Why do people break up? The sad tth is that ’s easier to fall love than to stay love. Did you know that 70 percent of straight unmarried upl break up wh the first year? This is acrdg to a longudal study by Stanford soclogist Michael Rosenfeld who tracked more than 3,000 people, married and unmarried straight and gay upl sce 2009 to fd out what happens to relatnships over time. The study found that after five years there was only a 20 percent chance that a uple will break up and that figure dwdl by the time they have been together for ten years. The qutn is, why do so many upl break up wh a year or two? Experts say there are ne key reasons for why this happens.
Contents:
- GAY RELATNSHIP BREAKUP CAN BE PROBLEMATIC. HERE’S HOW TO AVOID THE RISKS
- HOW TO SURVIVE (AND W) A GAY BREAKUP
- EXCLIVE INTERVIEW: DAVID FäRDMAR ON HIS GAY BREAKUP MOVIE ARE WE LOST FOREVER “I WANTED TO CHALLENGE VIEWERS TO THK FOR THEMSELV”
- HOW DO I DEAL WH THE GAY BREAK UP?
- TOM HOLLAND’S THE CROWD ROOM GAY SEX SCENE SPARKS APPALLG HOMOPHOBIC BACKLASH
GAY RELATNSHIP BREAKUP CAN BE PROBLEMATIC. HERE’S HOW TO AVOID THE RISKS
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Us gays, wh our propensy for the dramatic, might wish that when a relatnship ends we'd bee Dty's Child and emerge om the tear-staed sea, cked mo, reborn strong and pennt "Survivor"-style, but realistilly you're gog to be a plete fuckg begs are predictable creatur. "You're Not Good Enough" is the send track on Blood Orange's sophomore album "Cupid Deluxe. I’ve found gay men rarely have anyone to help them navigate a break up that feels right to them.
HOW TO SURVIVE (AND W) A GAY BREAKUP
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Ahead of the UK and Irish release of Are We Lost Forever, The Queer Review’s edor Jam Klemann had an exclive chat wh the film’s wrer-director-producer David Färdmar about the origs of his gay break up movie, g sex to vtiage his characters, the stunng pop soundtrack featurg Swedish legends Ace of Base, and what he lov about Ang Lee’s classic Brokeback Mounta. The dynamics of gay sex aren’t generally explored on film that much, like the discsns about bottomg we get here. This is acrdg to a longudal study by Stanford soclogist Michael Rosenfeld who tracked more than 3, 000 people, married and unmarried straight and gay upl sce 2009 to fd out what happens to relatnships over time.
Billy Eichner has another excg gay edy g to the big screen wh Ex-Hbands, an upg divorce edy! Eichner wrote the script wh Pl Rudnick and has Greg Berlanti and Sarah Schechter attached as tells the story of a gay uple who got married when same-sex marriage beme legal and now mt al wh the fact that 's time to get a divorce.
The characters, named Daniel and Connor, "beme the first gay uple NYC to get legally married 2015 and poster boys for LGBTQ love and acceptance, " acrdg to Deadle.
EXCLIVE INTERVIEW: DAVID FäRDMAR ON HIS GAY BREAKUP MOVIE ARE WE LOST FOREVER “I WANTED TO CHALLENGE VIEWERS TO THK FOR THEMSELV”
""The ncept of a big, gay divorce edy has been kickg around my head for years and I nnot thk of better llaborators than groundbreakg producers Greg and Sarah, and a te in whose work I have craved and admired sce I was a young gay boy ltg after show bs, the brilliant Pl Rudnick who really paved the way for me and many others, " Eier said.
HOW DO I DEAL WH THE GAY BREAK UP?
"This isn't the only gay edy Eichner is workg on. Earlier this year, he announced the gay romantic edy Bros, which is beg produced by Judd Apatow for Universal Pictur. "In shockg news, BROS will be the first rom about gay men ever produced by a major stud, and, apparently, I'm the first openly gay man to ever wre and star their own stud film, " he wrote.
TOM HOLLAND’S THE CROWD ROOM GAY SEX SCENE SPARKS APPALLG HOMOPHOBIC BACKLASH
And the answers he has found—at least those he has mtered so far (the study is ongog)—are pretty chart below shows how the likelihood of breakg up chang as time go by for straight and gay upl, both married and are obv patterns, of urse.
Both straight and gay married upl are far ls likely to separate than their non-married same-sex married upl, the break-up rate falls om roughly 8 percent for those who have been together for 5 years to unr 1 percent for those who have been together for at least 20 years. Unmarried upl on the other hand, both straight and gay, have much higher break-up rat—even when they have been together for more than twenty is ltle to be surprised about here. Notice how steep the curve is for both straight and gay upl early percent of the unmarried upl who had been together for ls than 2 months durg the first wave of Rosenfeld's study were no longer together when he checked up aga the followg year.
Over the first five years, the rate falls by roughly 10 percentage pots each year, reachg about 20 percent for both straight and gay upl.