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class="SpaceHolr-oayp fXtswJ ad-height-hold"></div><div class="StickyHeroAdWrapper-eNLJUc gStsdY ad-stickyhero ad-stickyhero--standard ad-stickyhero-enable-mobile wh-lk-banner should-hold-space"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--hero"><div class="adslot adslot--hero" data-no-id="gh0re7"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-hero" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-hero"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="SpaceHolr-oayp fXtswJ ad-height-hold"></div><ma id="ma-ntent" tabx="-1" class="BasePageMaContent-kFvAuh ewPCZH pagema-ntent"><article class="article ma-ntent" lang="en-GB"><div class="ArticlePageLeBackground-EufvU tFsh"><hear class="ContentHearWrapper-clujbs ekNygm ntent-hear articlentent-hear"><div data-ttid="ContentHearContaer" class="ContentHearContaer-cGKRbE knDxNq"><div class="ContentHearHedAccredatnWrapper-GFiQf cDNVlV"><div data-ttid="ContentHearTleBlockWrapper" class="ContentHearTleBlockWrapper-cjmSKp cCntXd"><div data-ttid="ContentHearRubric" class="ContentHearRubricBlock-LmpbT eRFpQc"><div data-ttid="ContentHearRubricDateBlock" class="ContentHearRubricDateBlock-kAQcZP fTFWxD"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric ContentHearRubricContaer-eTudtt iRsSlw"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div></div></div><h1 data-ttid="ContentHearHed" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentHearHed-NCyCC iUEiRd jPOabC BjYFU">Why do men search for gym buddi on Grdr? An vtigatn</h1></div><div class="ContentHearAccredatn-lfctVB etVsnJ ntent-hearaccredatn" data-ttid="ContentHearAccredatn"><div class="ContentHearDek-bIqFFZ eASNBN">Grdr has both fed self by and e to fe the language of queer men. One of the most recent trends to be seen across people's profil is the rise of the hunt for ‘gym buddi’. Louis Stapl went search of whether the quote marks were warranted or not</div><div class="ContentHearByle-kmPyCa emiglw"><div class="ContentHearByleContent-dpPmNn DRFq"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ContentHearByl-cZqgyJ bHLeKI"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gtxxjM byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd fhQbnq dzFUnH eErqIx bylename-lk button" href="/profile/louie-stapl">Louis Stapl</a></span></span></p></div><time data-ttid="ContentHearPublishDate" dateTime="2021-08-14T19:00:00+01:00" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentHearPublishDate-eIBicG iUEiRd ivrQAn cZpOSL">14 Augt 2021</time></div></div><div class="SocialInsWrapper-hKMEXV bqESvf social-ins social-ins--standard ContentHearAccredatnSocialIns-jorO eYcyYU ntent-hearsocial-share"><ul data-ttid="socialInslist" class="SocialInsList-cHVTIA ivmblD social-inslist"></ul></div></div></div><div class="ContentHearLeadAsset-hGbumP dDDxdb lead-asset ContentHearLeadAssetWrapper-hfXHEc Grck lead-asset--width-grid" data-ttid="ContentHearLeadAsset"><figure class="ContentHearLeadAssetContent-kOfYSG dRGWbI"><div class="ContentHearLeadAssetContentMedia-bLEIpi hgDTU lead-assetntentphoto"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ContentHearRponsiveAsset-bREgIb hONbnm"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz ccdiSo"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ContentHearRponsiveAsset-bREgIb hONbnm rponsive-image"><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w, 1920w, 2240w" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Image may nta Wheel Mache Human Person Clothg Apparel Sport and Sports" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src="></picture></div></div></span><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE dVZQpq ptn ContentHearLeadAssetCaptn-hPWmSN XczIg"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd cdsJgg fNaHcW ptncred">@Josiebjudd</span></div></div></figure></div></div></hear></div><div data-attribute-verso-pattern="article-body" class="ArticlePageContentBackGround-cNiFNN kAwnHf article-bodyntent"><div class="ArticlePageChunksContent-etcMtP eRxRjL"><div data-ttid="ArticlePageChunks" class="ArticlePageChunks-fLyCVG eOdfIs"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>Downloadg <a href=">Grdr</a> – then letg , before re-downloadg , only to lete aga – has bee a morn re of passage for queer men. The hook-up app revolutnised datg and sex when arrived 2009, spirg the lik of <a href=">Tr</a> and the digised, swipe-heavy datg world of today. Grdr changed gay culture forever too: created a visual map that proved that gay and bi men are lerally everywhere (sometim jt feet away!). The app quickly beme the most popular gay app the world and, by 2014, had seven ln ers worldwi. It’s been referenced many TV shows and films too, om <em>Glee</em> to <em>How to Get Away Wh Murr</em>, <em>The</em> <em>Real Hoewiv</em> and, perhaps most ftgly, <em>Trawreck</em>.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>So many discsns about gay culture end up circlg back to Grdr, om <a href=">body image</a> to <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">sexual racism</a>, “<a href=">chemsex</a>” and <a href=">bottom-shamg</a>. On the app, ers often behave differently to how they would “real life” and gay Twter is often flood wh screengrabs of men behavg badly, btally and straight-up bizarrely. There’s a whole glossary of emoji-driven s and even visual “trib” – such as “otters”, “daddi”, “clean cut” and “twks” – which would take a very long time to expla to most straight people.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-unslot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>One trend that I’ve noticed – and have long been trigued by – is men lookg for a “gym buddy” on Grdr. On er profil, ’s very mon to see the sire for a “gym bud” listed alongsi someone’s favoure drk (ually g), height, body type and preferred sexual posn. But why?</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="adslot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="7z4xm"></div></div><p>On the face of thgs, a gym buddy is jt a iend to go to the gym wh. Some people do e Grdr for platonic nnectns, particularly if they’ve jt moved somewhere new, but ’s neverthels an trigug place to look for a gym pann. <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Michael</a>, a 24-year-old gay man who enjoys group exercise class and gog to the gym wh iends, thks this trend mak sense. “Personally, I ed to fd the gym an credibly difficult place to be. It was like hyper-masculy on speed, wh this immense prsure to be f, strong and ultimately to know what you’re dog,” he tells <em>GQ</em>. “I thk workg out wh somebody n break that timidatn bee ’s a) somebody to back up what you’re dog and b) potentially somebody to gui or ach you. It’s safety numbers what n be a sry place.”</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>‘You have more time to work out whether a guy is hot at the gym than nus he’s probably eded’</p></div></asi><p>Personally, the ia of beg sweaty and exhsted around someone I don’t know very well fills me wh dread (particularly if he’s also a gay man which, no, I won’t be unpackg at this time!). But that’s not Michael’s experience. “In the age of athleisure and boutique gyms, the gym don’t have to be a gross and sweaty place,” he says. “People look <em>good</em> at the gym. Pl, they n suck each other off the steam room or have sex the shower.”</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>After speakg wh Grdr ers London, I n nfirm that Michael is right spectg that sometim the search for gym buddi go beyond a platonic iendship. There’s obvly a reason why men are g Grdr, specifilly, this way (there are already apps for fdg a gym buddy, such as <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">GymBuddy</a> and <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">SportPartner</a>). Some guys, such as 26-year-old Jam, were genuely g Grdr to look for a pal to exercise wh, bee “Straight men might thk I’m htg on them or not be fortable workg out wh me. Or, even if they aren’t thkg that, the feelg that they might be would make me feel awkward.” But others, such as 28-year-old Callum, were hopg for “somethg more” if the attractn was there, bee “You have more time to work out whether a guy is hot at the gym than <a href=">nus</a> he’s probably eded, or jt before a hook-up, and ’s ls prsure than meetg somewhere else.”</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layoutasi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-boxprimary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="adslot adslot--rail" data-no-id="64oifs"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="adslot adslot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="bg2kl"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>It’s hardly surprisg that the gym might seem like a particularly uful backdrop for sex – after all, they are spac full of sweaty men not much clothg. On gay Twter, seems like everyone has a “gym csh” and there’s also an entire genre of porn that fetishis gyms and the locker room. In 2019, <a href="><em>Vice UK</em> vtigated</a> why so many gay men still go cisg at the gym, after a Virg Active health club emailed s members sayg would be sendg unrver police to check for “appropriate behavur”. Many garments that have bee part of the sartorial language of gay men, om <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">jockstraps</a> to tube socks and <a href=">short shorts</a>, are also rooted sportswear. For some, there is clearly a feelg of empowerment beg legibly gay a hyper-mascule space or reclaimg an athetic or pastime that they once felt exclud om.</p><p>Gyms are horny, but also que anx, plac for some gay men. “So many of my clients are unfortable gyms,” says <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Matt Boyl</a>, founr of <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Fter Confint You</a>, a fns pany that helps gay, bi and trans guys get to exercise. When to the lk between “gym buddi” and sex, Boyl thks ’s twofold: “The gym is how you n build your body and th appear more ‘manly’. Speakg om personal experience, I ed to thk that would make me seem more ‘straight’.” Boyl also spects that gyms n be a “steppg stone” for some gay men, bee many have snas and steam rooms, which n be a build up to visg gay snas. “This might appeal to men who are sexually attracted to men, but don’t want to seem overly ‘gay’ any other way,” he says.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>'If they're not fortable askg for the kd of sex that they actually want, this is a stand- for that'</p></div></asi><p>But why would men go to the trouble of dng a “gym bud” rather than simply gog on a date or straight to sex? “Grdr is known for havg ers who don’t necsarily intify as gay or bi, so they’ve maybe experimented, or may intify as straight, but still want to have sex wh men,” gay fns wrer <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Spenser Mtel</a> tells <em>GQ</em>. “I thk that lookg for a ‘gym buddy’ is perhaps a way for them to engage wh gay men, even though they aren’t able to exprs what their sexual sir are. If they're not fortable askg for the kd of sex that they actually want, this is a stand- for that.”</p><p>Mtel is right that, on Grdr, a lot of the profil lookg for a “gym buddy” intify themselv as “straight”. Many don’t have photos on their profil and some are relatnships wh women. One man, who didn’t share his name, told me that he wouldn’t want to be seen on a date wh a man as he’s not out. He also n’t host men at his hoe, bee he’s married to a woman and don’t like sendg pictur of his face on Grdr. So the gym is a risk-ee place to meet men who might not otherwise agree to meet him. Another er, who specifilly labelled himself as “Str8” and a “top” (the perative role gay sex), tells me that he’s only to “mascule” men sexually but has no tert any chat. “I always need to cum most after a workout, so the gym showers are the easit place and gay men are more to NSA [no strgs attached] sex than women,” he says.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layoutasi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-boxprimary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="adslot adslot--rail" data-no-id="0svze9"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-unslot nsumer-marketg-unslot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="RecircMostPopularWrapper-bRuGTi jkTTgR recirc-most-popular-wrapper 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class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="adslot adslot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="h3rybo"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layoutntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body bodyntaer articlebody" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="bodyner-ntaer"><p>It might sound perplexg to hear about men on Grdr intifyg as straight, but ’s not unmon for a distctn and hierarchy to be drawn between sexual activy and romantic relatnships (this n be <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">seen as far back as Ancient Greece</a>). Some people also perceive a difference between a physil behavur, such as sex wh men, and the formatn of a “gay inty.” Pl, even the UK 2021, not everyone has the abily to be open about their sexualy.</p><p>Social psychology might also tell why men, particularly those who nsir themselv mascule or straight, might highlight the gym as important to them on an app. Social psychologist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Rsell Spears</a> theoris that when we go onle a more anonymo or semi-anonymo environment, where there’s ls rmatn about people, we rely more on social norms (such as, for men to be sporty and strong). Spears <a href=">lls this</a> tenncy the “-dividualisatn hypothis”, which might be a reason why “straight” men on Grdr emphasise their mment to exercise.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>'If you jt say, “Shall we go to the gym together?” and get rejected, 's ls damagg to your self-teem'</p></div></asi><p>The gym and Grdr are both plac where men might feel petive wh each other or secure about their masculy. Mtel thks this affects gay men particular. “I thk already at the gym, for gay men, there's a sense of ‘Am I attracted to this person? Or am I jt jealo of them?’,” he says. “Our workout rout are very personal to and timate, which mak me thk havg a ‘gym buddy’ is ls about workg out and more about nnectg a mascule, sanctned way.” Boyl thks that uld also be about lseng the prsure of rejectn. “If you jt say, ‘Shall we go to the gym together?’ and get rejected, 's ls damagg to your self-teem,” he says. “And also allows men to jtify their reason for beg on a gay hook-up app: ‘I’m on Grdr, but I maly e for gym buddi!’”</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>The typ of negotiatns remd me of somethg PhD stunt Rob Craig observed while discsg why men might make an effort to appear more mascule over text. Speakg to <em>GQ</em> April, he drew a parallel between how men talk on Grdr and the barbershop, as a nearly male-only space where men are seekg physil timacy,” he <a href=">said</a>, remarkg on how both spac see an crease men sayg “man”, “du”, “bro” and “mate”. “The e of male slang rerc the speaker’s masculy a space where ’s placed jeopardy, such as a gay male cisg app,” he add. Surely, then, the same parallel n also be drawn between the digal space of Grdr and the physil space of the gym?</p><p>At first, the search for gym buddi on Grdr might seem like a bizarre trend that isn’t noteworthy. But actually, tersects wh some big qutns about how men (om gay to “straight”) feel like they’re supposed to behave different spac. The gym and Grdr actually have a lot mon: they’re both plac where there’s an emphasis on self-improvement, where there’s a perceptn of petn, where masculy is beg flnted, qutned and, ccially, where sex might be on the rds. 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Wele to the age of polysmmery</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-emk">The rise of nsensual non-monogamy on apps like Feeld has hered a new era of romance, but are people really playg by the l?</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-embyle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-embyle"><div class="summary-embylentent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span>Br Dawson</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr 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data-ttid="SummaryItemHed"><em>Heartstopper</em> season 2 handl the awkward first fumbl of gay sex wh grace</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-emk">Heartstopper addrs sex for the first time season 2, and 's as wholome as you'd expect</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-embyle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-embyle"><div class="summary-embylentent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span>Jack Kg</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh 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summary-emimage rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Snappg Cillian Murphy and brgg babi &- we've fotten how to behave at the cema" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-emntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-embric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Culture</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackghed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-3" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-emhed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Snappg Cillian Murphy and brgg babi — we've fotten how to behave at the cema</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-emk">Gog to the cema is beg popular aga. But the worst film-goers are g back, too</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-embyle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-embyle"><div class="summary-embylentent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span>Jack Kg</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM ad ad--read-more"><div class="adslot adslot--read-more" data-no-id="voymj"></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-emasset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-emimage-lk summary-em-trackgimage-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-4" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Fashn was already livg on the ‘Pla of the Bass’" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-emntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-embric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fashn</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackghed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-4" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-emhed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Fashn was already livg on the ‘Pla of the Bass’</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-emk">The song of the summer is meant to be a send-up. So why do look so faiar?</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-embyle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-embyle"><div class="summary-embylentent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span>Murray Clark </span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-emasset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-emimage-lk summary-em-trackgimage-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-5" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Embrace slow nng, the only way to improve your pace" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-imageimage" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-emntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-embric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackghed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-5" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-emhed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Embrace slow nng, the only way to improve your pace</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-emk">‘Stop nng too fast, get your sexy pace on’ is the msage we're gettg om the experts when – listen up and learn stead of riskg jury</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-embyle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-embyle"><div class="summary-embylentent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle bylbyle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU bylename"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss bylepreamble">By </span>Phil Hilton</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-emasset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-emimage-lk summary-em-trackgimage-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-6" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-emimage rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="How to get a rock solid re whout leavg the hoe" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY 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class="ArticlePageLeBackground-EufvU tFsh"><hear class="ContentHearWrapper-clujbs ekNygm ntent-hear article__ntent-hear"><div data-ttid="ContentHearContaer" class="ContentHearContaer-cGKRbE knDxNq"><div class="ContentHearHedAccredatnWrapper-GFiQf cDNVlV"><div data-ttid="ContentHearTleBlockWrapper" class="ContentHearTleBlockWrapper-cjmSKp cCntXd"><div data-ttid="ContentHearRubric" class="ContentHearRubricBlock-LmpbT eRFpQc"><div data-ttid="ContentHearRubricDateBlock" class="ContentHearRubricDateBlock-kAQcZP fTFWxD"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric ContentHearRubricContaer-eTudtt iRsSlw"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div></div></div><h1 data-ttid="ContentHearHed" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentHearHed-NCyCC iUEiRd jPOabC BjYFU">Why do men search for gym buddi on Grdr? An vtigatn</h1></div><div class="ContentHearAccredatn-lfctVB etVsnJ ntent-hear__accredatn" data-ttid="ContentHearAccredatn"><div class="ContentHearDek-bIqFFZ eASNBN">Grdr has both fed self by and e to fe the language of queer men. One of the most recent trends to be seen across people's profil is the rise of the hunt for ‘gym buddi’. Louis Stapl went search of whether the quote marks were warranted or not</div><div class="ContentHearByle-kmPyCa emiglw"><div class="ContentHearByleContent-dpPmNn DRFq"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl ContentHearByl-cZqgyJ bHLeKI"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH gtxxjM byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span><a class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ByleLk-gEnFiw iUEiRd fhQbnq dzFUnH eErqIx byle__name-lk button" href="/profile/louie-stapl">Louis Stapl</a></span></span></p></div><time data-ttid="ContentHearPublishDate" dateTime="2021-08-14T19:00:00+01:00" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ ContentHearPublishDate-eIBicG iUEiRd ivrQAn cZpOSL">14 Augt 2021</time></div></div><div class="SocialInsWrapper-hKMEXV bqESvf social-ins social-ins--standard ContentHearAccredatnSocialIns-jorO eYcyYU ntent-hear__social-share"><ul data-ttid="socialInslist" class="SocialInsList-cHVTIA ivmblD social-ins__list"></ul></div></div></div><div class="ContentHearLeadAsset-hGbumP dDDxdb lead-asset ContentHearLeadAssetWrapper-hfXHEc Grck lead-asset--width-grid" data-ttid="ContentHearLeadAsset"><figure class="ContentHearLeadAssetContent-kOfYSG dRGWbI"><div class="ContentHearLeadAssetContentMedia-bLEIpi hgDTU lead-asset__ntent__photo"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW jvZaPI rponsive-asset ContentHearRponsiveAsset-bREgIb hONbnm"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz ccdiSo"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa ContentHearRponsiveAsset-bREgIb hONbnm rponsive-image"><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w, 1920w, 2240w" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Image may nta Wheel Mache Human Person Clothg Apparel Sport and Sports" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></picture></div></div></span><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE dVZQpq ptn ContentHearLeadAssetCaptn-hPWmSN XczIg"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd cdsJgg fNaHcW ptn__cred">@Josiebjudd</span></div></div></figure></div></div></hear></div><div data-attribute-verso-pattern="article-body" class="ArticlePageContentBackGround-cNiFNN kAwnHf article-body__ntent"><div class="ArticlePageChunksContent-etcMtP eRxRjL"><div data-ttid="ArticlePageChunks" class="ArticlePageChunks-fLyCVG eOdfIs"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Downloadg <a href=">Grdr</a> – then letg , before re-downloadg , only to lete aga – has bee a morn re of passage for queer men. The hook-up app revolutnised datg and sex when arrived 2009, spirg the lik of <a href=">Tr</a> and the digised, swipe-heavy datg world of today. Grdr changed gay culture forever too: created a visual map that proved that gay and bi men are lerally everywhere (sometim jt feet away!). The app quickly beme the most popular gay app the world and, by 2014, had seven ln ers worldwi. It’s been referenced many TV shows and films too, om <em>Glee</em> to <em>How to Get Away Wh Murr</em>, <em>The</em> <em>Real Hoewiv</em> and, perhaps most ftgly, <em>Trawreck</em>.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>So many discsns about gay culture end up circlg back to Grdr, om <a href=">body image</a> to <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">sexual racism</a>, “<a href=">chemsex</a>” and <a href=">bottom-shamg</a>. On the app, ers often behave differently to how they would “real life” and gay Twter is often flood wh screengrabs of men behavg badly, btally and straight-up bizarrely. There’s a whole glossary of emoji-driven s and even visual “trib” – such as “otters”, “daddi”, “clean cut” and “twks” – which would take a very long time to expla to most straight people.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>One trend that I’ve noticed – and have long been trigued by – is men lookg for a “gym buddy” on Grdr. On er profil, ’s very mon to see the sire for a “gym bud” listed alongsi someone’s favoure drk (ually g), height, body type and preferred sexual posn. But why?</p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="7z4xm"></div></div><p>On the face of thgs, a gym buddy is jt a iend to go to the gym wh. Some people do e Grdr for platonic nnectns, particularly if they’ve jt moved somewhere new, but ’s neverthels an trigug place to look for a gym pann. <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Michael</a>, a 24-year-old gay man who enjoys group exercise class and gog to the gym wh iends, thks this trend mak sense. “Personally, I ed to fd the gym an credibly difficult place to be. It was like hyper-masculy on speed, wh this immense prsure to be f, strong and ultimately to know what you’re dog,” he tells <em>GQ</em>. “I thk workg out wh somebody n break that timidatn bee ’s a) somebody to back up what you’re dog and b) potentially somebody to gui or ach you. It’s safety numbers what n be a sry place.”</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>‘You have more time to work out whether a guy is hot at the gym than nus he’s probably eded’</p></div></asi><p>Personally, the ia of beg sweaty and exhsted around someone I don’t know very well fills me wh dread (particularly if he’s also a gay man which, no, I won’t be unpackg at this time!). But that’s not Michael’s experience. “In the age of athleisure and boutique gyms, the gym don’t have to be a gross and sweaty place,” he says. “People look <em>good</em> at the gym. Pl, they n suck each other off the steam room or have sex the shower.”</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>After speakg wh Grdr ers London, I n nfirm that Michael is right spectg that sometim the search for gym buddi go beyond a platonic iendship. There’s obvly a reason why men are g Grdr, specifilly, this way (there are already apps for fdg a gym buddy, such as <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">GymBuddy</a> and <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">SportPartner</a>). Some guys, such as 26-year-old Jam*, were genuely g Grdr to look for a pal to exercise wh, bee “Straight men might thk I’m htg on them or not be fortable workg out wh me. Or, even if they aren’t thkg that, the feelg that they might be would make me feel awkward.” But others, such as 28-year-old Callum*, were hopg for “somethg more” if the attractn was there, bee “You have more time to work out whether a guy is hot at the gym than <a href=">nus</a> he’s probably eded, or jt before a hook-up, and ’s ls prsure than meetg somewhere else.”</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="64oifs"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="bg2kl"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>It’s hardly surprisg that the gym might seem like a particularly uful backdrop for sex – after all, they are spac full of sweaty men not much clothg. On gay Twter, seems like everyone has a “gym csh” and there’s also an entire genre of porn that fetishis gyms and the locker room. In 2019, <a href="><em>Vice UK</em> vtigated</a> why so many gay men still go cisg at the gym, after a Virg Active health club emailed s members sayg would be sendg unrver police to check for “appropriate behavur”. Many garments that have bee part of the sartorial language of gay men, om <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">jockstraps</a> to tube socks and <a href=">short shorts</a>, are also rooted sportswear. For some, there is clearly a feelg of empowerment beg legibly gay a hyper-mascule space or reclaimg an athetic or pastime that they once felt exclud om.</p><p>Gyms are horny, but also que anx, plac for some gay men. “So many of my clients are unfortable gyms,” says <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Matt Boyl</a>, founr of <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Fter Confint You</a>, a fns pany that helps gay, bi and trans guys get to exercise. When to the lk between “gym buddi” and sex, Boyl thks ’s twofold: “The gym is how you n build your body and th appear more ‘manly’. Speakg om personal experience, I ed to thk that would make me seem more ‘straight’.” Boyl also spects that gyms n be a “steppg stone” for some gay men, bee many have snas and steam rooms, which n be a build up to visg gay snas. “This might appeal to men who are sexually attracted to men, but don’t want to seem overly ‘gay’ any other way,” he says.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>'If they're not fortable askg for the kd of sex that they actually want, this is a stand- for that'</p></div></asi><p>But why would men go to the trouble of dng a “gym bud” rather than simply gog on a date or straight to sex? “Grdr is known for havg ers who don’t necsarily intify as gay or bi, so they’ve maybe experimented, or may intify as straight, but still want to have sex wh men,” gay fns wrer <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Spenser Mtel</a> tells <em>GQ</em>. “I thk that lookg for a ‘gym buddy’ is perhaps a way for them to engage wh gay men, even though they aren’t able to exprs what their sexual sir are. If they're not fortable askg for the kd of sex that they actually want, this is a stand- for that.”</p><p>Mtel is right that, on Grdr, a lot of the profil lookg for a “gym buddy” intify themselv as “straight”. Many don’t have photos on their profil and some are relatnships wh women. One man, who didn’t share his name, told me that he wouldn’t want to be seen on a date wh a man as he’s not out. He also n’t host men at his hoe, bee he’s married to a woman and don’t like sendg pictur of his face on Grdr. So the gym is a risk-ee place to meet men who might not otherwise agree to meet him. Another er, who specifilly labelled himself as “Str8” and a “top” (the perative role gay sex), tells me that he’s only to “mascule” men sexually but has no tert any chat. “I always need to cum most after a workout, so the gym showers are the easit place and gay men are more to NSA [no strgs attached] sex than women,” he says.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jxBcTH sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="0svze9"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div><div data-attr-viewport-monor="" class="RecircMostPopularWrapper-bRuGTi jkTTgR 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data-no-id="hpzlvi"></div></div></li></ul><div class="RecircMostPopularFooter-enPjgs joBAUg"></div></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="h3rybo"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa edvONh body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>It might sound perplexg to hear about men on Grdr intifyg as straight, but ’s not unmon for a distctn and hierarchy to be drawn between sexual activy and romantic relatnships (this n be <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">seen as far back as Ancient Greece</a>). Some people also perceive a difference between a physil behavur, such as sex wh men, and the formatn of a “gay inty.” Pl, even the UK 2021, not everyone has the abily to be open about their sexualy.</p><p>Social psychology might also tell why men, particularly those who nsir themselv mascule or straight, might highlight the gym as important to them on an app. Social psychologist <a data-offer-url=" class="external-lk" data-event-click="{"element":"ExternalLk","outgogURL":"" href=" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank">Rsell Spears</a> theoris that when we go onle a more anonymo or semi-anonymo environment, where there’s ls rmatn about people, we rely more on social norms (such as, for men to be sporty and strong). Spears <a href=">lls this</a> tenncy the “-dividualisatn hypothis”, which might be a reason why “straight” men on Grdr emphasise their mment to exercise.</p><asi aria-hidn="te" class="PullQuoteEmbedWrapper-sc-EoVjf fQbAzo"><div class="PullQuoteDerativeBorr-sc-iUyOLj fAzNVP"></div><div class="PullQuoteEmbedContent-sc-kTcfhx eltaVW"><p>'If you jt say, “Shall we go to the gym together?” and get rejected, 's ls damagg to your self-teem'</p></div></asi><p>The gym and Grdr are both plac where men might feel petive wh each other or secure about their masculy. Mtel thks this affects gay men particular. “I thk already at the gym, for gay men, there's a sense of ‘Am I attracted to this person? Or am I jt jealo of them?’,” he says. “Our workout rout are very personal to and timate, which mak me thk havg a ‘gym buddy’ is ls about workg out and more about nnectg a mascule, sanctned way.” Boyl thks that uld also be about lseng the prsure of rejectn. “If you jt say, ‘Shall we go to the gym together?’ and get rejected, 's ls damagg to your self-teem,” he says. “And also allows men to jtify their reason for beg on a gay hook-up app: ‘I’m on Grdr, but I maly e for gym buddi!’”</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>The typ of negotiatns remd me of somethg PhD stunt Rob Craig observed while discsg why men might make an effort to appear more mascule over text. Speakg to <em>GQ</em> April, he drew a parallel between how men talk on Grdr and the barbershop, as a nearly male-only space where men are seekg physil timacy,” he <a href=">said</a>, remarkg on how both spac see an crease men sayg “man”, “du”, “bro” and “mate”. “The e of male slang rerc the speaker’s masculy a space where ’s placed jeopardy, such as a gay male cisg app,” he add. Surely, then, the same parallel n also be drawn between the digal space of Grdr and the physil space of the gym?</p><p>At first, the search for gym buddi on Grdr might seem like a bizarre trend that isn’t noteworthy. But actually, tersects wh some big qutns about how men (om gay to “straight”) feel like they’re supposed to behave different spac. The gym and Grdr actually have a lot mon: they’re both plac where there’s an emphasis on self-improvement, where there’s a perceptn of petn, where masculy is beg flnted, qutned and, ccially, where sex might be on the rds. So, really, how uld men not be lookg for “gym buddi” on Grdr? They’re natural bedfellows – pun tend.</p><p><em>*This is a psdonym</em></p><div role="headg" aria-level="4" class="headg-h4">Now read</div><p><a href="><strong>Why do men want to play vil's advote? 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data-ttid="SummaryItemHed"><em>Heartstopper</em> season 2 handl the awkward first fumbl of gay sex wh grace</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">Heartstopper addrs sex for the first time season 2, and 's as wholome as you'd expect</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Jack Kg</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div 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class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Snappg Cillian Murphy and brgg babi — we've fotten how to behave at the cema</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">Gog to the cema is beg popular aga. But the worst film-goers are g back, too</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Jack Kg</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM ad ad--read-more"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--read-more" data-no-id="voymj"></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-4" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Fashn was already livg on the ‘Pla of the Bass’" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fashn</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-4" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Fashn was already livg on the ‘Pla of the Bass’</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">The song of the summer is meant to be a send-up. So why do look so faiar?</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Murray Clark </span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-5" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Embrace slow nng, the only way to improve your pace" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-5" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Embrace slow nng, the only way to improve your pace</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">‘Stop nng too fast, get your sexy pace on’ is the msage we're gettg om the experts when – listen up and learn stead of riskg jury</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Phil Hilton</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 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class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-6" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">How to get a rock solid re whout leavg the hoe</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">Unfortunately, do still require some exercisg</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Tom Ward</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-7" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="How to exercise hot weather" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Fns</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-7" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">How to exercise hot weather</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">It might be the last thg on your md durg a heatwave, but exercise was for no-one. Here are some tips on how to maximise your workout when the temperature ris</div><div class="SummaryItemByleWrapper-boCfbi hYsZi summary-em__byle-date-in"><div class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY jbnRem summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH bfGBQB byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dlWgVJ gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>David Taylor</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="SummaryItemWrapper-iwvBff hLmFoh summary-em summary-em--has-mobile-borr summary-em--ARTICLE summary-em--no-in summary-em--text-align-left summary-em--layout-placement-text-below-sktop-only summary-em--layout-posn-image-left summary-em--layout-proportns-33-66 summary-em--si-by-si-align-top summary-em--si-by-si-image-right-mobile-false summary-em--standard SummaryCollectnGridSummaryItem-WColm hMhLgM" role="button" tabx="0"><div class="SummaryItemAssetContaer-gwhFFH VOyg summary-em__asset-ntaer"><a class="SummaryItemImageLk-dshqxb USLvL summary-em__image-lk summary-em-trackg__image-lk" href=" aria-hidn="te" tabx="-1" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-image-8" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" target="_self"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image"><div data-tt="aspect-rat-ntaer" class="AspectRatContaer-bJHpJz hlQxkn"><div class="aspect-rat--overlay-ntaer"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa SummaryItemRponsiveAsset-hjGIGg egpoQR summary-em__image rponsive-image"><noscript><source media="(max-width: 767px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><source media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet="" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Stop talkg at gigs" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></noscript></picture></div></div></span></a></div><div class="SummaryItemContent-eiDYMl kACKV summary-em__ntent"><div class="RubricWrapper-dKmCNX kpuNXj bric SummaryItemRubric-dguGKN lapGFj summary-em__bric"><span class="RubricName-fVtemz cLxcNi">Culture</span></div><a class="SummaryItemHedLk-civM fFPekr summary-em-trackg__hed-lk summary-em__hed-lk" data-ponent-type="recirc-river" data-recirc-id="em-hed-8" data-recirc-pattern="summary-em" href=" target="_self"><div data-ttid="ClampWrapper" class="ClampWrapper-kZxfkB hTTNGO clamp SummaryItemHedBase-hiFYpQ ejPNRQ summary-em__hed"><div class="ClampContent-hilPkr jVhSBH"><div class="SummaryItemHedTag-TWblf dipRRs" data-ttid="SummaryItemHed">Stop talkg at gigs</div></div></div></a><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ SummaryItemDek-CRfsi iUEiRd flGlLZ fJbnjS summary-em__k">Loud crowds spoilt the magic of Aphex Tw and Boygeni this weekend – maybe ’s time people 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