).
HAVE YOU EVER HAD A CSH ON A GAY GUY?
I asked him if he had liked me before, he said he do, he had feelgs for me, but he’s pretty sure that he’s jt gay, not bi.