'Did I ever really know him?': the women who married gay men | LGBTQ+ rights | The Guardian

Contents:

• 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
• PRETTY NVCED MY DH IS A GAY MAN NIAL.
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN

'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN

Some of my iends claims that gay nial is when you know that you are attracted to guys but tell yourself that will disappear by self or that is gross you know what you are but you act like you are straight so you manage to have a gf/be but you don't really love her/him or she/he don't really turns you on and you thk of guys/girls while havg sex until you fally e out of the closet. But some of my iends claim that you are not even aware that you are gay, you fantasize on girls and have sex wh them but one day you sudnly realize you are gay.

Denial is knowg full-well that you are gay, but you're dog everythg your power to supprs those urg.

PRETTY NVCED MY DH IS A GAY MAN NIAL.

I fd that people nial tend to be the on that are most offend when they're lled "gay".

They were shown pictur of several dozen homoerotic imag while their pupil siz were examed. At the end of the experiment, they asked each man what they thought about homosexualy general. The on that were most agast homosexualy were the on that showed the most pupil dilatn!

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Yeah I agree I never had feelg for guys ever but recently I started to qutn my sexualy the HARD way (prsn Obssive pulsive disorr ect) I tortur myself and got 5 erectn over gay thoughts 2 months but I feel like changed me like I might be bisexual (my fear beg to lose my heterosexualy bee wh all this sh girls don't aroe Le anymore but is another problems) so I asked myself uld I have been ignorg my bisexualy all my life (never felt aroed by guys until this fear me still not aroed by guys irl but I feel aroed by mcular guys maybe bee I'm a ltle b chubby) and we talked about nial for me a nial is somethg you knew but never or secretly engaged but some of my iend told me that I uld have masked my homosexual si after my 14 years old (I qutned my sexualy bee I was admirg a guy really bad (not love or sexually attracted to him but I wanted him to love me bee he was really ol and I was this ugly nerd.

But when I beme self nfint I stopped to chase his tert and stoped my rearched (cludg gay porn) and I lived my happy straight life fallg love wh girls and be aroed by them. But I adm that I lived this perd a horrible way(people lled me gay while I was tryg to unrstand who I was and whil I was love wh a girl "he is hidg his gayns" ahah! First of all nial is when you're know ep down that you're gay, but you will try to unnotice this.

Guy nial - he is watchg gay porn, he even have sex wh other guys but - he will tell yourself that he isn't gay and was jt cursy or somethg else. Married man (i was talkg to him uple days ago) who was always gay, was cheatg on his wife wh some guys but he told himself that he n't be gay - he have wife after all right?

IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN

I was explorg this whole "sudnly turn gay" or "late age g outs". Reprsn is more ls as you said that this person n be not aware of that he is gay. Who never had any problems wh himself and then jt realize that he is gay?

It's not nial or reprsn, 's jt that you never thk about that you might be gay, e there was nothg what "pull the trigger" and you go live your straight life e you're jt directed (by your parents and society) to be straight. I jt dated one girl bee when I was 22 I didn't like havg sex wh her and when I was at the beach I was checkg guys and when someone lled me gay I got very angry.

Now that I accept my self I don't re about beg lled gay or even have to date or kiss someone jt to ver up.