Pretty nvced my DH is a gay man nial. | Mums

Contents:

• 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
• PRETTY NVCED MY DH IS A GAY MAN NIAL.
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN

'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN

Some of my iends claims that gay nial is when you know that you are attracted to guys but tell yourself that will disappear by self or that is gross you know what you are but you act like you are straight so you manage to have a gf/be but you don't really love her/him or she/he don't really turns you on and you thk of guys/girls while havg sex until you fally e out of the closet. But some of my iends claim that you are not even aware that you are gay, you fantasize on girls and have sex wh them but one day you sudnly realize you are gay.

Denial is knowg full-well that you are gay, but you're dog everythg your power to supprs those urg. I fd that people nial tend to be the on that are most offend when they're lled "gay".

They were shown pictur of several dozen homoerotic imag while their pupil siz were examed. At the end of the experiment, they asked each man what they thought about homosexualy general. The on that were most agast homosexualy were the on that showed the most pupil dilatn!

PRETTY NVCED MY DH IS A GAY MAN NIAL.

Yeah I agree I never had feelg for guys ever but recently I started to qutn my sexualy the HARD way (prsn Obssive pulsive disorr ect) I tortur myself and got 5 erectn over gay thoughts 2 months but I feel like changed me like I might be bisexual (my fear beg to lose my heterosexualy bee wh all this sh girls don't aroe Le anymore but is another problems) so I asked myself uld I have been ignorg my bisexualy all my life (never felt aroed by guys until this fear me still not aroed by guys irl but I feel aroed by mcular guys maybe bee I'm a ltle b chubby) and we talked about nial for me a nial is somethg you knew but never or secretly engaged but some of my iend told me that I uld have masked my homosexual si after my 14 years old (I qutned my sexualy bee I was admirg a guy really bad (not love or sexually attracted to him but I wanted him to love me bee he was really ol and I was this ugly nerd.

But when I beme self nfint I stopped to chase his tert and stoped my rearched (cludg gay porn) and I lived my happy straight life fallg love wh girls and be aroed by them.

But I adm that I lived this perd a horrible way(people lled me gay while I was tryg to unrstand who I was and whil I was love wh a girl "he is hidg his gayns" ahah! First of all nial is when you're know ep down that you're gay, but you will try to unnotice this.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Guy nial - he is watchg gay porn, he even have sex wh other guys but - he will tell yourself that he isn't gay and was jt cursy or somethg else. Married man (i was talkg to him uple days ago) who was always gay, was cheatg on his wife wh some guys but he told himself that he n't be gay - he have wife after all right? I was explorg this whole "sudnly turn gay" or "late age g outs".

Reprsn is more ls as you said that this person n be not aware of that he is gay. Who never had any problems wh himself and then jt realize that he is gay? It's not nial or reprsn, 's jt that you never thk about that you might be gay, e there was nothg what "pull the trigger" and you go live your straight life e you're jt directed (by your parents and society) to be straight.

IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN

I jt dated one girl bee when I was 22 I didn't like havg sex wh her and when I was at the beach I was checkg guys and when someone lled me gay I got very angry.

Now that I accept my self I don't re about beg lled gay or even have to date or kiss someone jt to ver up. I thk nial is when you are aware that you are gay but you tell yourself you are not, like i did. The evince was all there, but took me a long time to say, "Hey, wow, I mt be gay, " particularly bee I was actively tryg to nvce myself I was straight and normal, pecially wh homophobic parents.

Takg some time wh the realizatn is normal, to some gree, of urse; realizg you're gay is a b like realizg you need glass, and sce everyone jt assum their visn is normal (sce most people's visn is) n take a while for that thought to really occur to you. I didn't get offend too much when/if people lled me gay - partly bee they didn't often do so - but when I was younger, I was ocsnally pretty outspoken (read: I was a very child) about potg out gay upl or nouncg gays some pacy nversatn ("they're WEIRD, but hey, as long as one of them don't make out wh me, that's okay...