There's More Than One Way for Gay Men to Have Sex | GQ

Contents:

• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON
• BOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX)WILLAMFEATURGVICKY VOX & DETOX ICUNTJAN. 26, 20131 VIEWER3 CONTRIBUTORSBOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX) LYRICSHE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMMAKE HIM TRY TO TOP, HE'LL CRYNEVER EVEN SAID HE'S BIIT SAYS "HE'S VERSE" UP ON HIS GRDR (AH-OOH)"VERSATILE", YEAH, OKAY (AH-AH-OOH)GIRL, YOU KNOW YOU'RE SUPER GAY(WOAH-AH-OH)ASS UP AND PULL THOSE PANTS DOWN(I HAD HEARD AT ONE TIME THAT HE HAD A GOWN)(WOAH-AH-OH)HIS HOLE IS MEDIUM RARE (PK)AND YOU WON'T FD A HAIR (STK)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET ASS BOTTOMHE GOT FLEET ENEMAS FOR DAYS60 MUT THE GYM45 OF THAT IS SHOWERG"HE'S A JOCK"LEAST HE WEARS ONE ON A DATE (AH-OOH)ASSPSY, SWEET AND CLEAN (AH-AH-OOH)A TOTAL TOP'S TOTAL DREAM(WOAH-AH-OH)THAT HOLE A'T BEEN TIGHT FOR YEARSSLOPABOTTOM QUEER(WOAH-AH-OH)RECTAL PROLAPSE BE DAMNED ('S OL, 'S OL, 'S OL)SHOVE UP HIS N (TAKE THAT, TAKE )THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMEVERYBODY SAYS THAT HE’S A HOEA’T NO SHAME HIS M.OWOULDN’T BE TOPS WHOUT HIS KDSO WHEN HE LLS YOU BETTER GET BEHDDON’T BE ON C.P. TIMECSE HE’S A FUCK’ BOTTOM, BABYBOTTOM, BABYDICKPIGOVER HERE, PIGMAKE MY SHAFT DISAPPEAR YOUR REAR, PIGDOUBLE PERATN WH YOU UP HERE, PIGARE YOU SRED, PIG?THIS GO THERE, PIGAND ON YOUR BACKDOOR THAT'S MY TONGUE, PIGYEAH, THAT'S YOUR BOY GASHINTO MY TWK STASHKEEP SUCKG ME, DO 'TIL I'M TUCKG, GY, I'M A TOP, E A'T NOBODY FUCK' ME(AND NOW 'S TIME FOR A BREAKDOWN)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM(NO, NO, NO, NO, NO...)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOMTHIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMWHOAAAA... WHOA... WHOA... WHOOA... WHOAAA...HE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT
• NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX
• I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time.

”Miller argu that gay men should exame their relatnship wh power. But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy. “What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg.

“Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further. ”To be (fucked) or not to be (fucked) shouldn’t always be the qutnAcrdg to a 2011 study by The Journal of Sexual Medice that surveyed 25, 000 gay men Ameri about their last sexual enunters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had, realy, we’re not actually fuckg all that much.

THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

It’s what Wtern culture would have you believe, too; ass-play has long been associated wh gayns, and wh good reason. Datg back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role the exprsn of same-sex sexualy (albe, wh fewer varieti of lube) art of anal sex is the thg that, both posively and negatively, has e to reprent gay men. In other words: There’s more than one way for gays to ’s not all about basMeghan Traor was wrong; ’s not all about that base.

That’s bee the ncept of first, send, and third base don’t really apply to gay men bee our endgame is different.

Rather, gay sex is more like firg up your PlayStatn and playg Fallout 4. For the non-gaymers the hoe, I’m tryg to say that gay sex is an open world.

BOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX)WILLAMFEATURGVICKY VOX & DETOX ICUNTJAN. 26, 20131 VIEWER3 CONTRIBUTORSBOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX) LYRICSHE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMMAKE HIM TRY TO TOP, HE'LL CRYNEVER EVEN SAID HE'S BIIT SAYS "HE'S VERSE" UP ON HIS GRDR (AH-OOH)"VERSATILE", YEAH, OKAY (AH-AH-OOH)GIRL, YOU KNOW YOU'RE SUPER GAY(WOAH-AH-OH)ASS UP AND PULL THOSE PANTS DOWN(I HAD HEARD AT ONE TIME THAT HE HAD A GOWN)(WOAH-AH-OH)HIS HOLE IS MEDIUM RARE (PK)AND YOU WON'T FD A HAIR (STK)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET ASS BOTTOMHE GOT FLEET ENEMAS FOR DAYS60 MUT THE GYM45 OF THAT IS SHOWERG"HE'S A JOCK"LEAST HE WEARS ONE ON A DATE (AH-OOH)ASSPSY, SWEET AND CLEAN (AH-AH-OOH)A TOTAL TOP'S TOTAL DREAM(WOAH-AH-OH)THAT HOLE A'T BEEN TIGHT FOR YEARSSLOPABOTTOM QUEER(WOAH-AH-OH)RECTAL PROLAPSE BE DAMNED ('S OL, 'S OL, 'S OL)SHOVE UP HIS N (TAKE THAT, TAKE )THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMEVERYBODY SAYS THAT HE’S A HOEA’T NO SHAME HIS M.OWOULDN’T BE TOPS WHOUT HIS KDSO WHEN HE LLS YOU BETTER GET BEHDDON’T BE ON C.P. TIMECSE HE’S A FUCK’ BOTTOM, BABYBOTTOM, BABYDICKPIGOVER HERE, PIGMAKE MY SHAFT DISAPPEAR YOUR REAR, PIGDOUBLE PERATN WH YOU UP HERE, PIGARE YOU SRED, PIG?THIS GO THERE, PIGAND ON YOUR BACKDOOR THAT'S MY TONGUE, PIGYEAH, THAT'S YOUR BOY GASHINTO MY TWK STASHKEEP SUCKG ME, DO 'TIL I'M TUCKG, GY, I'M A TOP, E A'T NOBODY FUCK' ME(AND NOW 'S TIME FOR A BREAKDOWN)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM(NO, NO, NO, NO, NO...)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOMTHIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMWHOAAAA... WHOA... WHOA... WHOOA... WHOAAA...HE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT

Of urse, culturally and historilly, gay men have been narrowed down where the act of sex self f . Instead, I’m attemptg to myth-bt prumptns about gay sex.

Beg gay n be hard enough by self whout then also worryg about the prsur om wh our own muny to nform to some sort of standard. Bee if there’s one thg this gay old life that shouldn’t be formulaic ’s sex.

Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels. It seems like every gay guy out there is a bottom, and when you thk you've met someone who's fely a He too is a bottom. While anal sex is typilly practised by cis gay men (hey!

NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX

Here, I’ve bed my own rearch and experience as a gay man to 10 easy steps – learn how to bottom wh ease. Any self-rpectg gay man keeps wet wip or toilet wip around for this very reason.

Pre-exposure prophylaxis (or PrEP) is also a dg that many gay men take for their sex liv. In 1984, when Calv Burde was awag sentencg for allegedly stabbg his gay lover to ath, the prosecutg attorney enuraged the jury his closg remarks to award Burde the ath penalty, rather than life prison, on the grounds that sendg a gay man to prison was ak to sendg a kid to a ndy store. His ath sentence was later overturned (mostly bee Burde's public fenr had slept through much of his trial), but the homophobic thkg – that prison is some kd of paradise for gay men – lgers realy of life prison for homosexuals and transgenr dividuals do not appear to reflect this myth.

He scribed a lany of btal rap, asslts, beatgs and, eventually, the total abandonment of his male inty as his only means of survival the hyper-mascule and often homophobic prison environment.

I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

His acunt suggts that far om beg a paradise, prison for gay men n be a livg days of his first enterg prison, the 23-year-old Rodney claimed he was the victim of three separate sexual asslts, volvg five different mat. The prison he was first sent to did actually have a separate tier for gay mat, but acrdg to Rodney, bee he did not "appear overly effemate" durg his classifitn, he was placed wh the general populatn; and bee was supposedly rare to have a gay person slip through the cracks of the system, his fellow mat took full advantage. "Agast popular opn, jail is not heaven for a homosexual.

Gay men who do not attempt to hi their sexualy are forced to passive and submissive rol. It's difficult to asss how typil Rodney's prison experience is, but numero studi nducted by the Bure of Jtice Statistics, based on anonymo mate surveys, have shown that gay and transgenr mat are among the most targeted groups for sexual victimizatn. Jt Detentn Internatnal (JDI), an anizatn whose aim is to eradite prison rape (pdf), is tryg to change has been workg wh the California Department of Correctns and Rehabilatn (CDCR) to tablish "sensive needs yards" (pdf), where gay, transgenr and other vulnerable mat n serve out their time safety.

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