Narcissism among gay men and LGBT culture is explored by Steven Surman reviewg The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs. This is part two of two.
Contents:
- GAY RAGE
- GAY RAGE
- THE VELVET RAGE BY ALAN DOWNS | SIX LSONS ABOUT GAY NARCISSISM | PART 02
- PRI AND PREJUDICE FOR GAY MEN
- THE VELVET RAGE BY ALAN DOWNS | SIX LSONS ABOUT GAY NARCISSISM | PART 01
- GAY-RAGE ED MEANG
- GAY-RAGE MEANG AND FN
- ROXANE GAY
GAY RAGE
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GAY RAGE
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THE VELVET RAGE BY ALAN DOWNS | SIX LSONS ABOUT GAY NARCISSISM | PART 02
<p>Gay men are four tim more likely to suffer om prsn than straight men. The reason? Acrdg to therapist Alan Downs, 's a toxic cktail of anger and rejectn, which he lls "velvet rage". Here, he discs his ntroversial self-help manual – pl, startg right, we hear five very personal "g out" stori</p> * gay rage *
"We were at the bar when my iend said faggot too loud, then this shemale turned green wh the gay-rage and I woke up the hospal wh a broken nose and a torn asshole. A person who a homosexual that rag about his or her sexualy and he or she dont relize they do so.
PRI AND PREJUDICE FOR GAY MEN
Gay narcissism as a ncept is explored by Steven Surman this analysis of the Velvet Rage by Alan Downs. Part one of two. * gay rage *
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Most of the recent spate of suicis mted by young gay men have been attributed to homophobic bullyg. The gay youth is overwhelmed by a feelg of rage but nnot fd a suable outlet for his vlent feelg that is patible wh the sire not to harm others.
THE VELVET RAGE BY ALAN DOWNS | SIX LSONS ABOUT GAY NARCISSISM | PART 01
Bee he is a gay youth and knows firsthand what is to suffer at the hand and mouth of another, he do not, or nnot, produce pa he feels upon another.
GAY-RAGE ED MEANG
What we mt do as adults is to foc on equippg our LGBT (lbian gay bisexual transgenr) youth wh an emotnal rilience wh which they n LIVE THROUGH IT. Such reprentatn really do reveal homosexualy as a “life style” rather than an emotnal and polil realy that mands a particular procs of livg. There mt be a return to ser, rigoro, and even somewhat…sry versns of “lbian gay bisexual transgenr.
GAY-RAGE MEANG AND FN
As Alan Downs pots out several tim The Velvet Rage, when two gay men are a relatnship wh one another, will only work out if they both wrangled wh and tamed their own mons. This certaly sounds a lot like the premise Ross Rosenberg’s The Human Mag Syndrome, sce a narcissist and a pennt (gay or straight) are both magilly drawn to each other for havg the characteristics and personaly tras that the other is lackg. One gay therapist I know says, ‘Send only to HIV, betrayal is the most vastatg gay epimic.
I am sure ss wh many gay men, and ’s why so many of sh to and clg to toxic relatnships—this guy clud. A gay man who pathologilly cis for sex is engagg a procs addictn bee ’s no longer about hookg up. Over the years I’ve had untls (and I mean untls) talks wh gay iends who all pla about how tired and vapid the gay social apps are.
After my own breakup om the Gay Narcissist, I was glued to Scff, and I msaged as many men as possible the world over.
ROXANE GAY
Sce I foced so much on the dark si of gay men and their relatnships, ’s important to highlight the sgle most important pot I took away om Alan Downs and The Velvet Rage, which is a hopeful one. The latt blow to Wt Hollywood’s Boystown gay nightlife district is the closg of Rage, the gay bar at the northwt rner of Santa Moni Boulevard and San Vicente.
Jacqui Squatriglia and Chris Barn, owner of Flamg Saddl, the gay Country / Wtern bar at 8811 Santa Moni Boulevard at Larrabee, announced s closg on Aug. Gym Bar, another popular gay bar, loted at 8737 Santa Moni Blvd., announced s permanent closg July, wh s owners sayg that the property owner, Elias Shokrian of Calex LLC Beverly Hill, had been unoperative negotiatg a way for them to pay their rent.