Why Colton Unrwood Shouldn't Bee the First Gay "Bachelor"

Contents:

• THERE’S ALREADY BEEN A GAY ‘BACHELOR’-TYPE SHOW, AND IT WAS ESRTED OFF AIR AFTER JT ONE SEASON
• IT’S TIME FOR AN ACTUALLY GAY SEASON OF THE BACHELOR ALREADY
• COLTON UNRWOOD, ‘BACHELOR’ STAR, COM OUT AS GAY
• ‘BACHELOR’ FANS MAND GAY SEASON AMID COLTON UNRWOOD’S G OUT
• GAY 'BACHELOR': A ROSE WH A HOSE
• LANCE BASS TO HOST ‘FDG PRCE CHARMG,’ A GAY VERSN OF ‘THE BACHELOR’
• ABC'S NEW BACHELOR ISSU APOLOGY AFTER SAYG GAY VERSN WOULD BE BAD FOR KIDS
• FANS WANT A GAY 'BACHELOR' SEASON WH COLTON UNRWOOD, BUT 'S NOT THE RIGHT MOVE. HERE'S WHY
• THE (GAY) BACHELOR; THE NAME OF THE GAME IS GUESS WHO’S STRAIGHT IN…
• HERE'S WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF THERE WAS A GAY VERSN OF 'THE BACHELOR'
• COLTON UNRWOOD BEG THE 'FIRST GAY BACHELOR' WOULD BE A MAJOR MISTAKE FOR THE EMBATTLED ABC ANCHISE
• 'THE BACHELOR' HAS A TROUBLED HISTORY WHEN TO GAY ROMANCE. IT'S NOT ALONE
• WHY A GAY VERSN OF "THE BACHELOR" WOULD NEVER WORK
• GAY BACHELOR TV SHOW HAS NASTY SURPRISE

THERE’S ALREADY BEEN A GAY ‘BACHELOR’-TYPE SHOW, AND IT WAS ESRTED OFF AIR AFTER JT ONE SEASON

”Thirteen gay men moved to a mansn to try to w the affectns of a handsome eligible bachelor, terr signer Robert Sepuvelda Jr. Former ‘NSYNCer played the Chris Harrison-que Read: Billy Eichner to Colton Unrwood 2019: 'Maybe You're the First Gay Bachelor and We Don't Even Know' (Vio)In the end, Sepulveda chose hairstylist Eric Leonardos as his guy.

IT’S TIME FOR AN ACTUALLY GAY SEASON OF THE BACHELOR ALREADY

“Fdg Prce Charmg” was not whout ntroversy, though, but not for s gay filmg and jt prr to s premiere, reports emerged that Sepulveda had prevly been a sex worker.

” Unrwood has been filmg a realy TV seri for Netflix about his journey g out as a gay origal story There’s Already Been a Gay ‘Bachelor’-Type Show, and It Was Esrted Off Air After Jt One Season At TheWrap. I’m hant to ame Unrwood’s g out as some kd of signifint “gay first”, given how such narrativ often end up portrayg LGBTQ+ people as new, as if we haven’t been here the whole time.

COLTON UNRWOOD, ‘BACHELOR’ STAR, COM OUT AS GAY

“The media that make visible simultaneoly obscure our prence history by ntually amg trans people [and, this stance wh Unrwood, gay people] as new, as a morn, medilized phenomenon only now g to light, ” wrer and artist Man M Page wrote 2017. Other nttants have, siar to Unrwood, publicly e out after filmg all that md, feels like would be a real missed opportuny for the Bachelor powers that be to not rest Unrwood for the anchise’s first-ever Actually Gay season wh an Actually Gay would the first gay season of The Bachelor look like? That was one of the first major attempts at givg gay guys the gay versn of The Bachelor so many longed for, though greatly hred self by secretly addg a bunch of straight men to the st whout rmg s starrg bachelor first.

Though for all the ways that Fdg Prce Charmg provid better reprentatn than s spirual precsor, was also borg – seemgly more ncerned about provg to viewers that gay men’s romantic aspiratns were every b as normal as their straight unterparts than wh pictg gay men on their own The Bachelor portrayed love eply heteropatriarchal terms (multiple women pete for the attentn of a sgle man, lookg for monogamy and, of urse, marriage), Fdg Prce Charmg simply gave the long-nng seri a h at of homosexual pat.

‘BACHELOR’ FANS MAND GAY SEASON AMID COLTON UNRWOOD’S G OUT

Could the first gay season of The Bachelor offer somethg different om what the aforementned rivativ spired gave years past? ), I’d want s hypothetil first-ever gay season to look somethg like MTV’s sexually fluid 2019 season of Are You the One?

I’d love to see a Bachelor season do new thgs like acknowledge the probable sexual tensn between the nttants, and a gay season of The Bachelor seems as well poised as any to explore that terrory.

GAY 'BACHELOR': A ROSE WH A HOSE

Somethg tells me that we wouldn’t see that kd of sex-posive change of format on the first gay season of The Bachelor though. AdvertisementSKIP ADVERTISEMENTThe 29-year-old former football player had wrten about qutng his sexualy a memoir, published Shotwell/Invisn, via Richard Shotwell, via Invisn, via Associated PrsColton Unrwood, a star of “The Bachelor” and a former football player, me out as gay an terview wh Rob Roberts that aired Wednday on “Good Morng Ameri. “‘You know, Colt, we’d still love you and support you if you were gay, ’” he relled his mother tellg father was more nontatnal.

“He’d pulled up the history of recent Google search, which clud gay porn s and a variety of qutns: ‘Am I gay?

“Ok let’s see a gay Bachelor season, ” wrote one Twter er rponse to the news.

LANCE BASS TO HOST ‘FDG PRCE CHARMG,’ A GAY VERSN OF ‘THE BACHELOR’

I see a glimmer of hope for the gay Bachelor season that we all so sperately serve. To everyone sayg he should get another season and be the first gay bachelor- are you fettg how he treated Cassie?? But at least one supporter saw the news g — and suggted there’s already been a season of “Gay Bachelor.

” In a clip rurfaced Wednday, “Billy on the Street” host Billy Eichner suggted that Unrwood was the first gay Bachelor whout even knowg . We've learned the Logo work is shootg a gay 'bachelor' show, and the prize is Robert Sepulveda Jr.

Other Bachelor stars have e out after their time on the show, cludg Elizabeth Corrigan, who me out as queer June; and Colton Unrwood, who me out as gay 2021 after starrg as The Bachelor‘s Season 23 lead. “If you want the most dramatic season ever, do an LGBT versn, ” Bass told the outlet, addg, “I thk maybe ’s the time for The Bachelor to do a gay Bachelor. In the meantime, Navarro and any others hopg for a queer Bachelor n always turn to Logo’s 2016 show Fdg Prce Charmg, which 13 gay men battled for the affectns of Robert Sepuvelda Jr.

ABC'S NEW BACHELOR ISSU APOLOGY AFTER SAYG GAY VERSN WOULD BE BAD FOR KIDS

” The show, touted as the first of s kd, will feature a st of all gay men lookg to pture the heart of an eligible bachelor. ” Hosted by openly gay and notable sger Lance Bass — of NSYNC fame — will feature 13 “charmg and geo suors” petg for the attentn of one guy. McCoy for The New York TimHis Sexualy Don’t Defe Him, but It Can Set Him ApartEric Bach is an openly gay broadster for the Frericksburg Natnals.

Three years earlier, while he was studyg journalism at Michigan State Universy, he had publicly e out as gay an say he wrote for the time of the say, he braced for a backlash, but nothg materialized. He worked his way up om ternships to full-time broadstg jobs, and while anyone wh an ter nnectn uld learn he was gay, nobody asked, and he did not say so aga publicly. It was paful at the time — the worst thg that had happened to him as a gay man, he said — but has reced far enough to his memory that did not e to md an hourlong terview about his experienc as a gay broadster.

As far as Bach knows — and as far as many of his unterparts wh other teams are aware — there are no other openly gay broadsters the sport. McCoy for The New York TimBorn to BroadstLong before he knew he was gay, Bach knew he wanted to be a sports father was a ach, and a love of sports ran through the fay. ”)He began to accept that he was gay durg his sophomore year of high school, but wh that acceptance me worry.

FANS WANT A GAY 'BACHELOR' SEASON WH COLTON UNRWOOD, BUT 'S NOT THE RIGHT MOVE. HERE'S WHY

As a multisport athlete, Bach was often locker rooms filled wh chos of homophobic slurs and gay jok. ’”By the start of his sophomore year at Michigan State, Bach was ready to tell his parents that he was gay, tchg his father off guard but nfirmg what his mother had prevly assumed.

He did each job to the bt of his abily, and his sexualy never me, he has found that there’s a difference between beg a gay man baseball and beg pletely fortable as one. That uncertaty mak him feel self-nsc a way he believ is mon for gay people mostly straight spac.

“I feel like that’s the burn a lot of gay people live wh — tryg to be perfect for straight people, ” he job requir equent teractn wh the players and the achg staff — addn to his duti as play-by-play announcer, Bach also is the ma public relatns ntact for the team — and he said he hadn’t fully relaxed any of them. The environment is not hostile, but Bach never fets that he is the only openly gay person the room. Mrer/Frericksburg NatnalsThat feelg is somewhat “self-flicted, ” Bach said, but he believ the solutn is to brg more openly gay people to sports and create a safe environment for those who are already there but have felt necsary to hi their League Baseball has touted self as a place of clivy.

THE (GAY) BACHELOR; THE NAME OF THE GAME IS GUESS WHO’S STRAIGHT IN…

Billy Bean, an openly gay former player, was named the league’s first ambassador for cln 2014 and has sce been promoted to senr vice print and special assistant to Commissner Rob Maned.

In Febary, Anrson Comás, a mor leaguer the Chigo Whe Sox anizatn, me out as gay wh a post on Instagram, and the announcement was met wh public support om his club and some people around the cints suggt there is more work to be done. The Boston Red Sox lled up a mor leaguer, Matt Dermody, who had posted an anti-gay msage on Twter 2021, and Anthony Bass, a reliever for the Toronto Blue Jays, reposted a vio on social media that lled for boytts of L. “Those of that are this very small mory sports have to keep on havg the nversatns, keep on workg really ick’ hard to earn your spot this space, ” he aspir to be a gay person at home a big-league booth.

HERE'S WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF THERE WAS A GAY VERSN OF 'THE BACHELOR'

McCoy for The New York TimA versn of this article appears prt on, Sectn A, Page 27 of the New York edn wh the headle: A Gay Broadster Climbs the Ladr, But It’s Been Lonely. ABC's newt Bachelor igned angry cricism after tellg a reporter, that to protect children watchg at home, there should never be a gay versn of the datg show.

COLTON UNRWOOD BEG THE 'FIRST GAY BACHELOR' WOULD BE A MAJOR MISTAKE FOR THE EMBATTLED ABC ANCHISE

" He went on to say a gay leadg man would be "too hard to watch" and that gay people are "more pervert a sense. The omissn has bee the target of ridicule by the lik of Jse Tyler Fergon and Gee Takei, who staged a fake gay sp-off last year forFunny or Die.

Although Galavis said "I rpect them bee they want to have kids, " what appears to really nfe Galavis is how gay people raise children at all.

" Here's the plete apology, followed by the d:"I want to apologize to all the people I may have offend bee of my ments on havg a Gay or Bisexual Bachelor. If you listen to the entire terview, there's nothg but rpect for Gay people and their fai.

'THE BACHELOR' HAS A TROUBLED HISTORY WHEN TO GAY ROMANCE. IT'S NOT ALONE

I have many gay iends and one of my clost iends who's like a brother has been a nstant my life pecially durg the past 5 months.

WHY A GAY VERSN OF "THE BACHELOR" WOULD NEVER WORK

What I meant to say was that gay people are more affectnate and tense and for a segment of the TV dience this would be too racy to accept.

"If that didn't drive home the msage, Galavis issued a send apology via GLAAD that specifilly noted his support for LGBT youth and for gay parents he knows. Here's that apology:"I have heard om many gay Latos today who are hurt bee of what I said and I apologize.

GAY BACHELOR TV SHOW HAS NASTY SURPRISE

I am a father and I know the feel of beg a father, why wouldn't I want my gay iends to also be happy parents? Gay or straight, Black or Whe, Lat or Amerin, what matters here is to rpect who we are.

I look forward to meetg wh gay and lbian fai as well as Moni and Wilson om GLAAD. Gay and lbian people, and the children they are raisg, wrongfully face discrimatn and I want them to know that I'm on their si. Former "Bachelor" Colton Unrwood – you might remember him as the one who jumped the fence – me out as gay Wednday morng on ABC's "Good Morng Ameri.