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I said them bee I knew they would elic py and absolve my mother of the belief that her parentg was to blame for my same-sex attractns.<br/>It worked. Five years later, my mother ntu to talk about my lbianism as if were a geic fect like Down syndrome–a parallel she’s actually drawn–bee clearly, her md, no one would choose such a ttable and challengg state of beg.</p><p>This is not a msage I’m proud to have sent. Contrary to how I actually feel about my sexualy, suggts that I’m drowng a sea of self-disgt, sperately graspg for a heterosexual lifeboat to sail my way out of . But would my mother have been as sympathetic and tolerant if she thought I had a choice the matter? Would nservative alli support if they believed we uld help ?</p><p>If the answer is no, and I believe is, what do say about our self-worth and stat society if we, as gay people, mt practice a polics of py to secure our place the world? It says, for one, that we don’t have a place at the table. It says that we are tolerated, but not accepted. It says, ultimately, that ’s time to change our rhetoric.</p><p>Until homosexualy is st and unrstood as a valid choice, rather than a blogil afflictn, we will never rise above our current stat. We will rema Mother Nature’s mistake, tolerable (to some) bee our ndn is her flt, not ours.</p><p>By choice, I don’t mean that one n choose one’s sexual propensi any more than one n choose one’s personaly. What I mean is that ’s a choice to act on every sire we have, and that actg on our same-sex attractns is jt as valid as pursug a passn for the Christian fah or Judaism or any other spirual, tellectual, emotnal, or physil cravg that do not ge on the rights of others. And should be rpected as such.</p><p>As a firm Ksey 6–wh 6 beg the gayt rankg on sexologist Aled Ksey’s 1-to-6 sle of sexual orientatn–I unrstand the ristance to puttg <i>choice</i> and <i>homosexualy</i> the same sentence. My same-sex attractns were awakened me at such a young age that they felt as much a part of me as my limbs. In the late 1990s, when I was g out, had someone told me that I had chosen my ept, most tenr and passnate affectns, would have been like tellg me that I had chosen the arms and legs I have.</p><p>But I have plenty of sir, like throwg my fists the fac of nservative Republins, which for one reason or another, I don’t act on; my sire for women is not one of them. Blogy is not sty, and I am the archect of my own life, as is everyone. My pot is not to challenge or even enter the bate about whether or not some batn of nature and nurture ntribut to the formatn of an clatn toward one’s own sex. My pot is that most quiri to the origs of homosexualy are spect, and their service to is limed, if not perilo.</p><p>A polics of <i>choice</i> would be one that regards same-sex sire enough to announce as a nsc cisn rather than a pretermed abnormaly. No matter how bumpy the ri or long the journey, <i>choice</i> as a polil strategy is the only ri out of Freaksville.</p><p>Forty years ago, gay activists had a siar view, takg their cu om radil lbian femists who believed that heterosexualy and homosexualy were products of culture, not nature. “In the absence of opprsn and social ntrol,” wr historian John D’E, gay liberatnists believed that “sexualy would be polymorpho”–fluid, other words. Back then they talked about “sexual preference,” which impli choice, as opposed to “sexual orientatn,” which do not.</p><p>It wasn’t until the 1970s that the mental health tablishment and s gay alli put forth the view that homosexualy is a permanent psychologil ndn and bunked the notn that was a mental illns need of a cure. Then me the 1980s and 1990s and a slew of shoddy and nclive scientific rearch on the blogil origs of gayns, rercg the belief that sexualy is prested. Both psychologil and medil dis­urs formed today’s domant paradigm, which sists that sexualy is born and immutable.</p><p><span class="3-wordtroserif">The LGBT activists<strong></strong></span>who have helped nstct this sexual amework are neher lazy nor naive their thkg, as D’E pots out his say “Born Gay?,” a crisp se agast the polics of blogil termism. As a polil strategy, has helped reap enormo benefs, om antidiscrimatn legislatn to adoptn rights some stat and civil unns others. The reasons this mol of sexualy is polilly expedient and effective are threefold.</p><p>First, if sexualy is unrstood as prested and therefore fixed, pos ls of a challenge to the hetero monolh than do a shiftg spectm of sire. It protects straight people, other words, om the threat of homosexualy. Send, by prentg homosexualy as a blogil fact as firm and absolute as race or sex, gay activists have formed an inty the law n regnize and n follow the footsteps of civil rights legislatn. Third, ’s nceptually easier to unrstand sexualy as a permanent tra rather than the plex, ever-morphg ms that often is.</p><p>But for all the succs this polics has had, the end, ’s not only shortsighted but rife wh limatns–and dangers. As lbian activist Joan Ntle told me, ’s not good polics to clg to the “born gay” edict bee “the e of blogil ‘abnormali’ was ed by the Nazis when they measured the nostril thickns of imprisoned Jews to prove they were an ferr race; and when lonizers measured the bras of Ains to make a se for their enslavement; and when doctors at the turn of the century ed the argument that the light weight of women’s bras proved their ferry to men. I do not want to enter to this sad history of blogil humanizatn as the basis for gay rights.”</p><p>All the studi that gay sympathizers and activists voke to jtify our right to same-sex love st homosexualy as a loud hiccup at the dner table of normaly. As such, we’re put on par wh other unsirable viatns om nature’s norm, tntg genics wh the keys to elimatg . This is the ugly unrbelly of our blogy-centered claims to human rights.</p><p>The typil nservative asslt on homosexualy sts as a sful choice that n be unchosen through a mment to God and reparative therapy. And the left ually slams to this simplistic polemic by takg up the oppose stance: Homosexualy is not a choice, and bee we n’t help , ’s not sful.</p><p>By affirmg that homosexual practice and inty <i>are</i> a choice, we n attach an adndum–’s a good choice–and open the possibily of a more nuanced argument, one that dismantl the logic of the very premise that whom we choose to love marks as sful and immoral and terrogat the assumptn that heterosexualy is somehow better for the dividual and society as a whole.</p><p>In my nservative Republin fay, signs already pot to a kd of reads to engage homosexualy as a legimate cisn. Recently, I lled my mother California to throw out my “born-gay-py-me” garbage. She didn’t swallow my pill of choice wh ease, but managed to ugh up an exasperated, “Well, whatever mak you happy.” That’s one down and a natn to go.</p><p><b><i></i></b></p><p><b><i></i></b></p><p><i>Stephanie Fairygton is a eelance journalist who wr on genr and sexualy. 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It's Downplayed eher se sce all the game's romantic arcs more or ls fizzle out by the end, but 's neverthels an tertg versn of the ual suatn where the Straight Optn receiv a lot of foc and the Gay Optn is more hidn away. In Bahamut Lagoon, pendg on the optns you pick, the Heroic Mime n eher be terted the prcs (who ends up leavg him for someone else halfway through the game anyway), or his old gay mentor, a rpected war general and urt sorcerer. Fable provis the male Player Character many optns for heterosexual marriage, a few for gay marriage, and, if you n get away wh , a whole lot of optns for Polyamory.

The two aren't exactly equal, though; while heterosexual marriage provis the player wh a dowry, an ocsnal source of e and ems, and a cutscene tailg the importance of the marriage to the hero's life, the gay marriage jt giv you the e and ems — and the game ocsnally refers to his hband as a "wife" by mistake. The olst known example of a gay optn a vio game om an obscure 1992 Game Boy game lled Great Greed, where you n pick any one of ten other characters, male or female, for your male character to marry after you beat the game. Neon Genis Evangeln has one or two Datg Sim-que Alternate Contuy gam, which Kawo naturally plays the Gay Optn.

Girliend of Steel 2 however, although clus a plete non sequur picture of naked wged Kawo rryg equally-naked not-wged Shji, all homoerotic optns explibly vanish om the game after the date. The Otan endg of Metal Gear Solid, which Snake shar a romantic scene wh Otan stead of Meryl, is not a te Gay Optn - 's more of a romantic-iendship-nfsn-type thg, and n only be achieved by makg a cisn that poor nocent Meryl to die.

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The Enhanced Remake of the visual novel Happs had the gay optn the form of Ensemble Dark Horse Jun Watarase.

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Don't have any rout for (though not for lack of optns, as Touma is que open about his preferenc and displays tert Yamato, and Ryuuhei is straight up jt gay), there is a Bad End where Yamato adms he has preferenc he didn't que expect, along wh an implied scene.

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One missn volv gog on a date wh a gay man, but this is not a Gay Optn, sce this is an assassatn missn. However, as she is still askg you to touch her Papillon Heart, an extremely timate gture borrg on psdo-robot terurse, she n be nsired a gay optn for the female MC. Harvt Moon: Korobokku Statn For Girls had a thly-veiled Gay Optn, allowg you to e a "Bt Friends Ceremony" to get one of the special wiv om the male versn to move wh you and eventually brg you a baby, as if they were a hband.

In Backstage Pass a gay optn exists for the protagonist Sian, if the player go off the beaten path a ltle (as 's one of the romanc that is not advertised que as heavily as the ma four potential love terts) the form of the mol Nile Partridge, plete wh her own route should the player manage to lock themselv onto .

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