There's More Than One Way for Gay Men to Have Sex | GQ

Contents:

• THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX
• THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON
• BOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX)WILLAMFEATURGVICKY VOX & DETOX ICUNTJAN. 26, 20131 VIEWER3 CONTRIBUTORSBOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX) LYRICSHE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMMAKE HIM TRY TO TOP, HE'LL CRYNEVER EVEN SAID HE'S BIIT SAYS "HE'S VERSE" UP ON HIS GRDR (AH-OOH)"VERSATILE", YEAH, OKAY (AH-AH-OOH)GIRL, YOU KNOW YOU'RE SUPER GAY(WOAH-AH-OH)ASS UP AND PULL THOSE PANTS DOWN(I HAD HEARD AT ONE TIME THAT HE HAD A GOWN)(WOAH-AH-OH)HIS HOLE IS MEDIUM RARE (PK)AND YOU WON'T FD A HAIR (STK)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET ASS BOTTOMHE GOT FLEET ENEMAS FOR DAYS60 MUT THE GYM45 OF THAT IS SHOWERG"HE'S A JOCK"LEAST HE WEARS ONE ON A DATE (AH-OOH)ASSPSY, SWEET AND CLEAN (AH-AH-OOH)A TOTAL TOP'S TOTAL DREAM(WOAH-AH-OH)THAT HOLE A'T BEEN TIGHT FOR YEARSSLOPABOTTOM QUEER(WOAH-AH-OH)RECTAL PROLAPSE BE DAMNED ('S OL, 'S OL, 'S OL)SHOVE UP HIS N (TAKE THAT, TAKE )THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMEVERYBODY SAYS THAT HE’S A HOEA’T NO SHAME HIS M.OWOULDN’T BE TOPS WHOUT HIS KDSO WHEN HE LLS YOU BETTER GET BEHDDON’T BE ON C.P. TIMECSE HE’S A FUCK’ BOTTOM, BABYBOTTOM, BABYDICKPIGOVER HERE, PIGMAKE MY SHAFT DISAPPEAR YOUR REAR, PIGDOUBLE PERATN WH YOU UP HERE, PIGARE YOU SRED, PIG?THIS GO THERE, PIGAND ON YOUR BACKDOOR THAT'S MY TONGUE, PIGYEAH, THAT'S YOUR BOY GASHINTO MY TWK STASHKEEP SUCKG ME, DO 'TIL I'M TUCKG, GY, I'M A TOP, E A'T NOBODY FUCK' ME(AND NOW 'S TIME FOR A BREAKDOWN)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM(NO, NO, NO, NO, NO...)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOMTHIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMWHOAAAA... WHOA... WHOA... WHOOA... WHOAAA...HE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT
• NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX
• I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

THE BIGGT MYTH ABOUT GAY SEX

Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time. ”Miller argu that gay men should exame their relatnship wh power.

But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy.

THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

“What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg. “Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further. ”To be (fucked) or not to be (fucked) shouldn’t always be the qutnAcrdg to a 2011 study by The Journal of Sexual Medice that surveyed 25, 000 gay men Ameri about their last sexual enunters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had, realy, we’re not actually fuckg all that much.

It’s what Wtern culture would have you believe, too; ass-play has long been associated wh gayns, and wh good reason. Datg back to the ancient Greece, anal sex played a role the exprsn of same-sex sexualy (albe, wh fewer varieti of lube) art of anal sex is the thg that, both posively and negatively, has e to reprent gay men. In other words: There’s more than one way for gays to ’s not all about basMeghan Traor was wrong; ’s not all about that base.

That’s bee the ncept of first, send, and third base don’t really apply to gay men bee our endgame is different. Rather, gay sex is more like firg up your PlayStatn and playg Fallout 4. For the non-gaymers the hoe, I’m tryg to say that gay sex is an open world.

BOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX)WILLAMFEATURGVICKY VOX & DETOX ICUNTJAN. 26, 20131 VIEWER3 CONTRIBUTORSBOY IS A BOTTOM (DOUBLE PERATN EXTEND MIX) LYRICSHE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMMAKE HIM TRY TO TOP, HE'LL CRYNEVER EVEN SAID HE'S BIIT SAYS "HE'S VERSE" UP ON HIS GRDR (AH-OOH)"VERSATILE", YEAH, OKAY (AH-AH-OOH)GIRL, YOU KNOW YOU'RE SUPER GAY(WOAH-AH-OH)ASS UP AND PULL THOSE PANTS DOWN(I HAD HEARD AT ONE TIME THAT HE HAD A GOWN)(WOAH-AH-OH)HIS HOLE IS MEDIUM RARE (PK)AND YOU WON'T FD A HAIR (STK)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET ASS BOTTOMHE GOT FLEET ENEMAS FOR DAYS60 MUT THE GYM45 OF THAT IS SHOWERG"HE'S A JOCK"LEAST HE WEARS ONE ON A DATE (AH-OOH)ASSPSY, SWEET AND CLEAN (AH-AH-OOH)A TOTAL TOP'S TOTAL DREAM(WOAH-AH-OH)THAT HOLE A'T BEEN TIGHT FOR YEARSSLOPABOTTOM QUEER(WOAH-AH-OH)RECTAL PROLAPSE BE DAMNED ('S OL, 'S OL, 'S OL)SHOVE UP HIS N (TAKE THAT, TAKE )THIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMEVERYBODY SAYS THAT HE’S A HOEA’T NO SHAME HIS M.OWOULDN’T BE TOPS WHOUT HIS KDSO WHEN HE LLS YOU BETTER GET BEHDDON’T BE ON C.P. TIMECSE HE’S A FUCK’ BOTTOM, BABYBOTTOM, BABYDICKPIGOVER HERE, PIGMAKE MY SHAFT DISAPPEAR YOUR REAR, PIGDOUBLE PERATN WH YOU UP HERE, PIGARE YOU SRED, PIG?THIS GO THERE, PIGAND ON YOUR BACKDOOR THAT'S MY TONGUE, PIGYEAH, THAT'S YOUR BOY GASHINTO MY TWK STASHKEEP SUCKG ME, DO 'TIL I'M TUCKG, GY, I'M A TOP, E A'T NOBODY FUCK' ME(AND NOW 'S TIME FOR A BREAKDOWN)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM(NO, NO, NO, NO, NO...)NEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOM, NEVER GONNA BOTTOMNEVER GONNA BOTTOMTHIS BOY IS A BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)THIS BOY IS A BOTTOMA GUTBUCKET BOTTOM (BOTTOM, BOTTOM)HE'S A RATCHET-ASS BOTTOMWHOAAAA... WHOA... WHOA... WHOOA... WHOAAA...HE'S JT A BOY, BUT HE'S A BOTTOMEMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUT

Of urse, culturally and historilly, gay men have been narrowed down where the act of sex self f . Instead, I’m attemptg to myth-bt prumptns about gay sex.

Beg gay n be hard enough by self whout then also worryg about the prsur om wh our own muny to nform to some sort of standard.

NOT ALL GAY MEN HAVE ANAL SEX

Bee if there’s one thg this gay old life that shouldn’t be formulaic ’s sex.

I'M A GUY TERTED RECEPTIVE ANAL SEX: DO THAT MEAN I'M GAY?

Lucky for gay/bi men, there are que a number of who know exactly how that feels.