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• JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY
• DIPLOMATIC TENSN REPORTEDLY RISG BETWEEN UNED STAT AND JAMAI OVER GAY AMERIN DIPLOMAT
• ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL
• THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON
• THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY
• MISS MANNERS: NOSY WOMEN AT RETIREMENT MUNY ASK RINT ‘ARE YOU GAY?’ DURG DNER
• MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP"I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME."{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019/12:00 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:3116PX;WIDTH:5184PX;}MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG04 AUGT 2018, GERMANY, HAMBURG: PARTICIPANTS OF THE CHRISTOPHER STREET DAY (CSD) PARA, DRSED AS "PUPPI" STAND TOGETHER FOR A GROUP PHOTO. PHOTO: MARK SCHOLZ/DPA (PHOTO BY MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG)BY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019 / 12:00 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"JONATHAN JAM","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}FOR OVER A YEAR NOW I’VE ENJOYED LEARNG ABOUT THE FUN AND IENDLY WORLD OF PUP PLAY, A FETISH THAT TOOK ME FOUR YEARS TO SUM UP THE URAGE TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I FIRST DISVERED PUP PLAY DURG LOS ANGEL PRI 2015, WHEN I STUMBLED UPON A HUMAN-SIZED KENNEL FILLED WH SUBMISSIVE MEN DRSED AS PUPS. POPULAR GEAR NSISTS OF A HOOD OR MASK, TAIL, PAWS (TYPILLY LEATHER MTENS), AND LLAR, A SYMBOL OF A PUP BEG OWNED BY A SIR—THE DOM’S PREFERRED TLE—AND/OR BOYIEND. AT FIRST, WAS BIZARRE TO WATCH GROWN MEN PRETEND TO BE DOGS. LTLE DID I KNOW THAT I’D ONE DAY BE AMONG THEM, BARKG ON ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}UNLIKE MOST CREATUR THE GAY ANIMAL KGDOM, PUP IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE HARR TERMS TO FE. UNLIKE BEARS, OTTERS, AND TWKS, PUPS ARE NOT CHARACTERIZED BY THEIR BODY TYP. BEARS AND OTTERS N BE PUPS JT AS MUCH AS TWKS AND MCLE QUEENS. THIS N MAKE CHALLENGG FOR FIRST-TIMERS ENTERG THE PUP MUNY. “HOW DO I BEE A PUP?” IS ONE OF THE MORE EQUENT QUTNS I GET THE DAYS. THE EASY ANSWER? “YOU JT DO.”GETTYSAO PLO, BRAZIL - JUNE 03: PEOPLE ATTEND THE GAY PRI PARA ON JUNE 3, 2018 SAO PLO, BRAZIL. PEOPLE GATHERED SAO PLO FOR THE 22ND ANNUAL GAY PRI PARA, WHICH IS NSIRED ONE OF THE BIGGT ON THE WORLD. AT THE PARA, THE PARTICIPANTS MONSTRATED FOR THE RIGHTS OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}YOU CHOOSE TO BE A PUP AND FOR EACH PUP, THE KD OF PLAY VARI. SOME PUPS LEAN TO THE MORE SEXUAL DOM-SUB DYNAMIC OF THE FETISH, WH THE DOM GIVG THE SUB ORRS TO PERFORM. THE DOM MAY TELL HIS PUP TO “S” OR MORE MONLY “LICK HIS BOOT,” AND ONCE THE PUP HAS PERFORMED TO THE DOM’S SATISFACTN, HE MAY REWARD HIS PUP WH SEXUAL ACTS. THIS IS A FORM OF NEGOTIATN BETWEEN SIR AND PUP—AN SENTIAL PART OF BDSM PLAY. AFTER THE EXCHANGE, BOTH SHOULD FEEL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF THIS DYNAMIC ISN’T YOUR CUP OF TEA, THERE IS A PLATONIC PORTN OF THE MUNY THAT ENJOYS THE HEADSPACE OF PUP PLAY ABOVE ALL ELSE. THE FOLKS WILL HOLD NON-SEXUAL PLAY PARTI WHERE PUPS N WRTLE, PLAY WH CHEW TOYS, AND N AROUND TOGETHER. WHILE SIRS MAY NOT TYPILLY ATTEND THE EVENTS, THEY OFTEN ATTEND ANNUAL PET PLAY NTTS. AS I’VE SCRIBED TO MANY OF MY IENDS, THK OF THE MOVIE BT SHOW, BUT WH HUMANS PERFORMG AS THE ANIMALS. ONE OF MY FAVOR TO WATCH IS THE HERDG CHALLENGE: A NON-PARTICIPANT—THIS ULD BE A PUP OR ANY VOLUNTEER—DRS UP AS A SHEEP AND THE PUP MT HERD THAT PERSON TO A {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHILE THERE IS OVERLAP BETWEEN THE FURRY AND PUP MUNI, THE HISTORY OF PUPS IS MORE CLOSELY TIED TO THE LEATHER MUNY. THAT IS BEE OF THEIR PARALLELS WH “SLAV” OR “BOYS” WHO ARE SERVG A DOM OR MASTER. HOWEVER, PUPS STAND OUT BEE OF THEIR PLAYFUL NATURE AND SPIR. BEG ON ALL FOURS IS A PLEASURABLE AND NATURAL FORM FOR A PUP. WHEREAS SLAV OR BOYS ARE TYPILLY LOOKG TO BE MEANED SERVICE TO THEIR MASTER, A PUP’S GOAL IS TO BE A “GOOD BOY” AND RECEIVE “SCRCH” (THE PUP TERM FOR BELLY BS OR HEAD BS).JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAGA MAN WHO GAVE HIS NAME AS PUP COMBO (C) HOLDS UP A SIGN WHILE PARTICIPATG THE SAN FRANCIS PRI PARA SAN FRANCIS, CALIFORNIA ON JUNE, 24, 2018. (PHOTO BY JOSH ELSON / AFP) (PHOTO CRED SHOULD READ JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAG){BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE’S NO SGULAR WAY TO ENGAGE PUP PLAY. IT’S NOT LIKE PISS PLAY OR FISTG, WHICH IS, FOR THE MOST PART, PRETTY CUT AND DRY. IT’S WHY I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME. THERE’S NO RIGHT OR WRONG WH DRAG. ONCE YOU REALIZE THIS, EVERYTHG SEEMS TO FALL TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MANY PUPS GET UGHT UP ON FDG A SIR OR A PACK. I WISH I ULD SAY I HAD NCRETE ADVICE, BUT THE TTH IS THAT THE THGS OFTEN JT E TIME. PUPS FD THEIR SIRS BY ATTENDG MANY PUP EVENTS AND PUTTG THEMSELV OUT THERE; OTHERS FD THEIR SIRS ONLE. IT’S SIAR TO DATG; SIRS’ TAST, KKS, AND PERSONALI OFTEN HAVE TO MATCH WH THEIR PUPS. IF YOU’RE A PUP WHO DO NOT LIKE FORCEFUL PLAY THEN STEPPG TO A RELATNSHIP WH A SIR THAT DO MAY NOT BE THE BT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}A PUP WHOUT A SIR OR PACK IS UALLY NSIRED A FERAL PUP. PUPS N STAY FERAL IF THEY PREFER, ’S UP TO THEM. OVER TIME, A FERAL PUP MAY FD A PACK OR SIR OF HIS OWN, OR, MANY S, HE WILL START HIS OWN PACK. BEG FERAL IS NOT A BAD THG–’S HOW WE ALL START. THE PUPS N PLAY WH OTHER PACKS AND SIRS WHOUT RTRAT, TTG THEIR LIMS AND DISVERG THE ASPECTS OF THE FETISH THEY LIKE OR DON’T LIKE.GETTYPHILALPHIA, PA, USA - JUNE 9, 2019: A BDSM HUMAN PUP WEARS A LORFUL DOG MASK DURG THE PHILLY PRI {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LIKE A GOOD LOVE STORY, I FOUND MY SIR AND PACK WHEN I WAS JT FOCG ON MYSELF AND GROWG AS A PUP, RATHER THAN OUTRIGHT SEARCHG. I HAVE A MORE UNUAL DYNAMIC WH MY SIR, AS HE IS ALSO MY BOYIEND. WHILE HE IS NOT AS DOMANT AS OTHERS, HE DO ENJOY THE SAME SILLS OF PUP PLAY THAT I ENJOY. HE WILL GIVE ME TREATS FOR WHEN I PERFORM ACTS OF SERVICE FOR HIM, ANYTHG OM DOG THE DISH TO PLAYG {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE IS NO LE BOOK WHEN TO PUP PLAY, AND THIS IS THE ELEMENT I LOVE MOST ABOUT . MY SIR AND I NTUE TO LEARN OM EACH OTHER, AND OUR DYNAMIC AND RELATNSHIP NTUE TO GROW. AND WHILE EVOLUTN PUP PLAY IS NON-STOP, THE STRONG SENSE OF BELONGG REMAS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS

JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT STRENGTH ACH KEV MAXEN OUT PUBLICLY AS GAY

Legend would have you believe that once you’ve earned your gay rd, a Harry Potter–like ceremony occurs where, stead of the Sortg Hat, a giant magil butt plug divis all gay men to two ho: tops or is clearly not the se, pecially for those people who nsir themselv versatile (HIYA). The two subdivisns have their own l, stereotyp, and -jok, and n sometim seem as if they’re at war wh each other, rather than both workg together for mutual sexual of this n make tryg different thgs dntg, pecially if you’re a baby gay venturg to this world for the first time. ”Miller argu that gay men should exame their relatnship wh power.

But I believe that many gay men pick one si, stick to , and that some of those dividuals choose toppg—you’ll have seen their profil markg them as “masc dom tops” on the apps—bee of s ti to tradnal Miller explas, there are outsi forc that, datg back to the ancient Greeks, have prevented gay men om tly diggg to what sexual behavrs we might actually enjoy. “What I mean by that, ” he says, “is that cultural forc wh the gay muny prize toppg over bottomg. “Wh bottomg there is the perceptn that you're givg up your masculy bee receivg a penis is somethg that women do, ” Miller Chris Whe, an expert health promotn and the director and prcipal vtigator of the Safe and Supportive Schools Project at the Gay-Straight Alliance Network San Francis, tak this one step further.

DIPLOMATIC TENSN REPORTEDLY RISG BETWEEN UNED STAT AND JAMAI OVER GAY AMERIN DIPLOMAT

”To be (fucked) or not to be (fucked) shouldn’t always be the qutnAcrdg to a 2011 study by The Journal of Sexual Medice that surveyed 25, 000 gay men Ameri about their last sexual enunters, only 36 percent said they had bottomed and 34 percent said they had, realy, we’re not actually fuckg all that much. Gay Erotic Stori.

30 Kky Terms Every Gay Man Needs to Know.

If gay life was a giant ballroom (and kd of is), kky leathermen have been lgerg the back, the shadows, for generatns.

ACTIVISTS NMN VLENCE AGAST LGBTQ MUNY ST. VCENT, WHERE GAY SEX IS ILLEGAL

Long before hookup apps like Grdr and Scff, gay and bisexual men seekg sual sex wore lored handkerchiefs their pant pockets ditg what kd of sex they were seekg and whether they were a domant/top or submissive/bottom. The lor is pretty extensive and clus var kks and fetish, and is still ed today by gay clothg brands like Nasty Pig and CellBlock 13 — and, obvly, by kky gay men.

In a sea of nned cktails, Gay Water wants to stand out. In other words, where Bud Light has buckled unr prsure as bigotry grows agast the LGBTQ+ muny, Gay Water’s creator Spencer Hodson wants his new boozy brand to be the anthis of that. “The key issue that Bud Light tapped to was the fact that they didn’t unrstand their re dience and know enough about them,” Hodson, a gay man, told CNN about the ntroversy that began when the Anhser-Bch beer brand sent fluencer Dylan Mulvaney a n of beer.

THE GRIM TTH OF BEG GAY PRISON

Gay Water, however, is out and proud.

The nned cktail is named after a lloquialism given to the popular mixed drk (vodka and soda) orred at bars by the gay muny.

THUNR WAIVE RUDY GAY

“Puttg a product wh the word gay the tle is reprentatn self,” which he hop reclaims the word om the negativy ’s sometim associated wh. He thought of creatg Gay Water about a year ago while on a vatn wh his iend that had got a job wh the beverage dtry.

The two chatted about the limed amount of gay people wh , and wh Hodson burnt out om his tradnal day job tech, started the nned cktail. Hodson built up a strong social media followg on TikTok and Instagram durg Covid-19 and is g some of the money om that (as well as om iends and fay) to help fund Gay Water.

“Gay is an umbrella term and the ia behd the brand is to be as clive as possible, which means we want alli, we want straight people to be part of this muny we’re buildg.”. For now, Gay Water is sold largely onle (wh a few retailers) and four sugar-ee flavors — watermelon, lime, peach and grapeu — at lnch. Gay Water might not have the ep pockets pared to s petors, like Whe Claw, but “even at small sle, pani of many siz are havg succs makg spir-based seltzers and premixed cktails,” Bryan Roth, an analyst for Feel Goods Company and edor of the alhol beverage newsletter, Sightl+, told CNN.

MISS MANNERS: NOSY WOMEN AT RETIREMENT MUNY ASK RINT ‘ARE YOU GAY?’ DURG DNER

“There’s lots of space the spir-based seltzer tegory which Gay Water n play, pecially if the brand n offer a cultural or emotnal nnectn that will feel more excg than the prospect of another peapple-flavored vodka seltzer om natnal or ternatnal rporatns,” Roth said. Of urse, other drks e the word “gay,” too, cludg Gay Beer and So Gay Rosé, Hodson noted, which are also tryg to reach the queer muny and offer them an alternative the straight-domated space.

MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP"I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME."{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}LIFEBY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019/12:00 {HEIGHT:HER;DISPLAY:-WEBK-BOX;DISPLAY:-WEBK-FLEX;DISPLAY:-MS-FLEXBOX;DISPLAY:FLEX;POSN:RELATIVE;-WEBK-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-MS-FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;FLEX-WRAP:WRAP;-WEBK-ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-ALIGN:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-ALIGN:CENTER;ALIGN-EMS:CENTER;-WEBK-BOX-PACK:CENTER;-WEBK-JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-MS-FLEX-PACK:CENTER;JTIFY-NTENT:CENTER;-WEBK-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;-MS-TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;TRANSFORM-ORIG:CENTER;} IMG{HEIGHT:100%;WIDTH:100%;OBJECT-F:VER;}{HEIGHT:3116PX;WIDTH:5184PX;}MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG04 AUGT 2018, GERMANY, HAMBURG: PARTICIPANTS OF THE CHRISTOPHER STREET DAY (CSD) PARA, DRSED AS "PUPPI" STAND TOGETHER FOR A GROUP PHOTO. PHOTO: MARK SCHOLZ/DPA (PHOTO BY MARK SCHOLZ/PICTURE ALLIANCE VIA GETTY IMAG)BY JONATHAN JAMNOVEMBER 29, 2019 / 12:00 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"MAKG FETCH HAPPEN: A GUI TO BEG A GAY PUP","THUMBNAILURL":","DATEPUBLISHED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2019-11-29T17:00:21.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","URL":","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"JONATHAN JAM","ARTICLESECTN":"LIFE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}FOR OVER A YEAR NOW I’VE ENJOYED LEARNG ABOUT THE FUN AND IENDLY WORLD OF PUP PLAY, A FETISH THAT TOOK ME FOUR YEARS TO SUM UP THE URAGE TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I FIRST DISVERED PUP PLAY DURG LOS ANGEL PRI 2015, WHEN I STUMBLED UPON A HUMAN-SIZED KENNEL FILLED WH SUBMISSIVE MEN DRSED AS PUPS. POPULAR GEAR NSISTS OF A HOOD OR MASK, TAIL, PAWS (TYPILLY LEATHER MTENS), AND LLAR, A SYMBOL OF A PUP BEG OWNED BY A SIR—THE DOM’S PREFERRED TLE—AND/OR BOYIEND. AT FIRST, WAS BIZARRE TO WATCH GROWN MEN PRETEND TO BE DOGS. LTLE DID I KNOW THAT I’D ONE DAY BE AMONG THEM, BARKG ON ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}UNLIKE MOST CREATUR THE GAY ANIMAL KGDOM, PUP IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE HARR TERMS TO FE. UNLIKE BEARS, OTTERS, AND TWKS, PUPS ARE NOT CHARACTERIZED BY THEIR BODY TYP. BEARS AND OTTERS N BE PUPS JT AS MUCH AS TWKS AND MCLE QUEENS. THIS N MAKE CHALLENGG FOR FIRST-TIMERS ENTERG THE PUP MUNY. “HOW DO I BEE A PUP?” IS ONE OF THE MORE EQUENT QUTNS I GET THE DAYS. THE EASY ANSWER? “YOU JT DO.”GETTYSAO PLO, BRAZIL - JUNE 03: PEOPLE ATTEND THE GAY PRI PARA ON JUNE 3, 2018 SAO PLO, BRAZIL. PEOPLE GATHERED SAO PLO FOR THE 22ND ANNUAL GAY PRI PARA, WHICH IS NSIRED ONE OF THE BIGGT ON THE WORLD. AT THE PARA, THE PARTICIPANTS MONSTRATED FOR THE RIGHTS OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}YOU CHOOSE TO BE A PUP AND FOR EACH PUP, THE KD OF PLAY VARI. SOME PUPS LEAN TO THE MORE SEXUAL DOM-SUB DYNAMIC OF THE FETISH, WH THE DOM GIVG THE SUB ORRS TO PERFORM. THE DOM MAY TELL HIS PUP TO “S” OR MORE MONLY “LICK HIS BOOT,” AND ONCE THE PUP HAS PERFORMED TO THE DOM’S SATISFACTN, HE MAY REWARD HIS PUP WH SEXUAL ACTS. THIS IS A FORM OF NEGOTIATN BETWEEN SIR AND PUP—AN SENTIAL PART OF BDSM PLAY. AFTER THE EXCHANGE, BOTH SHOULD FEEL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF THIS DYNAMIC ISN’T YOUR CUP OF TEA, THERE IS A PLATONIC PORTN OF THE MUNY THAT ENJOYS THE HEADSPACE OF PUP PLAY ABOVE ALL ELSE. THE FOLKS WILL HOLD NON-SEXUAL PLAY PARTI WHERE PUPS N WRTLE, PLAY WH CHEW TOYS, AND N AROUND TOGETHER. WHILE SIRS MAY NOT TYPILLY ATTEND THE EVENTS, THEY OFTEN ATTEND ANNUAL PET PLAY NTTS. AS I’VE SCRIBED TO MANY OF MY IENDS, THK OF THE MOVIE BT SHOW, BUT WH HUMANS PERFORMG AS THE ANIMALS. ONE OF MY FAVOR TO WATCH IS THE HERDG CHALLENGE: A NON-PARTICIPANT—THIS ULD BE A PUP OR ANY VOLUNTEER—DRS UP AS A SHEEP AND THE PUP MT HERD THAT PERSON TO A {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHILE THERE IS OVERLAP BETWEEN THE FURRY AND PUP MUNI, THE HISTORY OF PUPS IS MORE CLOSELY TIED TO THE LEATHER MUNY. THAT IS BEE OF THEIR PARALLELS WH “SLAV” OR “BOYS” WHO ARE SERVG A DOM OR MASTER. HOWEVER, PUPS STAND OUT BEE OF THEIR PLAYFUL NATURE AND SPIR. BEG ON ALL FOURS IS A PLEASURABLE AND NATURAL FORM FOR A PUP. WHEREAS SLAV OR BOYS ARE TYPILLY LOOKG TO BE MEANED SERVICE TO THEIR MASTER, A PUP’S GOAL IS TO BE A “GOOD BOY” AND RECEIVE “SCRCH” (THE PUP TERM FOR BELLY BS OR HEAD BS).JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAGA MAN WHO GAVE HIS NAME AS PUP COMBO (C) HOLDS UP A SIGN WHILE PARTICIPATG THE SAN FRANCIS PRI PARA SAN FRANCIS, CALIFORNIA ON JUNE, 24, 2018. (PHOTO BY JOSH ELSON / AFP) (PHOTO CRED SHOULD READ JOSH EDELSON/AFP VIA GETTY IMAG){BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE’S NO SGULAR WAY TO ENGAGE PUP PLAY. IT’S NOT LIKE PISS PLAY OR FISTG, WHICH IS, FOR THE MOST PART, PRETTY CUT AND DRY. IT’S WHY I ALWAYS PARE BEG A PUP TO BEG A DRAG QUEEN: NO TWO QUEENS ARE THE SAME. THERE’S NO RIGHT OR WRONG WH DRAG. ONCE YOU REALIZE THIS, EVERYTHG SEEMS TO FALL TO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MANY PUPS GET UGHT UP ON FDG A SIR OR A PACK. I WISH I ULD SAY I HAD NCRETE ADVICE, BUT THE TTH IS THAT THE THGS OFTEN JT E TIME. PUPS FD THEIR SIRS BY ATTENDG MANY PUP EVENTS AND PUTTG THEMSELV OUT THERE; OTHERS FD THEIR SIRS ONLE. IT’S SIAR TO DATG; SIRS’ TAST, KKS, AND PERSONALI OFTEN HAVE TO MATCH WH THEIR PUPS. IF YOU’RE A PUP WHO DO NOT LIKE FORCEFUL PLAY THEN STEPPG TO A RELATNSHIP WH A SIR THAT DO MAY NOT BE THE BT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}A PUP WHOUT A SIR OR PACK IS UALLY NSIRED A FERAL PUP. PUPS N STAY FERAL IF THEY PREFER, ’S UP TO THEM. OVER TIME, A FERAL PUP MAY FD A PACK OR SIR OF HIS OWN, OR, MANY S, HE WILL START HIS OWN PACK. BEG FERAL IS NOT A BAD THG–’S HOW WE ALL START. THE PUPS N PLAY WH OTHER PACKS AND SIRS WHOUT RTRAT, TTG THEIR LIMS AND DISVERG THE ASPECTS OF THE FETISH THEY LIKE OR DON’T LIKE.GETTYPHILALPHIA, PA, USA - JUNE 9, 2019: A BDSM HUMAN PUP WEARS A LORFUL DOG MASK DURG THE PHILLY PRI {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LIKE A GOOD LOVE STORY, I FOUND MY SIR AND PACK WHEN I WAS JT FOCG ON MYSELF AND GROWG AS A PUP, RATHER THAN OUTRIGHT SEARCHG. I HAVE A MORE UNUAL DYNAMIC WH MY SIR, AS HE IS ALSO MY BOYIEND. WHILE HE IS NOT AS DOMANT AS OTHERS, HE DO ENJOY THE SAME SILLS OF PUP PLAY THAT I ENJOY. HE WILL GIVE ME TREATS FOR WHEN I PERFORM ACTS OF SERVICE FOR HIM, ANYTHG OM DOG THE DISH TO PLAYG {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE IS NO LE BOOK WHEN TO PUP PLAY, AND THIS IS THE ELEMENT I LOVE MOST ABOUT . MY SIR AND I NTUE TO LEARN OM EACH OTHER, AND OUR DYNAMIC AND RELATNSHIP NTUE TO GROW. AND WHILE EVOLUTN PUP PLAY IS NON-STOP, THE STRONG SENSE OF BELONGG REMAS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS

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