Matthew Gong, gay Mormon, reflects on his journey om ner war to ner peace

In this terview, Tom Christofferson, a gay Latter-day Sat, talks about the so-lled "excln policy," which was stuted November 2015 and rcd 2019. He also discs what has happened The Church of J Christ of Latter-day Sats and s LGBTQ members sce then, cludg the ntroversial speech by apostle Jefey R. Holland. * gay mormon interview *

The policy later was abandoned, but the pa among LGBTQ members and their alli has the excerpts om The Salt Lake Tribune’s “Mormon Land” podst, Tom Christofferson, a proment LGBTQ member and thor of “That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Fah and Fay, ” discs the November 2015 policy and subsequent were you when the new November 2015 policy beme public and what did you thk at the time?

”And th he me to see his gay self as a “weed” the Latter-day Sat is hardly alone such a feelg of beg misplaced, of urse, but his experience is unual.

”Though Gong’s relatnship wh his parents got off to a “rocky start” after he me out — not for lack of love or rejectn but for mismunitn — they are now as close as ever and talk almost every isn’t to say father and son agree on all asked 2018 if havg a gay son had affected his views on LGBTQ issu, the apostle replied, “We love each member of our fay. C., area, where his dad worked at a policy thk the fay moved to Utah, the young Gong found himself a much more homogeneo muny wh a “domant culture, ” he says, where his peers and teachers weren’t exactly sure about his he Mexin?

1436-1437: WHEN A GAY MORMON MAN MARRI A WOMAN – KYLE ASHWORTH

Tom Christofferson, thor of “That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon’s Perspective on Fah and Fay,” shar his experienc and personal nversn. * gay mormon interview *

”)He didn’t want to accept himself as gay, “bee the only queerns I had ever seen was bad” — the AIDS crisis, promiscuy, ath.

019-021: MORMON, MARRIED, GAY AND FACG DISCIPLE–AN INTERVIEW WH BUCKLEY JEPPSON

is an official webse om The Church of J Christ of Latter-day Sats. The se’s purpose is to help everyone better unrstand same-sex attractn om a gospel perspective. * gay mormon interview *

In movi, gays were victims, targets for bulli, or “the sassy iend. He was lled to London on a Mandar-speakg missn his 21st birthday, at the start of the fal year on his missn, Gong wrote separate emails to each of his brothers and his parents to tell them he was gay. Jt two years ago, the church received much public praise for rcdg a 2015 policy, ntroversial among Mormons at the time, that clared the mor children of gay people uld not be baptized to or jo the church as members—at least not until they were 18 years old, and only then if they would nounce their parents’ marriage and nmn their sexualy.

A GAY MORMON’S APPROACH TO FAH, FAY, AND DISCIPLHIP – AN INTERVIEW WH TOM CHRISTOFFERSON

* gay mormon interview *

Given how ntent the qutn of gay rights has been among Mormons sce the church threw s whole weight behd California’s anti-gay-marriage Proposn 8 2008, the post-2019 perd has been one of wele relative quiet om the church.

In the 18 months sce we moved here om Washgton, D.C., Holland’s speech was the first time I tly worried that my future kids might attend public school wh peers who would be tght about the evils of beg gay, week and week out at church. Hckley, who told Mormons was meant to “warn and forewarn” about the dangers of the world’s “shiftg valu.” But the proclamatn served a sendary legal role as the church planned s offensive agast gay rights.

PODST: I INTERVIEW JOSH WEED, A GAY MORMON WHO MARRIED A WOMAN

In this terview, Tom Christofferson, a gay Latter-day Sat, talks about the so-lled "excln policy," which was stuted November 2015 and rcd 2019. He also discs what has happened The Church of J Christ of Latter-day Sats and s LGBTQ members sce then, cludg the ntroversial speech by apostle Jefey R. Holland. * gay mormon interview *

The church clud the proclamatn as evince of s doctral mment to a heterosexual fay s amic brief agast gay marriage Hawaii jt two years later. Sex, or “procreative powers,” are only for married men and their wiv (no gay sex unr any circumstanc). Mormonism is now facg a world which not only the majory of outsirs, but also a signifint portn of their own membership—cludg s own universy’s faculty—seem to regnize that doctre for what is: a list of proposns phrased as irrefutable tths, issued by a group of men who grew up wh homophobia suffg every stutn their liv.

He sgled out one openly gay BYU alum particular, former valedictorian Matt Easton, who me out as gay his 2019 mencement speech. In simply intifyg himself as gay the urse of the speech, Holland alleged, Easton had “manered” the 2019 ceremony. The same day Holland issued his revanchist addrs to the faculty, BYU’s admistratn was openg and publicizg s new Office of Belongg, a long-sought-for refuge not only for BYU’s growg number of openly gay stunts, but also s relig and racial mori, who are reported to face wispread bias and prejudice on mp, acrdg to a report issued by an ternal Commtee on Race, Equy, and Belongg.

1484: THE GAY MORMON REFORMATN

In a raw, hont terview, Josh Searle, om eastern Idaho, recently discsed wh East Idaho Newswhat ’s like to be gay and an active member of the Church. * gay mormon interview *

At BYU, some of the celt technologi have been ed to attempt to end the gay surge. Still, today, the church funnels members who nfs to feelg “same-sex attractn” to support groups that enurage members to enter heterosexual marriag, wh promis that the gay feelgs will be overe after sufficient fahfulns, or at least, ath. Matt Easton has ced the wily publicized 2016 ath by suici of one of his classmat at BYU, Harry Fisher, as part of the reason for his cisn to e out as gay his valedictorian speech.

A GAY MORMON MISSN: A CONVERSATN WH JOHNNY TOWNSEND

Due to Mormon teachgs that there is no way to have romantic relatnships wh those of the same sex and be exalted the afterlife, gay Mormons face high rat of lonels, suicidaly, and prsn. Topil Gui, “Homosexual Behavr”. Gui to the Scriptur, “Homosexual Behavr”.

“What is the Church’s posn on homosexualy? Is OK to be iends wh people who have homosexual feelgs?, ” New Era, January 2012. “Church Updat Official ‘Mormon and Gay’ Webse, ” Newsroom.

It is the story of Kyle Ashworth – a ar, brilliant, talented iend, and the host of Latter Gay Stori podst. I’ve troduced several new chapters to my life sce then cludg: civil divorce (my ex wife and I are great iends and parents), g out as gay, leavg the church, etc.

CHURCH UPDAT OFFICIAL ‘MORMON AND GAY’ WEBSE

Now, I know and have many gay and lbian iends.

GAY MORMON

I prayed and I asked the Lord…why do you tell gay people not to act on their sexual feelgs and emotns.

IN RAW, BETIFUL INTERVIEW, GAY MORMON OPENS UP ABOUT HIS JOURNEY THE CHURCH, HIS MOTHER'S SUICI

Brother Holland showed great love toward all people straight, gay, lbian… He will not ny any of , but he do want to follow the gospel and allow J Christ to teach how to do that, no matter what or differenc.

I qutned myself once whether I was gay or not, and I found out I wasn’t. They weren’t really gay, but were enuraged to live that liftyle. I have been followg you on Latter Gay Sats for que a while now.

The parent of a child who experienc same-sex attractn or intifi as gay should choose to love and embrace that child. Those who experience same-sex attractn or intify as gay n fully participate the Church.

GAY MORMONS GRAPPLE WH FAH, SEXUALY

For those terted (and as referenced the podst), an anizatn entled “The Safe Space Coaln” has been formed to “ensure safety and rpect for gay and lbian Latter-day Sats, ” and is attemptg to garner support for Buckley and Mike.

John Dehl at has an terview wh the first married, gay Mormon almost threatened wh exmunitn.

But let’s see if I get this right: ’s homosexuals’ turn to get equal rights God’s te Church: Let’s make as unfortable as possible for the Church to stand by their published proclamatns agast homosexualy, so that the brethren will progrsively warm up to the ia of toleratg homosexual fai and petn God, who will then say “I was jt wag for you to ask” and reverse His doctre.

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I’m sorry that you appear to be a tt se for the subject of whether the church will regnize legal gay marriage, but I thk you are fully qualified. I thk you are qualified to reprent the se that one n be homosexual, be legally married, be spirual and thoughtful, and have a sire…even a nvictn to ream a te and fahful member of the church.

Certaly beg gay wouldn’t require the Holy Ghost to leave, but I thk is problematic to suggt that volvement sexual activy (among those of the same sex) don’t impact the fluence of the Holy Ghost.

1436-1437: WHEN A GAY MORMON MAN MARRI A WOMAN – KYLE ASHWORTH

[…] has an terview wh the first married, gay Mormon almost threatened wh exmunitn. The Bible nmns homosexual acts the law of Mos which is not generally followed by Christians anymore (we neighter burn animals to reem our ss, nor do we throw thgs away on which a women sat durg her perd, nor do we hate to wear drs ma up of different fibers, nor do we…). J do not nmn homosexualy, on the ntrary, he talks about people not beg suable for marriage om birth on (Mt 19, 12, nuch: nae = “marriage bed”, ouch = “not” => not suable for marriage).

The send part which mentns homosexualy is Pls talks Romans.

Ok, if you buy the story that homosexualy is due to the nfn of God wh his creatur, so all homosexuals have ted the s of worshippg creatur, whereas all heterosexuals did not, then I n’t argue wh you.

A Gay Mormon Missn: A Conversatn wh Johnny Townsend

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