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Contents:

• PRI SAID GAY COPS AREN’T WELE. THEN CAME THE BACKLASH.
• COMG OUT AT WORK: WHAT 'S LIKE TO BE A GAY P NEW JERSEY
• NYC PRI PARA BANS POLICE; GAY OFFICERS 'DISHEARTENED'
• GAY POLICEMAN STOCK PHOTOS AND IMAG
• HARRY STYL’ ‘MY POLICEMAN’ GAY SEX SCEN ARE ACTUALLY HOT
• HE WAS ONE OF THE NATN’S MOST REVERED GAY PS. HIS ARRT CHANGED EVERYTHG.
• AS A GAY OFFICER I SAW HOW HOMOPHOBIC THE POLICE ARE
• POLICE AT PRI? GAY PS, LGBTQ ACTIVISTS STGGLE TO SEE EYE-TO-EYE
• SERGEANT HARRY DALEY: ‘HONOUR MET’S FIRST GAY POLICEMAN WH BLUE PLAQUE,’ SAY MPAIGNERS
• GAY COP

PRI SAID GAY COPS AREN’T WELE. THEN CAME THE BACKLASH.

” The monstrators left angry but clash between protters and police fillg social media, prsure rose on Herage of Pri to rce police volvement, cludg banng the Gay Officers Actn League, which routely receiv effive cheers durg the Pri march. Fisher, who had lled for the vote of no Downey, print of the gay officers group, said he felt “betrayed” by the ban, pecially bee the officers “put so much of themselv on the choppg block” by workg to change practic and attus wh their partments.

”It's not always easy to be a p who is gay, but each step forward helps pave the way for a better future work environment, Tracy ntu below galleryWell before Tracy ever put on the police uniform, Wtwood police Officer Larry Schwartz helped pave the way for gay officers. ”“The sense of safety that law enforcement is meant to provi n stead be threateng, and at tim dangero, to those our muny who are most often targeted wh excsive force and/or whout reason, ” the group will also crease the event's secury budget to boost the prence of muny-based secury and first rponrs while rcg the police partment's will provi first rponse and secury “only when absolutely necsary as mandated by cy officials, ” the group said, addg hoped to keep police officers at least one cy block away om event perimeter areas where of the ban me out Friday when the Gay Officers Actn League said a release was disheartened by the group lled the ban an “abpt about-face” and said the cisn “to plate some of the activists our muny is shameful. ”The para is schled for June after the ronavis prevented many Pri events worldwi last year, cludg New York which stead hosted virtual performanc ont of masked participants and honored ont-le workers the panmic disptns trated activists who had hoped to llectively mark the 50th anniversary of the first Gay Pri paras and march Chigo, Los Angel, New York and San Francis march me a year after the 1969 uprisg outsi Manhattan's Stonewall Inn, a gay bar, rponse to a police raid.

COMG OUT AT WORK: WHAT 'S LIKE TO BE A GAY P NEW JERSEY

(Photos urty of subjects)Ana Arboleda, a 12-year vet of the New York Police Department and a proud lbian, will never fet the mix of fear and joy she felt the first time she joed the New York Cy Pri March, uniform, as part of the Gay Officers Actn League New York (GOAL-NY), a volunteer-led anizatn that addrs the issu of LGBTQ ps and the muny at large. Decisns like the are rpons to unrlyg tensns between the LGBTQ muny and police that have a long and plited past, wh queer people historilly harassed and persecuted by law enforcement — most famoly, though not only, through the 1969 raid at the Stonewall Inn, at which a route police shakedown at the gay bar led fed-up patrons to stand up for their rights to exist, promptg the days-long Philalphia — where the official Pri event has been abptly nceled this year — tensns were high 2018, when police officers arrted a woman who l a Blue Liv Matter flag prott, ahead of the Pri Para. (Photo: REUTERS/Eduardo Munoz)Still, spe his belief that policg is systemilly “whe supremacist and sexist and misogynist and homophobic, ” adds Walker, “I do thk the queer ps perhaps e to policg possibly for the noblt reasons, and perhaps they hontly want to keep the public safe.

NYC PRI PARA BANS POLICE; GAY OFFICERS 'DISHEARTENED'

’”In the midst of the ntroversy — as well as the celebratn and fierce, ntug fight for equaly this Pri month — Yahoo Life spoke wh some of the people at the center of the bate: LGBTQ law, hear om the many who shared their personal stori, givg their own take on what Arboleda so succctly explaed: “I’m proud to be a member of NYPD — but equally proud to be gay. Ana Arboleda, New York Cy Police DepartmentAna Arboleda found her way to policg through both her Columbian herage and her gay inty as a kid growg up the Queens neighborhood of Jackson Heights — home to sizable Lato and LGBTQ populatns, which she says saw both good and bad treatment by didn’t e out right away — not while the police amy, at least. “We have to acknowledge the police enforcement is still a very whe, heterosexual, male-domated job… so I wanted to see how they were wh the gay thg first, ” Arboleda, vice print of GOAL-NY, she’s passnate about brgg change wh the NYPD.

“Our queer siblgs need to know that the Gay Officers Actn League, a aternal anizatn of gays law enforcement, will ntue servg as an advote for our muny and a nscience for the Department, ” he Police Officer Greg Abbk, At Police DepartmentGreg Abbk of At, Texas, stggled for most of his life wh his genr inty and says that he’s fally found his place law enforcement, where he transned publicly 2015, after a on the job.

Behalf of all the members of the Gay Officers Actn League of New York, we thank everyone who has reached out over the last few Members and Friends, Sce Herage of Pri announced s cisn to ban GOAL om participatg Pri, we've been Journey 35 Years of GOALThe New York Cy Police Department (NYPD) has e a long way and we are proud to be a part of the posive chang.

GAY POLICEMAN STOCK PHOTOS AND IMAG

There are no legs flailg the air or stctively arched backs; this is a time before porn ma so gay men adjted their own pursu of pleasure to what they’ve seen “adult” films that are specifilly meant to tillate had a lot to prove My Policeman. But unlike that film, which the extent of Styl’ timacy work was puttg his head unr a skirt, My Policeman prov he is pable of translatg the heartthrob charisma that has ma lns of fans swoon arenas around the world to the silver screen, My Policeman, the more experienced gay character guis the other, enuragg him to feel out what feels naturally pleasurable to him.

HARRY STYL’ ‘MY POLICEMAN’ GAY SEX SCEN ARE ACTUALLY HOT

Craig told reporters today that he did nothg appropriate and said his guilty plea was a plac like men's rtrooms, airports and tra statns, tck stops, universy librari and parks, have long been plac where gay and bisexual men, particularly those the closet, ngregate orr to meet for anonymo time, people faiar wh cisg told, gay men began g a dified system of signals to dite to others that they were terted sex.

If a se like this went to trial, police officers would have to produce evince to say here is how we n say wh certaty this is was really a lewd act, " he plead guilty to the charg and therefore opted agast a, Craig nied beg gay and said he ma a mistake by pleadg officers, for the most part, only vtigate an area after members of the public have plaed about beg ed for sex, said Rich Gregson, executive director of the California Peace Officers Associatn. "Wh many other optns available for gay men to meet each other, Gershen Kfman, a profsor emer of psychology at Michigan State Universy and thor of the book "Comg Out of Shame, " said public cisg is practiced maly by eply closeted men. ’ ”The teenager began to tell the officers the story he would repeat at least three tim that night, cludg at the sexual asslt treatment center where he was taken after his parents were ’d met Parson on Growlr, a datg app for gay men that requir ers to be 18.

The man who had jt driven away was known natnally and ternatnally as a pneer of gay rights the natn’s pal, Parson built an award-wng liaison un that vtigated hate crim, beiend advot and marched Pri paras, slowly revolutnizg the relatnship between the police and the cy’s LGBTQ muny. Advot who work wh gay youth say ’s mon for teenagers to explore on datg apps that allow them to meet strangers, pecially if they don’t feel safe exprsg themselv at home or vulnerable kids also e datg apps to seek out adults who will pay them, though mors nnot legally nsent to beg purchased for sex. “I don’t thk a life should be stroyed over one foolish event late one night, pecially when the ntact was ma on a se where everyone is supposed to be a mimum of 18, ” said Rick Rosendall, former print of the Gay and Lbian Activists Alliance.

HE WAS ONE OF THE NATN’S MOST REVERED GAY PS. HIS ARRT CHANGED EVERYTHG.

Senrs officers directed to do this bee, they said, the men were g a public when I thk about the se of Stephen Port – who was last week nvicted of murrg four young gay men, whose killgs tectiv failed to lk spe obv clu – the notn of stutnalised homophobia is at the foreont of my md.

AS A GAY OFFICER I SAW HOW HOMOPHOBIC THE POLICE ARE

Jt before members of the Gay Officers Actn League (GOAL) marched past the Stonewall Inn, the fish le of last year’s New York Cy Pri March, a small group of activists slipped past the barriers and chaed their hands together to prevent the officers om passg, a prott technique lled a “lockdown. ”Dozens of ps workg secury at the march surround the protters, and, over shouts of “f--k the police” and “racist, sexist, anti-gay, NYPD, KKK, ” began to break through what appeared to be chas and bber tub the protters had ed to lock themselv together.

Pacific Prs / LightRocket via Getty Imag fileThe irony of the cint was not lost on many the crowd — ps arrtg gay people ont of the Stonewall Inn, the very place where homophobic police btaly sparked the morn LGBTQ rights movement nearly five s years prr. In fact, New York Cy’s first gay pri march, which was held on June 28, 1970, was anized to memorate the one-year anniversary of what has bee known as the Stonewall Rts — when 1969 patrons of the now-inic gay bar fally had enough after yet another police raid. Nohels, protters say they’re dog so to take a stand agast police btaly and harassment of margalized groups, namely people of lor and the transgenr DAYS OF GOALThe relatnship between the police and the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and queer muny has long been ght, but for LGBTQ ps, the right to march pri is a hard-fought civil rights the after that first pri march on June 28, 1970, New York’s gay rights movement ma so much progrs that by 1981 the police force self was facg LGBTQ activism om wh.

Gay ps New York Cy, for example, led by Officer Charl Cochrane, sought to form their own employee rource group, like the on that existed for Hispanic, Irish-Amerin and Ain-Amerin Rodriguez, now a retired NYPD sergeant, was still the New York Cy Police Amy when Officer Cochrane entered his classroom 1982. ”Rodriguez, who kept his sexualy to himself his early days as a p, relled overhearg on several ocsns racist, sexist and homophobic ments om his largely straight, whe and male lleagu back he was posted to New York Cy’s 6th Precct, which vers Greenwich Village, he relled a senr officer askg him, “So you work wh all the fags? C., to Sacramento, a number of progrsive LGBTQ activists, some of them too young to remember the gay police activism of the ‘80s and ‘90s, view ps to be an unwele — and even threateng — prence at pri addn to gettg ps out of pri, many of the different activist groups also have an array of social jtice mands.

POLICE AT PRI? GAY PS, LGBTQ ACTIVISTS STGGLE TO SEE EYE-TO-EYE

”NYPD Detective Brian Downey, the current print of the Gay Officers Actn League, said imagery of uniformed LGBTQ ps marchg proudly “is powerful, ” and he hop will prevent people the muny, like the trans woman Rodriguez scribed, om beg aaid of ps.

That's a setback for the e of NEWSJune 27, 2021Gay ps ‘disappoted’ by Pri’s law-enforcement banNY POSTJune 26, 2021LGBTQ Police Officers Derve a Place the NYC Pri MarchLA BLADEJune 26, 2021NYPD Gay Officers Unn Head Speaks Out Over Pri's Cop BanWCBS NEWS RADIO 880June 25, 2021NYPD officers speak out about beg siled Pri marchCNNJune 25, 2021NYC Pri anizers lled out by gay officers for banng police om para: This is not 'cln'FOX NEWSJune 25, 2021#TogetherInPri: NYPD, Gay Officers Actn League Highlight Progrs For LGBTQIA+ MembersCBS NEW YORKJune 24, 2021NYPD, GOAL Unveil Internal Effort to Foc on LGBTQ CommunyGAY CITY NEWSJune 24, 2021NYC Pri Ban On Police Uniforms Reflects TensnsASSOCIATED PRESS TELEVISION NEWSJune 24, 2021NYPD Detective reacts to the NYC Pri Para banng uniformed ps om marchgMSNBCJune 24, 2021LGBTQ ps want Pri anizers to 'stop seeg as the enemy'YAHOO! A gay officer and NY para anizer talk through the falloutThe New York TimJune 9, 2021Op-Ed: Embrace InclnGay Cy NewsJune 3, 2021Why the LGBTQ muny siled police for PriABC NewsMay 29, 2021A Passnate Plea for—and Agast—Police at PriAdvoteMay 27, 2021Opn: Let LGBTQ ps march New York Cy’s pri paraThe Washgton PostMay 23, 2021Gay Officers Actn League Print Oppos Pri's Uniformed Law Enforcement BanNPRMay 22, 2021NYPD Pri March Ban: Hear From a Cop & an OrganizerNBC 4 New YorkMay 21, 2021The Pri Para's Anti-Police Insult: A Gay NYPD Official Speaks Out NY Daily NewsMay 20, 2021NYPD Sgt. Ana Arboleda of the Gay Officers Actn LeagueFOX 4 NYMay 20, 2021Gay Officers Actn League reacts to NYC Pri para banPIX 11May 20, 2021Gay Pri Para Discrimat Agast Gay Cops: Demonizg an entire profsn is not the shortt path to crimal jtice reformReasonMay 18, 2021A Misstep by the Organizers of PriThe New York TimMay 18, 2021Gay police group blasts NYC Pri for banng officers om eventsUSA TODAYMay 18, 2021NYPD: Law Enforcement Banned From NYC Pri March, ‘Runs Counter To Our Shared Valu Of Incln And Tolerance’CBS New YorkMay 17, 2021Police groups banned om NYC Pri eventsNY 1May 16, 2021Decisn to exclu gay police group om Pri para is ‘hurtful and disappotg, ’ top NYPD spox saysNY DAILY NEWSMay 16, 2021Cops banned om participatg NYC Pri eventsNY PostMay 15, 2021New York Cy Pri para anizers ban ps om marchg uniformNewsdayMay 15, 2021Pri Para anizers bar gay police officers’ group om marchg 2022 eventNY Daily NewsMay 14, 2021Gay NYPD Officer Both Supportg and Securg Pri MarchThe Wall Street JournalJul 26, 2019NYPD holds s Pri celebratn, unterterrorism chief gets Ally Award1010 WsJul 12, 2019How NYC police's relatnship wh LGBTQ+ muny changed after Stonewall UprisgABC NewsMay 21, 2019How a small group of LGBTQ ps changed the NYPD foreverNY PostDecember 18, 2018NYPD, Gay Officers Actn League scribe beg discrimated agast powerful documentaryPIX 11November 14, 2019An LGBT Group Is Changg the NYPD From WhAdvoteJuly 18, 2018Police at Pri?

Gay ps, LGBTQ activists stggle to see eye-to-eyeNBC NewsJune 23, 2018NYPD outl secury for NYC Pri MarchNY 1June 22, 2018The Cops Standg Wh, and for, the Gay Communi They ServeNatn SwellJune 22, 2018NYPD Honors 9/11 Hero Whose Health Is DeterratgNBC 4 New YorkJune 13, 2018Auxiliary officer who got ncer after rpondg as a civilian to Ground Zero honored at NYPD gay pri eventNY Daily NewsJune 13, 2018GOAL NY on Elvis Duran & The Morng Show Discs 2018 Natnal Police WeekZ-100 Elvis Duran & The Morng ShowMay 15, 2018GOAL’s Marathon for Acceptance the NYPDGay Cy NewsMay 09, 2018Police rally for former SWAT officer who says he was harassed for beg gayPIX 11Febary 27, 2018Fellow officers rally for laid-off p who says he was targeted for beg gayNJ. Febary 23, 2018New York’s Police Department Gets Real Gay for PriHorJune 23, 2017NYPD provis clear guil for how transgenr ps n rm superrs of preferred pronouns, namNY Daily NewsJune 22, 2017Gay Officer's Actn League Pri Celebratn held NYCABC 7 New YorkJune 21, 2017NYPD set to make transn easier for transgenr psNY PostJune 21, 2017NYPD gay officers group to honor ‘twerk p’ Michael Hance who died of 9/11-lked ncerNY Daily NewsJune 17, 2017"Let's not take away om the urage of a transgenr police officer on the job" - Brian DowneyThe John Oakley ShowMay 23, 2017GOAL NY v Toronto Police Officers to march alongsi NYPD 2017 NYC Pri MarchCP24May 22, 2017Newly promoted sergeant is a proud lbian who lls the NYPD her send fayNY Daily NewsMay 14, 2017GOAL NY live on Elvis Duran & The Morng ShowZ-100 Elvis Duran & The Morng ShowOctober 11, 2017Transgenr on the ForceThe New York TimAugt 05, 2016LGBT members of the NYPD proudly march durg annual Pri ParaPIX 11June 26, 2016A Cop Who Really Was New York’s FtGay Cy NewsJune 23, 2016NYPD shows support for gay pri wh new-look patrol SUVNY PostJune 22, 2016A Gay Officer Cght Between Two WorldsThe Wall Street JournalJune 21, 2016NYC renam tersectn for policeman who found LGBT groupPIX 11June 17, 2016Gay NYPD Officer Who Came Out at Cy Hearg Honored Street RenamgDNA InfoJune 17, 2016A Day Of Pri at NYPD HeadquartersThe Wall Street JournalJune 15, 2016At Pri Event, Police Move to Mend Bond Wh Gay New YorkersThe New York TimJune 15, 2016NYPD Groups Jo Queens’ St. Patrick’s Day Para In Solidary Wh LGBT MembersHuff PostFebary 02, 2016Sam Cicne, a Champn of Gay Police Officers, Di at 71The New York TimMay 17, 2015Gay NYPD ps seek honor for hero sergeant who me out three s agoNY Daily NewsSeptember 16, 2013.

SERGEANT HARRY DALEY: ‘HONOUR MET’S FIRST GAY POLICEMAN WH BLUE PLAQUE,’ SAY MPAIGNERS

Gay men I have terviewed who have reported their experience wh hate crim attacks have disclosed abive and dismissive treatment by law enforcement that has ranged om sensive remarks to outright hostily and an attu that they brought the vlence on themselv. Sergeant Harry Daley, said to be spiratn for TV seri Dixon of Dock Green, was “wildly discreet” even though homosexualy was illegal at the joed the Metropolan Police 1925 and worked Hammersmh, Wtmster and Wandsworth for 25 Daley was the lover of celebrated thor E.

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Sergeant Harry Daley pated by Dunn Grant 1930 / Dunn Grant Sgt Daley’s name nnot be re-nomated until 2027, when another panel would reasss his Stephen Bourne’s 2017 book Fightg Proud: The Untold Story Of The Gay Men Who Served In Two World Wars featur a chapter on Sgt has gaed renew promence durg LGBTQ+ History month and programm like Channel 4’s acclaimed drama It’s A S about the Aids Bourne said: “Harry Daley was greatly loved the muni he served.

The 1969 police raid of the Stonewall Inn, the famed gay bar New York Cy, was no different than many others before s, before and after the rts, some law enforcement officers and agenci targeted known LGBTQ-iendly tablishments an effort to shut them down, btalize patrons, and arrt people who vlated the homophobic and transphobic polici of the time, acrdg to the Natnal Park Foundatn, an anizatn that foc on U. Reported police misnduct, cludg unjtified arrt, e of excsive force and Samuel, of the Gay Officers Actn League, a nonprof LGBTQIA law enforcement advocy group, said that s members were upset by anizers’ cisn to remove law enforcement groups om the lp.