5 Thgs Your Child Should Know About Gay Marriage | Psychology Today

Contents:

• I WAS PART OF 303 CREATIVE'S CASE. I BACK GAY MARRIAGE—BUT SCOTUS IS RIGHT
• GAY MARRIAGE
• 5 TIPS: WHEN FRIENDS AND FAY DISAGREE ON GAY MARRIAGE
• 5 THGS YOUR CHILD SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GAY MARRIAGE
• DONALD TMP’S MORE ACCEPTG VIEWS ON GAY ISSU SET HIM APART G.O.P.
• MOVG TO GAY IDAHO? THG TO KNOW BEFORE RELOTG HERE AS AN LGBT PERSON.
• SECTN 2: KNOWG GAYS AND LBIANS, RELIG CONFLICTS, BELIEFS ABOUT HOMOSEXUALY
• SHOULD A CHRISTIAN ATTEND THE WEDDG OF A GAY UPLE?
• RSIAN NSTUTN CHANGE ENDS HOP FOR GAY MARRIAGE
• WHERE SHOULD WE, AS CHRISTIANS, STAND ON GAY MARRIAGE?

I WAS PART OF 303 CREATIVE'S CASE. I BACK GAY MARRIAGE—BUT SCOTUS IS RIGHT

In his first year as Florida ernor 2019, Ron DeSantis paid a somber vis to the memorial for the 49 people who lost their liv when a man opened fire at Pulse, a gay nightclub Orlando.

Called the “Don’t Say Gay” bill by opponents, has igned wispread stunt walkouts, fierce and emotnal bate Florida’s halls of power and nmnatn om the Whe Hoe.

Dennis Baxley, seemed to acknowledge on Monday that he was motivated to addrs what he scribed as a growg trend of children g out as gay and transgenr.

GAY MARRIAGE

In his first race for US Hoe of Reprentativ 2012, DeSantis won the endorsement of the late Phyllis Schlafly, a notable Christian activist and opponent of gay rights. In Florida, the majory-Republin legislature had often stymied attempts by the state’s most nservative lawmakers to pass bills wadg to the transgenr bathroom bate and nyg film centiv for movi featurg gay characters. Then, days before the five-year anniversary of the Pulse shootg, DeSantis vetoed $150, 000 state funds that would have provid unselg for Pulse survivors and nixed another $750, 000 to create hog programs for homels gay and transgenr youths.

5 TIPS: WHEN FRIENDS AND FAY DISAGREE ON GAY MARRIAGE

In June 2019, DeSantis issued a proclamatn markg the three-year remembrance of the tragedy, but failed to mentn that nearly all of the victims were gay and Lato. Charl Moran, the print of Log Cab Republins, a group reprentg gay nservativ wh several Florida chapters, noted that DeSantis has not attempted to religate past LGBTQ victori, such as same-sex marriage. Early Years: Same-Sex Marriage Bans In 1970, jt one year after the historic Stonewall Rts that galvanized the gay rights movement, law stunt Richard Baker and librarian Jam McConnell applied for a marriage license Gerald Nelson rejected their applitn bee they were a same-sex uple, and a trial urt upheld his cisn.

” This lg effectively blocked feral urts om lg on same-sex marriage for s, leavg the cisn solely the hands of stat, which alt blow after blow to those hopg to see gay marriage beg 1973, for stance, Maryland beme the first state to create a law that explicly f marriage as a unn between a man and woman, a belief held by many nservative relig groups. Though the gay rights movement saw some advancements the 1970s and 1980s—such as Harvey Milk beg the first openly gay man elected to public office the untry 1977—the fight for gay marriage ma ltle headway for many years.

In 1989, the San Francis Board of Supervisors passed an ordance that allowed homosexual upl and unmarried heterosexual upl to register for domtic partnerships, which granted hospal visatn rights and other years later, the District of Columbia siarly passed a new law that allowed same-sex upl to register as domtic partners.

5 THGS YOUR CHILD SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GAY MARRIAGE

C., 1993, the hight urt Hawaii led that a ban on same-sex marriage may vlate that state nstutn’s Equal Protectn Clse—the first time a state urt has ever ched toward makg gay marriage Hawaii Supreme Court sent the se—brought by a gay male uple and two lbian upl who were nied marriage licens 1990—back for further review to the lower First Circu Court, which 1991 origally dismissed the the state tried to prove that there was “pellg state tert” jtifyg the ban, the se would be tied up ligatn for the next three Defense of Marriage Act Opponents of gay marriage, however, did not s on their hnch. Congrs 1996 passed the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which Print Bill Clton signed to didn’t ban gay marriage outright but specified that only heterosexual upl uld be granted feral marriage benefs. That is, even if a state ma gay marriage legal, same-sex upl still wouldn’t be able to file e tax jotly, sponsor spo for immigratn benefs or receive spoal Social Secury payments, among many other act was a huge setback for the marriage equaly movement, but transient good news arose three months later: Hawaii Judge Kev S.

Phg for Change: Civil Unns The next saw a whirlwd of activy on the gay marriage ont, begng wh the year 2000 when Vermont beme the first state to legalize civil unns, a legal stat that provis most of the state-level benefs of years later, Massachetts beme the first state to legalize gay marriage when the Massachetts Supreme Court led that same-sex upl had the right to marry Goodridge v. 2004 was notable for upl many other stat as well, though for the oppose reason: Ten typilly nservative stat, along wh Oregon, enacted state-level bans on gay marriage.

DONALD TMP’S MORE ACCEPTG VIEWS ON GAY ISSU SET HIM APART G.O.P.

Kansas and Texas were next 2005, and 2006 saw seven more stat passg Constutnal amendments agast gay towards the end of the , gay marriage beme legal var stat, cludg Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont (the first state to approve by legislative means) and New Hampshire.

Domtic Partnerships Throughout the and the begng of the next, California equently ma headl for seawg on the gay marriage state was the first to pass a domtic partnership statute 1999, and legislators tried to pass a same-sex marriage bill 2005 and 2007.

MOVG TO GAY IDAHO? THG TO KNOW BEFORE RELOTG HERE AS AN LGBT PERSON.

For the first time the untry’s history, voters (rather than judg or legislators) Mae, Maryland, and Washgton approved Constutnal amendments permtg same-sex marriage marriage also beme a feral issue 2010, Massachetts, the first state to legalize gay marriage, found Sectn 3 of DOMA—the part of the 1996 law that fed marriage as a unn between one man and one woman—to be unnstutnal.

Wdsor, nservative Jtice Anthony Kennedy sid wh Jtic Ruth Bar Gsburg, Stephen Breyer, Sonia Sotomayor and Elena Kagan favor of same-sex marriage rights, ultimately makg gay marriage legal across the natn June this time, was still outlawed only 13 stat, and more than 20 other untri had already legalized gay marriage, startg wh the Netherlands December 2000.

It took a lot of time, study and prayer, but I eventually me to a place where I began to unrstand and accept where the Church is g om on gay marriage and the issu surroundg . Believe the Good Intentns of the Other: I thk the ma reason this issue is difficult to talk about is the unfortunate way that  has been amed: To be agast gay marriage is to be a bigot.

SECTN 2: KNOWG GAYS AND LBIANS, RELIG CONFLICTS, BELIEFS ABOUT HOMOSEXUALY

Leave Your Defens Behd: When a fay member who supports gay marriage recently asked me what I thought about the Supreme Court lg, I felt my heart rate go up immediately.

He stated, “[o]ur journey is not plete until our gay brothers and sisters are treated like anyone else unr the law—for if we are tly created equal, then surely the love we m to one another mt be equal as well. Tmp is now the leadg ndidate for print the Republin primary, which has tradnally been domated by hopefuls eager to show how eply nservative they are on social issu like gay rights and Mr. On Thursday, he startled some Republins by sayg on NBC’s “Today” show that he opposed a recently passed North Carola law that prohibs people om g public bathrooms that do not rrpond to the genr they were born wh, strikg down a Charlotte is his views on gay rights and gay people that most distguish Mr.

SHOULD A CHRISTIAN ATTEND THE WEDDG OF A GAY UPLE?

He has nurtured long iendships wh gay people, employed gay workers proment posns, and moved wh ease dtri where gays have long exerted fluence, like entertament. Tmp is not as embracg of gay rights as the Democratic ndidat are; he said durg this mpaign that he believ that marriage is between a man and a woman, a posn he has held sce at least 2000, when he briefly flirted wh a bid for the princy.

Tmp, who has flamed tensns wh almost every group, om Hispanics to women to Ain-Amerins, has avoid attackg or offendg gay men and lbians durg the history wh the gay muny is a long one. In 2000, when he briefly nsired nng for print, he gave an terview to The Advote, a gay magaze, which he supported amendg the 1964 Civil Rights Act to “clu a ban of discrimatn based on sexual orientatn.

RSIAN NSTUTN CHANGE ENDS HOP FOR GAY MARRIAGE

”Sixteen years later, gay rights advot are still tryg to persua Congrs to pass a siar measure, but they have stggled to w support, pecially om Republins.

The last Republin nomee, Mt Romney, opposed siar legislatn Tmp cled to be terviewed for this ease wh gay people do not seem to be the rult of ep soul searchg, but, rather, the product of the Manhattan social and polil world he has habed the past five s. Tmp was believed to be the first private club owner Palm Beach, Fla., to adm an openly gay uple, acrdg to Lrence Leamer, the thor of “Madns Unr the Royal Palms, ” a book about Palm Beach society.

WHERE SHOULD WE, AS CHRISTIANS, STAND ON GAY MARRIAGE?

The Friends General Conference, one of three major natnal associatns for Friends meetgs and church the Uned Stat, issued a statement fall 2004, “Mute on Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr and Queer Friends, ” emphasizg that LGBTQ people were wele their relig muny.